Sh*t we do for Love

One of the questions I get asked most by clients is, “How do I get in touch with my intuition?”

Sora Shilling, a sacred space holder, strategy alchemist, transformative business coach, and powerful medicine woman, sat down with me to get into the crevices of this question. We cover:

• The hidden cost of looking up to people

…and so much more. If you’re a spiritual bunny, or someone who wants to get to know themselves better, this episode is full of inspiration for your journey.

Sora can be found at: Devoted Energy Coaching School: https://www.devotedway.com/devoted-energy-coaching-school

Don’t forget to head wendywindle.com to get your free copy of 5 ways to build boundaries that get back time for you.

Are you a sidekick in your own life?

If your day is designed around showing up for other people, you’re not the central character.

In this solo episode I’ll ask some probing questions to help you decide for yourself if you need to be recast as your own heroine.

As always, if you want extra support with this, find it at wendywindle.com/loveclub

Sometimes you hear a story that has so many other peoples’ life stories stamped into the fabric of it that it has to be shared. That’s my experience with Dr Cindy Childress, The Expert’s Ghostwriter. Cindy’s story of living her life to live up to someone else's expectations made me shiver with recognition, not only for myself, but because I get to speak to so many women who feel like they are not the main character in their own story.

Listen in as we share

• The aimlessness that comes when we are working to please someone else, and they leave us

What Cindy has to say about who gets to make the big decisions in her life now will inspire you to step up to main character status.

Check out all of Dr Cindy’s offers, including her quiz: Discover your Number 1 bestselling author personality at www.cindychildress.com

Want to have boundaries like Cindy’s grab your free guide: 5 Ways to build boundaries that get back time for you. Wendywindle.com

If you’re looking for support to be the heroine of your own life, I’ve got you. Head to wendywindle.com/loveclub to find out more.

A role model is someone who’s behaviour you want to imitate. As women, it feels like we already have enough role models shoved at us from every angle. The pressure to be the perfect partner, perfectly groomed - or perfectly tousled - perfectly carefree, or perfectly disciplined. You choose it, there’s a perfect version of it we’re meant to be.

But what if you could be your own role model?

What if that meant you know exactly how to organise your time and what to send your precious effort on?

In this solo episode, Wendy takes you through a short exercise to get in touch with your inner role model.

Mums! Why are you feeling so bad about bringing people into the world?!

Being a woman is enough to cope with, but how many women in my life are coping with this extra layer of guilt, shame and pressure?

I’ve invited mum and mum-coach Leanne Sia into the pod to pummel her with questions and get us some answers. 

Leanne Sia is an ex-corporate girl turned rock-star life coach/personal cheerleader, on a mission to help women to tell their inner critic to shut the f*ck up so that they can own their worth and live their best life.

Leanne has two degrees, is a qualified BYCA (Beautiful You Coaching Academy) coach and was a SHINE award finalist in 2021. She has 2 daughters, loves traveling, ugly shoes, decaf tea, houseplants, the colour yellow and firmly believes that tea tastes better in her favourite mug. 

We get into:

• The added mental load motherhood brings and how women aren’t coping with it.

This episode isn’t just for mums, we go into the thoughts that cause us to have low self esteem and how to flip the switch on them.

If you’ve been treating self care as a luxury you can’t afford, this episode is for you.

You can follow Leanne’s work on:

 https://www.instagram.com/theleannesia 

 www.leannesia.com

Good girls are taught to stuff our anger all the way down into our white cotton socks and pretend we’re immune to such a nasty feeling.

But what if anger was an ally?

What if she came ready to fight for your rights, values and freedoms?

In this quickie episode, learn how to turn your anger into your bestie for life.

Feeling anger is a sign that someone is trying to take the mickie. That’s why getting comfortable with your boundaries is so helpful: once your boundaries are clear, people are less likely to cross them.

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Emily Barclay started experiencing perimenopause symptoms at just 39, and, after over 3 years of trying to understand what was “wrong” she decided to bring together experts from around the world to help other women with the goal of ensuring nobody felt as lost as she had.

To that end, she launched perimenopausehub.com in 2019, along with its associated Facebook group, which now has over 57,000 members.

Emily lives in South Norfolk with her partner and their 5 dogs.

This episode uncovers so much Sh*t We Do for Love I can’t put it into one title:

• Shut up and push through even though we’re exhausted

Emily and I bond over discovering how conditional our self love was before we literally couldn’t get off the sofa. Is your self worth dependent on your accomplishments? Perimenopause will bring you to a whole new level of self love.

Do you ever curse at yourself, “Why am I doing this AGAIN?! What is WRONG with me? Why can’t I just stick up for myself?!”

If so, there’s a high chance you’ve fallen into the good girl trap.

In this solo episode I’ll break down the programming in our minds that makes us act like we are dependent on the people around us for approval. The truth is, we can get all the love we need right here and now. We just have to be willing to cut the imaginary rope that ties us.

Discover:

• How to stop people pleasing, perfectionism and procrastination

Don’t forget to get your copy of my free guide to Build Boundaries that get back time for you: www.wendywindle.com

Learning to be okay with having wealth is a huge part of learning to love and accept our own needs and desires.

The Shit We Do for Love we tackle in this episode is our habit of forever putting off feeling good because we haven’t earned it yet.

We’ll lift the lid on the system that is designed for us to fail and feel bad, while promising us gold at the end of a rainbow that doesn’t exist.

We explore;

• How the right attitude can put us in flow - meaning cash flow

Don’t forget to grab your free guide to build boundaries that get back time for you, because time IS wealth. 

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Tara Winters is an award winning life coach, soul guide, tarot reader, speaker, writer and mother of three children who believes that money is an energy that goes beyond numbers in the bank or physical notes and coins. What I love about Tara is that even though she’s a spiritual earth mama - she’s also a career accountant. This woman knows money.

• Does how abundant we feel have to have anything to do with the numbers in our bank?

We dig into the money blocks that keep us pushing away abundance even though we say we want it. This episode of Shit We Do for Love is all about why we are content to stay poor to be liked.