What happens when you decide your ideas are worthy of your time, energy, and intention?

This week, I’m coming to you from New Orleans with some very exciting news: I am a nine-time Reelie Awards finalist. Nine nominations. Seven categories. Two categories where I am quite literally competing against myself, which is both wild and deeply hilarious.

But this episode is not only about the nominations. It is about what changed after I attended The Reelies last year and put myself in a room full of people who treated short-form video as a legitimate creative discipline. That room stretched me. It made me think more deeply about storytelling, hooks, pacing, editing, performance, and what might happen if I gave my ideas more time instead of treating every reel like a quick little side project.

In this episode, I’m talking about:

• Why receiving recognition can feel surprisingly vulnerable

• The ways women minimize their accomplishments before anyone else can

• How attending The Reelies changed the way I saw my work

• Why making more content helped me become less precious about every post

• What happens when you treat visibility as a creative practice, not an afterthought

• Why your weird, specific ideas may be exactly the ones people remember

• The invisible work that happens before any visible success

• Why you cannot be recognized for work you never publish

Your version of recognition may not be an award. It might be a speaking invitation, a dream client, a collaboration, a new opportunity, or simply becoming known for a point of view that is entirely your own. But first, you have to publish. You have to submit. You have to put your name in the conversation. You are allowed to change your mind about who you are and what you do. You are allowed to add a new title. You are allowed to take your creativity seriously. And you do not have to pretend your accomplishments mean nothing in order to remain likable.

Vote in The Reelies

I am nominated nine times across seven categories, including Best Transformational Reel, Most Engaging Story, Best Talking Head Reel, Best Use of Effects, Best Use of Trending Audio, Best B-Roll Reel, and Best Acting in a Reel.

Voting closes August 9, 2026: https://www.thereelies.show/voting

You can vote once in each category, and I highly recommend watching the other finalists too. I am in truly fantastic company.

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Now go publish the idea, submit the reel, shoot your shot, and show up anyway.

Attending means you bought the ticket, packed the bag, glanced at the schedule, and made it into the room.

Showing up means you decided who you wanted to be before you ever arrived.

In this episode, I’m sharing how I prepare for conferences both logistically and emotionally, why I believe conferences are what you make of them, and the very true story of how I arrived at Social Media Marketing World as a regular attendee and left as one of the emcees.

Yes. That actually happened.

It started with filling out the conference app, replying to a message, agreeing to be a backup, and packing an extra outfit “just in case.”

Then, halfway through lunch, I got the call.

This episode is about being ready when the unexpected opportunity arrives, making yourself visible before anyone knows your name, and increasing the surface area for good things to find you.

Because sometimes showing up looks like introducing yourself at the party.

Sometimes it looks like hosting the 7:00 a.m. breakfast meetup.

And sometimes it looks like running through a convention center with half a burrito still in your mouth because someone needs you onstage.

The difference between simply attending and fully showing up

How to decide who you want to be before a conference begins

Why filling out the conference app actually matters

The small decision that led to an unexpected emcee opportunity

How I prepared myself to be seen before I knew I would be onstage

The emotional shift from attendee to emcee

Why staying ready makes it easier to say yes

How conferences increase the surface area for opportunity

What happened when I was the only person who replied

Whether you are heading to NACE, WIPPACON, CFWA, Engage, Wedding MBA, or a conference in a completely different industry, this episode will help you think beyond your ticket and your travel plans.

The real question is not simply whether you are going.

It is: How are you going to show up once you get there?

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And remember: pack the extra outfit.

Posting the exact same video on Instagram and TikTok sounds efficient. But what happens when the content that performs beautifully on one platform completely flops on the other? In this episode, Renée shares the realization that changed the way she approaches her content: Instagram and TikTok are cousins, not twins. They may share the same creator, message, and business, but each platform has its own personality, culture, and expectations. Instagram tends to reward more polished, intentional, business-forward content, while TikTok favors looser storytelling, opinions, personality, and content that feels a little more spontaneous. Renée also shares why her viral Instagram Reel barely moved on TikTok, why an old video about Italian chickens is still finding viewers, and how wedding professionals can use TikTok and WedTok to understand the conversations their clients are already having.

In this episode:

The question to consider this week: Where are you forcing your content to be twins when it would work better as cousins?

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If editing content fills you with immediate dread, the Verve & Vision Club includes a growing library of short, practical editing tutorials designed to help you learn one small skill at a time.

What happens when someone asks, “What about you?” and you say yes before you have any idea what you’re doing?

In this episode, Renée shares the story of the speaking opportunity that changed the direction of her career. What began as a volunteer leadership role, a borrowed idea, some hastily made slides, and a whole lot of nerve eventually put her in front of thousands of people and opened the door to a career she had not yet imagined for herself.

It’s a story about meeting the moment, taking action before you feel ready, and recognizing that the opportunity you keep waiting for may require you to pitch yourself first. Renée also challenges you to identify one thing you want to be part of and finally throw your hat in the ring. Because you may not feel ready. You can still show up anyway.

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In the very first episode of *Show Up Anyway*, Renée Dalo introduces the visibility problem: the gap between how qualified you are and how visible you allow yourself to be. If showing up online feels harder than it “should,” this episode will help you understand why. Renée talks about perfectionism, overthinking, nervous system resistance, fear of being judged, and why visibility is not just a marketing problem.

She also shares what happened when one of her reels reached 2.7 million views, why going viral did not magically change everything overnight, and how it did expand her capacity to be seen.

This episode is your permission slip to stop waiting until you feel ready and start building small visibility reps instead.

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Welcome to Show Up Anyway with Renée Dalo — a podcast for creative entrepreneurs navigating visibility, leadership, confidence, and the messy middle of being seen. In this trailer episode, Renée shares the heart behind the show and why showing up online feels so vulnerable for so many business owners right now. We’re talking about visibility, burnout, self-trust, consistency, speaking, content creation, and learning how to move forward before you feel fully “ready.” Because you do not need to be fearless to move forward. You just have to show up anyway.

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