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Life is complicated enough as it is. Today’s emphasis on finding the “real You” just makes things even more stressful. Alhamdulillah as Muslims, we have a Prophetic legacy to rely on that gives us direction and helps us find meaning in even life’s most mundane tasks. By finding purpose beyond ourselves, we find relief and fulfillment, even when times look tough.

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عن كعب بن عُجرَةَ رضي الله عنه قال: قال رسول الله ﷺ :يَا كَعْبُ بن عُجرَةَ إِنَّهُ لَا يَدْخُلُ الْجَنَّةَ لَحْمٌ وَلَا دَمٌ نَبَتَا على سُحْتٍ، النَّارُ أَوْلَى بِهِ، يَا كَعْبُ بن عُجرَةَ، النَّاسُ غَادِيَانِ، غَادٍ فِى فَكاكِ نَفسِهِ فَمُعْتِقُهَا، وَغَادٍ فَمُوبقُهَا، يَا كَعْبُ بن عُجرَةَ، الصَّلَاةُ قُربانٌ، وَالصَّوْمُ جُنَّةٌ، وَالصَّدَقَةُ تُطفِئُ الْخَطِيئَةَ كَمَا يَذْهَبُ الْجَليدُ عَلَى الصَّفَا

أخرجه ابن حبان في صحيحه

On the authority of Ka`b ibn `Ujra, the Messenger of Allah ﷺ  said, “O Ka`b ibn `Ujra: Flesh or blood that has grown on ill-gotten gain shall not enter the Garden. The Fire is more worthy of it. O Ka`b ibn `Ujra: All people set forth anew in the morn as either one of two types. One, in search of ransoming his self, sets it free [from the Fire], while the other destroys it. O Ka`b ibn `Ujra: Prayer is an offering to Allah, fasting is a shield, and charity puts out a misdeed just as snow disappears on rock.”

Hadith related in Sahih Ibn Hibban, featured in Sila’s Legacies series on Instagram

TIMESTAMPS:

02:00 What is a ghadi?

03:50 The desire to be unique

05:00 Early morning construction workers

07:50 Living among Muslims gives a sense of purpose

9:45 What is your driving force?

11:30 You’re not as free as you think

13:45 True liberation

15:00 The wondrous state of the believer

18:00 Postmodernism and the individualization of meaning

20:00 From confidence to incoherence

22:10 Can male ulama understand women’s concerns?

24:30 Why we distrust religious authority

27:17 Eastern Muslim attraction to Western individualism

28:44 The perspectival advantage of American Muslims

30:55 Unified in purpose; diverse in form

32:50 The only real need of the human being

34:00 Unified purpose as antidote to contemporary anxiety

#intention

#postmodernism,

#purpose of life

This episode offers the phrase “sexual responsibility” as a value-affirming alternative to the trending phrase “spiritual abuse.” When a community uses the phrase “sexual responsibility” to affirm that it upholds appropriate, Godconscious behavior for itself and its community members, it sends a statement that is clear, positive, and self-confident. On the other hand, when the phrase “spiritual abuse” is used, it indicates a defensive stance that begins and ends with under-confidence in our religious scholars, and ultimately in ourselves as a community. If our aim is to communicate our values regarding how men in positions of religious authority should act, we should do so in a way that does not indirectly call into question men and authority figures more generally.TEXT IN FOCUS:“Having such a culture of taqwa engrained into the practice of Islam in America would help the male scholars do right just as it would help women. There are, in fact, many ‘ulama in America who do take measures of taqwa when teaching and interacting with their female students...What is unfortunate, however, is that these measures do not match up with the current religious atmosphere in America. The ‘ulama are labeled as unaccommodating or extremist if they ask for such protective measures to be taken. We have to realize though that if such taqwa-centered practices are normalized, and are instituted from a place of wanting to please Allah, then everyone in the community will feel more confident to act according to the laws of God and to stand up for these laws when they are being violated.” –Khan, Fareeha, “Reconnecting with Our Scholars Upon the Plain of Taqwa,”

Loneliness plagues a lot of people today, and our social habits aren’t helping. But a good social life starts with the simplest steps. This episode focuses in on four, almost-too-simple-looking, tips for how to build a healthier social existence. When these prophetic tips are implemented, they help both the individual and the collective society get healthy and stay strong—physically, emotionally, and spiritually.

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أفشِ السَّلامَ،وأطعِمِ الطَّعامَ، وصِلِ الأرحامَ، وقُمْ باللَّيلِ والنّاسُ نيامٌ، وادخُلِالجنَّةَ بِسَلامٍ

“Spread the greetings of peace, feed people, maintain ties of kinship, stand in prayer at night while others sleep, and enter Jannah thereby in peace.”

– hadith related by Ahmad, to be featured in Sila’s Legacies series on Instagram

TIMESTAMPS (AI generated, may have inconsistencies):

[1:31] The four actions to enter Jannah mentioned in the hadith: giving salam, feeding people, maintaining kinship, and praying at night.

[4:01] The importance of human (not virtual) interaction

[6:31] The social structure in the hadith, from general greetings to more intimate family connections.

[9:01] The significance of giving salam and its impact on social interactions.

[12:01] Personal anecdotes about the power of salam in different contexts.

[15:01] The role of feeding people in building community and maintaining relationships.

[18:01] Challenges of hosting and feeding in modern times, especially for women.

[21:01] The importance of simplicity and intention in hosting and maintaining social ties.

[24:01] The role of family involvement in social gatherings and the benefits of including children.

[27:01] The impact of social gatherings on community building and reducing loneliness.

[30:01] The connection between social actions and personal worship.

[33:01] Reflection on the hadith as a guide for social and spiritual practices.

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#loneliness #healthy_societies #social_Sunnahs

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This episode explores societal perceptions of aging, focusing on cultural differences between Western and Islamic perspectives. Key topics include the role of women as they age, the concept of khidma in Islamic culture, and the spiritual significance of aging. It also examines the impact of individualism on family dynamics and the challenges of self-reliance in old age.

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You have let yourself go. You

have not refused the years

politely, firmly like an anorexic

at a dinner party.

(from “I Met A Woman Who Wasn’t There,” by Marge Piercy)

TIMESTAMPS (AI generated, may have inconsistencies):

[0:31]: Poem highlighting the unrealistic expectations placed on aging women

[5:01] Western cultures emphasize youth and independence

[10:01] Valorization of independence conflicts with the natural process of aging

[12:00] The benefit of knowing old people

[15:01] Khidma (service) brings about beauty and connection; the lack of this experience can affect one's perception of aging.

[20:01] A spiritual perspective on aging

[25:01 ] The impact of capitalism on family and aging

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#aging #independence #khidma

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This episode explores the role of emotional intelligence and vulnerability in marital relationships, using examples from the life of the Prophet Muhammad. Key topics include the balance of tenderness and firmness, the concept of 'Naz,' and the impact of modern individualism on vulnerability. The discussion emphasizes the importance of creating a safe space in relationships and the role of gratitude, respect, and affection in marriage. It also highlights the cultural transmission of behavior and the significance of role models in teaching appropriate gender behavior and social obligations.

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