Showing Up With Asher Gottesman

Author Abby Ellin was duped by a boyfriend and a year later was contacted by NCIS (not the tv show). It's a wild story. Today she joins us to talk about that as well as discuss being a journalist and her innate desire to know the truth, how polygraphs work, gaslighting, why we can believe our own lies, religious confusion, reincarnation, what it's like to have friends die during COVID, her Spotify Orginal Podcast Duped, coercive control, trusting your gut and so much more.

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Connect With Abby Ellin:

https://www.abbyellin.com/

https://open.spotify.com/show/35nG81iVW9kbfMkMXkTym6?

https://twitter.com/abbyellin

https://www.instagram.com/abby_ellin_author/

https://www.amazon.com/Duped-Double-Identities-Almost-Married-ebook/dp/B07CWQSKKS/

Connect With Asher Gottesman:

http://ashergottesman.com/

https://www.instagram.com/theasherg/

https://twitter.com/TheAsherG

Betty Gulko joins us today to talk about her journey to becoming a confidence coach. After a traumatic and difficult childhood, she took on a parental role to her parents. Then she slowly gained independence, went to Israel and it changed her life forever. In this episode, she talks about modest dressing, being kosher, having a mentally ill mother, what it was like to be in foster care, working with children with autism, becoming a fashion stylist, her podcast and so much more.

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Connect With Betty Gulko:

https://www.bettygulko.com/

https://www.instagram.com/bettygulko/

https://www.instagram.com/chatwithbetty/

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/chat-with-betty/id1500054080?id=1500054080

Connect With Asher Gottesman:

http://ashergottesman.com/

https://www.instagram.com/theasherg/

https://twitter.com/TheAsherG

Keynote speaker Clinton Young joins us to talk about re-igniting his inner pilot light. But success didn't come easy to him. In this episode, he discusses failing his own intuition, flow state, finding out what truly made him feel good, volunteering, energy, finding purpose and inner strength, strength vs flow, nature walks, journaling, meditation, how visualization is key and so much more. He also shares actionable tips you can integrate into your life if you feel stuck, especially if you are looking for a purpose. 

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Connect With Clinton Young:

https://WorldClassSpeakerSecrets.com

https://ClintonYoung.com

https://www.instagram.com/clintonspeaks/ 

Connect With Asher Gottesman:

http://ashergottesman.com/

https://www.instagram.com/theasherg/

https://twitter.com/TheAsherG

Professional mentor Joanna Chanis joins us today to discuss overcoming life's big challenges including cancer and divorce. She also talks about being Greek, meeting Gabby Bernstein, losing her job, being diagnosed with cancer, and ending her marriage all within nine months, her deep belief in God, "The Jo Method," finding pockets of authentic gratitude, what it is like to be in a state of resistance, going through the college admission process with her daughter during the pandemic, the importance of movement and so much more. 

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Connect With Joanna Channis:

https://www.joannachanis.com/

https://www.instagram.com/joannachanis/

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/about-life-with-jo/id1575229420

Connect With Asher Gottesman:

http://ashergottesman.com/

https://www.instagram.com/theasherg/

https://twitter.com/TheAsherG

Jodi M. Savage always wanted to be a writer but wanted something more practical. So she became an attorney. In this episode, Jodi joins us to discuss her journey as well as her recent essay on MadameNoire. She also talks about being raised by her grandmother because her mother was a drug addict, her lack of resentment towards her mother, learning about boundaries, why its okay to love people from a distance, being diagnosed with breast cancer while her mother had also breast cancer, allowing others to show up for her after being abandoned as a child, and so much more. 

MadameNoire Article:

https://madamenoire.com/1233651/frankie-and-cheryl-on-loving-and-losing-mothers-to-drug-addictions/

Connect With Jodi M. Savage:

https://www.jodimsavage.com/

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-work-rundown/id1497828896

https://www.instagram.com/jodimsavage/

https://twitter.com/jodimsavage

Connect With Asher Gottesman:

http://ashergottesman.com/

https://www.instagram.com/theasherg/

https://twitter.com/TheAsherG

"Skinny Vinny" Imperati joins us to tell his incredible story. In this episode, the Connecticut native talks about losing nearly 100 pounds, OCD, the blessings and curses he has in life, coming from a family of addiction and how he became an addict as a teenager, becoming homeless, living in a porta-potty (and the shame of why he was okay with it) moving to California to get sober, why having faith can be a challenge, becoming a content creator, working with Zackass, how he owes everything to sobriety, making amends, growing up Catholic but still having trouble with God, his favorite stunt and so much more! 

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https://www.instagram.com/skinnyvinny666

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCvHIb8L-1KExupgrYPDegFA

https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMRR7R3pE/

https://twitter.com/ImperatiVinny

Connect With Asher Gottesman:

http://ashergottesman.com/

https://www.instagram.com/theasherg/

https://twitter.com/TheAsherG

Singer and performer Mercy joins us today to talk about her journey to finding music and share her love of performing. After college, she ran away with the circus. When it didn't work out, she ended up getting into music. Today, many of her shows feature circus-like performances with fire and burlesque. But it hasn't been an easy road. She became addicted to alcohol and didn't want to be alive anymore. Then she quit drinking and it changed her life. In this episode, we discuss her journey and so much more. 

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Connect With Mercy:

http://theohhavemercy.com/

https://www.instagram.com/ohhavemercy/

Connect With Asher Gottesman:

http://ashergottesman.com/

https://www.instagram.com/theasherg/

https://twitter.com/TheAsherG

Amanda Orso loved throwing dinner parties and wanted to help others who felt intimidated by the process. So, she started a blog called The High Low Hostess. In this episode, we talk to Amanda about her approach to parties as well as some of the challenges she has experienced in life including being a stepmom, forming a relationship with her stepsons, the benefits of therapy, planning events during the pandemic, her foray into entrepreneurship with Barely Bread and so much more. 

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Connect With Amanda Orso:

https://highlowhostess.com/

https://www.instagram.com/highlowhostess/

Connect With Asher Gottesman:

http://ashergottesman.com/

https://www.instagram.com/theasherg/

https://twitter.com/TheAsherG

YouTuber Jen Cutting joins us today. She is a woman in long-term recovery, a Certified Addiction Recovery Coach and Certified Recovery Peer Advocate, as well as a Rape Crisis Counselor. In addition to that, she is a Narcan trainer and harm reduction advocate. 

In this episode, we talk about getting drugs (and suboxone) in prison, addiction, what drives her to stay sober, how she had her daughter in prison, the importance of faith, being a recovery coach in the same jail where she was an inmate, the dangers of fentanyl, meth, the importance of recovery, harm reduction and so much more. 

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Connect With Jen Cutting:

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPfNty6RVypD14dr5rGQhXA

https://www.instagram.com/jlcutting/

https://www.tiktok.com/@jencutting1?

Connect With Asher Gottesman:

http://ashergottesman.com/

https://www.instagram.com/theasherg/

https://twitter.com/TheAsherG

We are so excited to have Kristal Murren on the show today. Five years ago, she had a traumatic brain injury. As a single mom with no local support system, she was told she would have to accept being "average," and she said "no." In this episode, we talk about her journey to recovery, getting a master's degree in strategic leadership, her upcoming book Beautifully Bossy and Bossy Girl Leadership, redefining "bossy", authenticity, why we are all meant for something, her book, the importance of community, and so much more.

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Connect With Kristal Murren:

http://www.bossygirl.org/

http://www.instagram.com/kristalemmarie/

https://www.facebook.com/bossygirlleadershipllc

Connect With Asher Gottesman:

http://ashergottesman.com/

https://www.instagram.com/theasherg/

https://twitter.com/TheAsherG