What if being understood has less to do with words and more to do with how you are attuned to the world? In this episode — recorded in darkness — we unpack the word "understand," explore the longing for shared reality, and discover that true understanding is about energetic resonance that goes beyond words. From shared codes and morphic fields to dancing your PhD, this conversation turns understanding inside out.

📍Chapters

00:00 Intro 

01:16 Welcome & the question of being understood 

05:58 Game: Unpacking the word "understand" 

16:35 Game: "To be understood is like…" — beyond the human world 

24:08 Into the darkness: masks on 

25:25 What does it mean to be understood? 

37:26 How often do we truly feel understood? 

44:01 Being seen vs being understood

48:48 Men vs Women 

50:12 What does it take to be understood? 

54:03 Can we be understood in our confusion? 

59:49 The longing for shared reality 

1:04:31 Dance Your PhD & stepping out of your coordinate system 

1:11:43 Altered states and the depth of understanding 

1:18:04 The darkness experiment: what did it reveal?

1:19:41 Can understanding last?

1:27:11 Attunement, shared codes and morphic fields

1:30:44 Parting reflections 

1:34:56 Outro

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* Yulia Bogdanova

* Polina Khodova

* Irina Mishina

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