When you’re walking through the dark—grief, divorce, loss, or the fog of transition—it’s easy to ask, “What now? Who am I?” 

In this episode, Luke and Monica open their journals and hearts to talk about what it means to seek first the Kingdom of God when life doesn’t make sense. They share how worship, serving, and stewarding your inputs and outputs can help you find peace in the middle of pain. 

You’ll laugh through their candy-tax stories, nod along with their honesty about grief, and be reminded that God can redeem any story for His glory—even yours. 

They unpack real-life faith through three simple rhythms for hard seasons: 

• Sing through it – worship when it hurts.
• Serve through it – love others even while healing.
• Steward through it – guard what you pour in and what you pour out.

With Scripture, personal stories, and a lot of laughter, Luke and Monica remind us that faith isn’t about pretending everything’s fine—it’s trusting God when it’s not.
 

If you’re in a valley and need hope, this one’s for you.
 
 
🎧 Listen now for practical encouragement, biblical truth, and a good laugh from two people who know what it’s like to find Jesus in the storm.

📖 Matthew 6:33 – “But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.”


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In this episode of The Silver Lining Podcast with Luke and Monica, the conversation gets real about peace, counsel, and confusion — and how to recognize God’s voice when everyone else seems to have an opinion. 

Monica opens up about a pivotal season in her life, when dating, divorce recovery, and godly counsel all collided. She shares the peace she felt after ending a relationship that “looked right” but wasn’t right — and the unexpected moment she was called into her pastor’s office for a difficult conversation that left her seeking clarity and confirmation from God’s Word. 

Luke and Monica unpack what it really means to: 

• Trust God’s peace over people’s approval
• Receive godly counsel without outsourcing your relationship with God
• Discern between “good intentions” and “God’s direction”
• Understand that confusion isn’t from God — peace is
• See how necessary endings can lead to divine beginnings

Scripture references:
1 Corinthians 14:33 • 2 Timothy 1:7 • John 10:10 • Proverbs 11:14 • Psalm 1:1–2 • Isaiah 26:3

Key Quotes:
 

Whether you’re walking through a breakup, trying to find wisdom in relationships, or just learning to quiet the noise and listen for God’s peace — this one will speak straight to your heart.
 
Listen in, laugh a little, and leave with clarity that only comes from the Prince of Peace.
 
 
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You can be right where God wants you—living by faith—and still feel deeply uncomfortable… yet completely at peace in His presence. In this episode, Monica reads never-before-shared journal entries (Aug 13, 2023 & Sept 10, 2023) from the week of Alicia’s hospitalization and the weeks that followed. We talk through grief, gratitude, and how God’s peace guarded our hearts even when circumstances didn’t make sense. 

Mentioned in this episode (song): https://youtu.be/OqjGT9BSyJA?si=z9uU0cYGQ80X1bYn
 

Key idea: Peace isn’t the absence of discomfort; it’s the presence of God in the middle of it. 

Scriptures referenced (KJV):
Philippians 4:6–7 • Isaiah 26:3 • John 14:27 • Proverbs 3:5–6 • Hebrews 11:8 • 2 Timothy 1:7 • James 1:2–4 • Psalm 37:23–24 • Romans 15:13 • Psalm 46:10 

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Summary
 Today we talk about the surprising personal benefit of interceding—praying on behalf of others. From Jesus and the Holy Spirit interceding for us to the command for believers to pray “for all men,” we share how God used prayer to carry our family through grief, build compassion, bring peace, and draw our hearts closer to Him. Monica shares how a simple burden to pray became a lifeline, and Luke unpacks why intercession strengthens both the person praying and the people being prayed for. 

Key Scriptures (KJV)
 • 1 Timothy 2:1 — A call to supplications, prayers, intercessions, and giving of thanks for all.
 • Romans 8:26–27 — The Spirit maketh intercession for us with groanings which cannot be uttered.
 • Hebrews 7:25 — Jesus ever liveth to make intercession.
 • John 17 — Jesus’ prayer for His disciples and for us.
 • Ezekiel 22:30 — God seeks someone to stand in the gap.
 • Job 42:10 — The Lord turned Job’s captivity when he prayed for his friends.
 • James 5:16 — Pray one for another… the effectual fervent prayer of a righteous man availeth much.
 • Philippians 4:6–7 — Prayer and supplication lead to the peace of God. 

What We Cover
 • What intercession means (standing in the gap; intentional, compassionate prayer)
 • How praying for others deepens intimacy with God and builds empathy
 • Why intercession often brings unexpected personal peace
 • The “Job effect”: blessing and growth that follow praying for others
 • Unity in the church when we carry each other’s burdens in prayer
 • Our story: how a burden to pray became part of God’s provision 

Listener Takeaways
 • Start a simple daily list of 3 people to intercede for by name.
 • Pray especially for the ones who are hard to love—watch how God changes your heart.
 • Celebrate answered prayer with the people you’ve been praying for; it strengthens community.

God Always Answers Prayers… Just Not Always the Way We Pray 

God always answers prayers—sometimes with yes, sometimes wait, and sometimes no. In this episode, Luke and Monica share their stories of loss, healing, and God’s sovereignty through it all. 

Monica opens up about her cancer journey and the peace that carried her day by day. Luke shares about losing his late wife, Alicia, and how God’s grace met him in heartbreak. Together they talk about why God’s “no” is still love, how He weaves purpose through pain, and what it really means to trust Him when life doesn’t go as planned. 

Scriptures (KJV): Isaiah 55:8–9 • 2 Corinthians 12:7–10 • Philippians 4:6–7 • Romans 8:28 

If you’re walking through waiting, loss, or unanswered prayers, this episode reminds you that God still hears, still cares, and is always working—for your good and His glory.

Episode one dives into the famous “Welcome to Holland” illustration (by Emily Perl Kingsley) and why it reframed how we see grief, change, and second chances. We talk about living in the place you didn’t plan—divorce recovery, widowhood, blending a family, parenting on the spectrum—and how God meets us there with tulips, windmills, and grace.

You’ll hear our working definition of grief (the gap between expectation and reality), the difference between grief and mourning, and a few simple practices that helped us: gratitude journaling, serving others, and finding a “mud-puddle friend” who just sits with you. This isn’t a marriage or parenting podcast; it’s real life and real faith—learning to spot the silver lining because Jesus is present in every season.

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Welcome to Silver Lining with Luke & Monica! In our very first recording, we open up about why this podcast exists and what inspired us to start it. It’s not a marriage or parenting podcast—it’s a real-life, faith-filled conversation about finding Jesus in every season.

We talk about grief, healing, laughter, and how God has redeemed both of our stories—Luke as a widower and dad of four, and Monica through divorce and cancer recovery. Together we share the heart behind Silver Lining: that even in life’s darkest storms, God still brings beauty from ashes and purpose out of pain.

You’ll hear some humor (yes, including a “don’t step on a duck” story), some honest reflection, and a reminder that while we don’t get to choose our storms, we do get to choose our focus—and with Jesus, there’s always a silver lining.

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