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  • SLT 019: Juicing Simplified with Farnoosh Brock & Simple Travel Tips
    Juicing Simplified w/Farnoosh Brock & We’re Taking You On Vacation!

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    Dan and Vanessa Topic: Just a Few Travel Tips From The Road….Literally!

    Well, if the show sounds a bit different it’s because we’re on the road. That’s right, we’re taking you on vacation! It’s actually a “working trip” for us.

    We’ve never recorded on the road (we literally recorded our segment in the car).  The sound quality is just a bit off from our normal audio but not bad considering the circumstances! The interview however is excellent!  Just sayin….

    Anyhoos…typically when we have a guest interview we do a combined topic.  Since we want you to enjoy the entire interview, we decided to do a shorter segment for our topic.

    Additionally, when we know we are going to be out of town for a week, we try to record an episode in advance.  Well, we ended up having  such a busy week with clients leading up to our trip, that we simply ran short of time to prepare two episodes in only 3 days!

    It may not seem like a lot of work but each episode takes at least 16 hours to prep, record, edit in post-productions, post show notes, post in iTunes, etc.  We are still on our journey to simplify this process…believe us we are! Thankfully it is a labor of love…truly!!!!

    So, speaking of simplifying and in keeping with our philosophy on most things in life…we decided to keep our segment…well, you know…simple. 

    And since we’re on a road trip we decided to share a few travel tips with you.  Here are the things we discussed:

    • How we were able to pack 9 days of clothes for 3 people in just one piece of luggage.
      • How we make sure we never run out of outlets to charge our ever so precious gadgets by using a Belkin Mini Surge Protector with USB Charger.
        • How to easily travel with electronics using the Grid-It system by Cocoon.
          • How to ensure you’ll actually get to listen to your podcasts even when the 4G network gets ‘patchy.’
            • How bringing our little Apple TV replaced old school slide projectors to enjoy family slideshows and videos!
            • Interview with Farnoosh Brock of Prolific Living and her newly released book, The Healthy Juicer’s Bible.

              We’ve mentioned on the show before that we like to juice. We started juicing a little over a year ago in December of 2011 after Dan was completely and totally inspired by Joe Cross’s film, Fat, Sick, and Nearly Dead (this is an Amazon affiliate link but the movie is available for free on Netflix if you’re a member) which he saw on Netflix over 20 times since.

              Dan decided to try juicing and Vanessa decided to jump on board too and we’ve been hooked ever since.

              So, we thought it would be great to invite Farnoosh Brock (a friend we met at the World Domination Summit in 2011) who just published and released her new book, The Healthy Juicer’s Bible. It was released by Skyhorse Publishing and is selling out everywhere!

              Farnoosh is amazing, talented and a such a delight to talk with.  We think you’ll really love the interview!  Here are some of the questions we asked!

              1. So Farnoosh, who are you and how do you make people’s lives simpler?

              2. Do you remember your first fresh juice? If you can, tell us where and when that was, and what went through your mind before you drank it?

              3. When we talk about juicing, one of the first questions we’re asked is what’s the difference between juices and smoothies, or juicing and blending. How would you answer that?

              4. So Farnoosh, what would you list as some of the benefits of juicing?

              5. How do you recommend people get started with juicing?

              6. Dan’s been a member of your Green Juicing Clinic for almost a year now…since the start…and I love it! Tell us how you came up with that concept and a bit about the clinic.

              7. That leads us to your brand new and beautiful book “The Healthy Juicer’s Bible.” We love this little book! It is jam packed with great info, terrific tips, and the pictures are absolutely beautiful, too! Tell us how the book came about.

              8. You know we’re all about simplifying and for new juicers the whole process can seem a bit intensive. Can you share some tips on how you’ve simplified your juicing?

              9. Alright…we gotta ask…you’re stranded on a tropical island…thankfully there’s a solar powered juicer there and and this tropical island just happen to grow all the ingredients to your favorite juice. What juice would that be?

              10. Do you have any tips for juicing on the go or when you travel?

              The Thing Segment

              Dan’s Thing:  His love of podcasts and audiobooks and being able to take advantage of our road trip to catch up on many of them.

              Vanessa’s Thing:  Being able to help her in-laws organize their paper files by consolidating numerous boxes and folders into one, consolidated filing system that’s easy for everyone to access.

              Feedback

              You have been great about leaving iTunes ratings and reviews and we hope you keep it up. We’ve had reviews from:

              • Magpie left a comment on Episode 15 and also wrote a review for us on iTunes.
              • Tania left a comment on Episode 17. Tania has a very nice blog at mauishopgirl.com
              • Links

                The Healthy Juicer’s Bible

                Green Juicing Clinic 

                All of Farnoosh’s books on Amazon

                Get Simplifized: How To Travel With Electronics

                Get Simplifized: Belkin Travel Surge Protector

                 

                 

                1 hr 3 min
              • SLT018: Evernote Simplified (Part 2) & Time Saving Productivity Tips

                This week we continue with Evernote Simplified, Part 2, and Vanessa shares some awesome time saving productivity tips! So many people tell me that they love Evernote, but sometimes don’t “get” exactly how to use it. Sure, there’s lots of “technical” references out there about Evernote, but what their really looking for is Evernote simplified!

                So let’s get started! Read more…

                Dan’s Topic: Evernote Simplified (Part 2)

                Yep but before I start I just wanted to remind you that although we don’t try to push you to buy more stuff, if you do use Amazon.com like we do, you can helps support a charity that we support, Charitywater.org, simply by using our link. Anything the show earns through that link or from our resources page goes to support CharityWater. You can learn more about them at CharityWater.org

                Alright so in Episode 017 I covered all the basics of how to get information into Evernote and how to retrieve and use it. So…the the “ins and outs” if you will.

                Well today I want to take you on a little audio windshield  tour of the Evernote interface for the desktop version of Evernote. I’m on a Mac so if you’re on a PC the appearance may vary a bit, but the functionalities are generally the same.

                • Now, as much as I LOVE Evernote, the interface isn’t gonna win any beauty contests…but it does have a great personality!  And that’s what counts, right?
                  • But the recent update of Evernote does let you adjust Evernote to fit YOU!
                  • So in Evernote 5 you can design the layout that works for you.
                  • A Dashboard Tour:

                    The desktop interface of Evernote beginning in the top Menu Bar.

                    • In the menu bar from left to right you have the Forward/Back buttons, a menu with your account information, the circular arrows are the manual sync and sync indicator, then we have the little satellite dish looking thing thats for notifications and recent changes.
                    • In about the center of the top menu we have the New Note selection drop down for adding new notes, then finally, the ever powerful search bar.
                    • Left Panel. Moving on the left side we have what Evernote calls the left panel. Top to bottom in the left panel we have Shortcuts, Recent Notes, the Notes view option, the Notebooks view option, the Tags view option, the Atlas view option and the Trunk option.

                      • Shortcuts. Lets you store shortcuts that you can set yourself. This is great for notes you access on a regular basis.
                        • Recent Notes area. This area holds links to your 5 most recent notes for easy, but temporary access.
                          • Notes area. The area you’ll probably work in the most. You have some options on how you view your notes. You can choose between 4 different views:
                            • Card
                            • Expanded card
                            • Snippet
                            • and List view
                            • My personal favorites are the Card view and the the Snippet View.
                            • In all views you have additional sorting options in the center panel called the
                              • Notebooks area. Lists your Notebooks and Notebook stacks.
                                  • You can stack Notebooks by similar subjects to make your Notebooks easier to find, and just plain old more simple visually on your desktop and in mobile versions.
                                  • To stack, just click and drag Notebooks over other Notebooks.
                                  • To make life easier, you may need to retitle your Parent Notebook to make sense Child Notebooks stacked under them.
                                    • You have 4 view options for Notebooks. you can sort by:
                                      • Owner
                                      • Name of the Notebook
                                      • Count (number of notes within the notebook)
                                      • Last Updated
                                        • Tags view.
                                          • Tags can be sorted by:
                                            • Name and…
                                            • Note count
                                              • Atlas view. You can see where your notes were made.
                                                • You see click and zoom on these cards and view exactly where your notes were made.
                                                  • Evernote Trunk.
                                                    • In the Evernote Trunk you can find:
                                                      • Lots of other Evernote products
                                                      • Compatible apps and hardware
                                                      • T Evernote Blog
                                                      • How-tos
                                                      • Lots of other stuff!
                                                      • So, now you have a quick layout of the desktop and know that you can change HOW you see your info just by clicking different viewing options. Be sure to play around with your mobile device to learn your way around version of Evernote, too!

                                                        Evernote Advanced Tips:

                                                        In Part 1 of Evernote Simplified in Episode 17, I covered the basic tips, such as: What is Evernote, Why I like Evernote, some  Evernote Basics, Searching in Evernote, and finally Sharing in Evernote. Well, here are some more Advanced Tips:

                                                        • Web Clipper: The web clipper is great for clipping things from website you visit.
                                                          • Just like back in the day when you took out a pair of scissors and clipped things out of newspapers and magazines and put them in a notebook or box, with Evernote you can do the same thing…only digitally!
                                                          • And it doesn’t take up and more physical space in your life! With the web clipper you can decide to save just a portion of the page, the whole page, just the portion in the screen, or just the URL.
                                                          • To download the Web Clipper, simply go to the Menu Bar navigate to Evernote > preference > Clipping > Download the Evernote Web Clipper
                                                            • PDFs in Notes: Over on the Edit & Forget It Challenge Facebook Page, Robin was asking about PDFs in Evernote
                                                              • I like PDFs because they are a universal file type, readable on all modern devices
                                                              • You can view PDFs in notes either in-line or as a file. In-line means, for instance, you drag a PDF such as a manual into a note. If you view it in-line, you actually see all the pages of the manual as you scroll down.
                                                              • However, you can choose to simply view that PDF as a file. So, when you open your note, you just see it as an attachment, like on an email.
                                                              • To switch between these, just right click on the PDF in your note, and choose “View as Attachment” or “View Inline”
                                                                • Emailing into Evernote: You can forward emails directly into Evernote and it will automatically create a new note based on the subject of the email.
                                                                  • You can send to the right Notebook and Tag it automatically, too! @Notebook #Tag (tell where to find your Evernote email address, save in your contacts as Evernote)
                                                                  • To designate the Notebook: in the e-mail subject line after the subject, type “@” followed by the name of an existing notebook.
                                                                  • To designate the Tag: Again, in the e-mail subject line after the subject and after the “@Notebook,” use the Hash symbol, aka the pound sign” followed by the name of an Tag.
                                                                  • If sending emails to a recently created notebook or tagging with a recently created tag, remember to sync your account first.
                                                                  • If adding both notebook and tag information, be sure to include the notebook name first.
                                                                  • If you’re not sure what your Evernote email address is, just go to the Account Info area of Evernote for Windows and Mac (Evernote > Account Info), or to Settings on Evernote Web and the Sync tab on Evernote for iPhone and iPad — your Evernote email will be listed there. On your Android device, go to Settings then Account Info to find your Evernote email. 
                                                                    • Don’t forget about all the ways to get info into Notes. Experiment with:
                                                                      • Photos
                                                                      • Voice notes
                                                                      • And develop habits to review and organize your notes
                                                                        • Don’t go Notebook crazy.
                                                                          • The fewer Notebooks you have, the better in my opinion.
                                                                          • That said, what works for you, works!
                                                                          • I go heavier on tags and really heavy on keywords in note titles.
                                                                            • Stacking! As I mentioned, stacking your Notebooks works great so don’t forget about that.
                                                                              • Super Tagging Skills: Pick a way, singular or plural. I use plural
                                                                                • Make a Notebook for each person in the family, then add things that are Tag/keyword rich
                                                                                  • I love using my “Ideas” tag. I use it as a tag versus a notebook because ideas can apply to any subject
                                                                                    • As I mentioned, Notebooks are arranged alphabetically in the sidebar. If you want a Notebook to appear at the top of the list, use punctuation before it.
                                                                                      • Taxes Notebook for receipts, one for each by year
                                                                                        • I keep a “Wishlist” Notebook
                                                                                          • I keep a “Dream Home” notebook for planning our home
                                                                                            • Scanning. Now in Part 1 in Episode 17, I talked about scanning your notes into Evernote or taking a picture of your notes with your smartphone and email them into your Evernote account.
                                                                                              • Either way, Evernote will OCR your picture, Premium Account hiders first, followed by free users.
                                                                                              • Just a quick note here, with a Premium account, Evernote will also let you search the text inside PDF files. Awesome, huh?
                                                                                              • I’ll put a link in the show notes for a ‘how to’ on how to set up your scanner to scan directly into Evernote (it’s for detailed for the ScanSnap since it’s what I use and recommend to clients) but you can find general instructions for other scanners, too) go to Evernote scanners.
                                                                                                • We are faithful ScanSnap users.
                                                                                                  • We’ve talked about our little ScanSnap scanner lots of times before and you heard Brooks Duncan talk about it back in the Going Paperless, Episode 6.
                                                                                                  • The reason we love ScanSnap scanners is that they were made with Evernote in mind. They’re such an efficient scanner, and you can scan directly into Evernote from the scanner.
                                                                                                  • Ours scans both sides of the paper at once, deletes the blank pages in the file, and corrects the orientation of the back page in the file if it’s printed out head-to-foot. What a serious time saver!
                                                                                                  • Of course it can handle full size sheets of paper and little receipts, too.
                                                                                                  • ScanSnap scanners rock and you can find a huge selection at SimpleLifeTogether.com/scansnap
                                                                                                  • If you don’t have a ScanSnap yet, just Google “scan from (printer model) to Evernote” and you’ll likely come up with a solution specific to you.
                                                                                                    • Save time by using Templates! For recurring notes, make a “Templates” folder.  Make notes templated however you’d like. When it comes time to use one of the templates, just go to your Templates Notebook, right click on the desired templates note, and select “copy note to Notebook”. Choose the notebook you’d like and you’re all set. The template notes can even include tags!
                                                                                                      • Keyword Stuff…Again! I said this in the last episode but I want to really highlight it here.
                                                                                                        • Use Keyword Rich titles.
                                                                                                        • Remember my note that included our son’s shot records? Remember, I titled that Shot Records, Immunizations, Inoculations, along our son’s name. I also tagged it with his name, and Medical, as well.
                                                                                                          • Saved Searches Save Time!
                                                                                                            • If you find yourself searching for the same type of notes all the time, use the “Saved Search” function.
                                                                                                            • Enter your search term in the search bar and do a search. Once your search results are returned, go up to the menu bar in Evernote. Select Edit > Find > Save Search
                                                                                                              • Practice Safe Saving! Protect your sensitive information by encrypting your text inside of notes.
                                                                                                                • Both the Windows and Mac Evernote desktop client let you create encrypted text.
                                                                                                                • Encryption can be very useful for storing things like account numbers, passwords, and other sensitive information.
                                                                                                                • All you have to do is highlight the portion of text you’d like to encrypt, right-click on it and choose “Encrypt Selected Text.” Sounds great, right?  But I need to give you a warning…
                                                                                                                • Evernote has no way of knowing what you used for a password and they cannot recover your info if you forget your password.  So, MAKE ABSOLUTELY SURE you use a password you’ll remember!
                                                                                                                  • Check Out Some Other Evernote Products:
                                                                                                                    • Evernote Hello: lets you save contacts by scanning business cards and syncs with your contacts on your iOS device
                                                                                                                      • Evernote Food: for remembering fantastic meals and events, and also for storing recipes. I haven’t used this app and the latest buzz is that there may have been some major changes with it in the last update that left people disappointed. So, if you’re interested in food, check out Evernote for yourself and you be the judge.
                                                                                                                        • Evernote Peek lets you use your iPad to create flashcards
                                                                                                                        • Power User Techniques:

                                                                                                                          • Automation:
                                                                                                                            • On the last show I talked about getting information into your Evernote account automatically.
                                                                                                                            • Well, the first “power user” technique I’ll discuss is linking your Evernote account to a service called If This Then That at IfTTT.com.
                                                                                                                            • IfTTT works like an intermediary app that lets you build recipes based on your needs. For instance, if you’re an Instagram user, you can use a recipe in IfTTT that runs automatically so that any time you post to Instagram it saves a copy of the photo in your Instagram Notebook in Evernote.
                                                                                                                            • Or anytime you star an item in your Google Reader it saves to a Notebook, or you can use Evernote like a journal by creating a new Note for every event on your calendar.
                                                                                                                            • There are tons of possibilities. If you’re interested just browse the recipes already built for you in IfTTT.com.
                                                                                                                              • Another “power user’ tip…Quick Response Codes (QR):  We touched on how we deal with manual and documentation for “stuff” a little bit in previous shows but let me expound on it a bit here.
                                                                                                                                • When we get something new, we typically download the manual from the manufacturer’s website and save that to a new note.
                                                                                                                                • Depending on the item, we may also print out a Quick Response or QR code sticker and put that sticker on the item.
                                                                                                                                • That way, when we need info from the manual, we just scan the QR code with our phones and it instantly brings up the manual in our Evernote note.
                                                                                                                                • You can use the same technique for instructions, checklists, maintenance schedules, etc. I’ll share a link to short video on how I do this at http://SimpleLifeTogether.com/QR
                                                                                                                                  • OK, last power user tip…if you are a fan of David Allen’s Getting Things Done, one popular Evernote power user techniques is using a system called “The Secret Weapon” inside your Evernote account to follow the GTD principles.
                                                                                                                                    • Essentially, you set up system of folders that correspond with the GTD system.
                                                                                                                                    • So, if you’re into GTD and want to tap into that AND the power of Evernote, you can check out “The Secret Weapon” by going to our short link at SimpleLifeTogether.com/evernoteGTD (all one word) and you’ll find everything you need to get started.
                                                                                                                                    • Final Thoughts: 

                                                                                                                                      Evernote won’t just start working for you…you have to develop the habit of USING IT! It will take you a little while of playing around with it to master it. Heck, I use it every day and I learn new things about it all the time! I’m sure you will, too. I’ll be sure to come back to Evernote from time to time and of course, I’ll share all the cool stuff with you.

                                                                                                                                      Vanessa’s Topic

                                                                                                                                      Do  you ever get overwhelmed with your to-do lists and wonder, “How the heck am I going to get all this stuff done? There’s just not enough time in the day!”

                                                                                                                                       Well, I find myself asking this very question from time to time and I’ve heard it countless times from my friends, colleagues and clients. The truth of the matter is, we are busier than ever these days and it can seem almost impossible to keep track of everything at home, work, with the kids, with school, etc.  But it is possible to have a little more control of your to do lists and take back your time.  It just takes a little bit of effort and daily discipline.

                                                                                                                                      So, because  I’ve been discussing this topic a lot recently, I thought I’d share with you some tips and ideas to help you with managing your to dos and your time.  

                                                                                                                                      1. Determine your goals and priorities in life.  Most of your efforts should be geared towards achieving your goals and priorities. Really think about the things you have to do as opposed to things you think you have to do.  A lot of to do’s are not necessarily things we have to do.  Often times the lines are blurred because we overcommit or feel obligated to things that aren’t  in line with our goals and rob us of valuable time.

                                                                                                                                      2. Get your daily to-do’s under control. We put way too much on our daily to do lists.  I recommend having no more than 3-5. You can maintain a master to-do list but only pick 3-5 items that you are committed to getting done in one day. When you finish them and have time for something else, refer to the master list and tackle something else.  This is more reasonable…and motivating!

                                                                                                                                      3. Prioritize your to-do’s. Either number your to-do’s or list them in order of importance, tackling the number one or top priority first.  Ask yourself: “If there’s only one thing I can get done today, what should it be?”  There’s your number one priority. Personally, I have two Master To Do Lists.  One for Personal and  one for Work/Business where I keep track of everything.  I review these lists at least twice per day (usually at night and first thing in the morning).

                                                                                                                                      4. Determine when you are most productive and use that time to get things done. For years I thought I was the most productive first thing in the morning…WRONG!  I found that I’m usually most productive between 10:00-3:00pm.  So, this is the time I’ve reserved for getting important projects done.  Try to figure out the time your are most focused and productive and reserve it to focus on your goals, priorities and important projects rather than menial tasks and errands.

                                                                                                                                      5. Don’t procrastinate! Procrastination gets in the way of progress and causes undue stress in our lives.  Get yourself in the right mentality and force yourself to get things done. I am a recovering procrastinator….Check out my post for more tips on how to combat procrastination.

                                                                                                                                      6. Don’t overcommit. Try not to sign yourself up for more than you can handle.  Be realistic about the time you have for work, your family and extracurricular activities.  It’s ok to say NO.

                                                                                                                                      7. Batch tasks…try taking care of two or more things during the same timeframe (not to be confused with multi-tasking and trying to do more than one thing at a time). For example, scrub your tub just before or after you take a shower; if you need to go upstairs, do a quick search around the first floor to gather things that need to go upstairs too; do two or more errands in the same trip/timeframe as opposed to taking separate trips.

                                                                                                                                      8. Share tasks at work and home…or delegate/out-source.  Ask spouses, children and coworkers to help out with yard work, laundry, cooking, chores and tasks at work.

                                                                                                                                       9. Check email only a couple of times a day. Don’t get sucked into the internet! You don’t have to check your email every time you get something in your inbox or hear a ding on your phone.  It’s hard to do this.  If you can’t get into the habit of checking email only once or twice a day, at the very least, try not to check it when you are focusing on an important project…or when you know you are checking your email as an excuse to procrastinate.

                                                                                                                                      10. When working on an important task turn off all distractions like the television, voicemail, email or text alerts. This will help you stay focused and more productive.

                                                                                                                                      11. Cut down your television viewing. The average amount of time we spend watching television is 20 hours a week.  A week!!! We waste countless hours watching television that has nothing to do with achieving our goals and priorities.  Sure, television is nice…but save it for your relaxation time after you’ve committed to getting your important tasks done first.

                                                                                                                                      12. Use your electronic calendar to keep track of multiple schedules and send you appointment alerts either to your email or mobile phone. My favorite is Google Calendar.  For every event you plug into your calendar, you can have the option of receiving an email notification, text notification…or both (but a word of caution…the SMS/text message will count against your allotted minutes in your cell phone plan). Anyhoos…Google Calendar is also great because you can create multiple calendars and share them with friends, family and coworkers…no more missed payments, meetings or pediatric appointments for your kids!

                                                                                                                                      13. Develop routines and stick to them. There I go again talking about routines! Seriously, they can make a HUGE difference in managing your time and ensuring you are ready for the day without being stressed out.

                                                                                                                                      14. Develop a backwards time schedule to make sure you complete a project or arrive on time to work or an appointment. Start with your “completion” time in mind and plan backwards to ensure you meet your timelines. Be sure to be realistic about how long the preceding tasks take.

                                                                                                                                      15. Hold yourself accountable with important tasks by giving them a suspense date. Is there a task you need to do like, setting up dental appointments for the kids, getting an oil change or ordering gifts but you keep putting it off? Well, instead of putting it off, deal with it and plug in a date and time on your calendar of when you can and will accomplish that task.  Then keep the appointment and don’t bump it off the calendar unless you absolutely have to.

                                                                                                                                      16. Be prepared for making phone calls. Before picking up your phone, make a list of things you need to talk about and questions you need to ask.  That way, you won’t waste time calling someone back because you forgot to ask an important question.  I even do this when I call my relatives if I have a lot of things to tell them.  Just make a list of topics and start talking!

                                                                                                                                      17. Reward yourself!!! Stay focused on your priorities, get your important tasks done, then treat yourself to some fun stuff. It’s extremely gratifying not only when you complete your daily to-do’s but then get to chill and do something fun or relaxing.

                                                                                                                                      I challenge you to adopt one, two, or several of these ways to manage and take back your time. Sure it takes effort and some discipline, but by focusing on your priorities and limiting distractions, you’ll soon find that you will be living a more productive and balanced life.

                                                                                                                                      So…do you have any other tips for being productive? I always love hearing other ideas and suggestions.

                                                                                                                                      THING Segment

                                                                                                                                      Dan’s Thing:  Well in keeping with my Evernote theme, I wanted to mention the security breach that Evernote had this past week. If you hadn’t heard, someone hacked into Evernote’s servers and Evernote employees “identified and blocked what the company said was a “coordinated attempt” to break into secure parts of the service. Evernote was lauded by many in the information security arena…you can find more info in this following article by InformationWeek.com’s security department: http://www.informationweek.com/security/attacks/evernote-breach-7-security-lessons/240149911?cid=RSSfeed_IWK_All  It covers everything Evernote did right and some areas where it needs to improve. Best of all, Evernote has pushed up its effort for two-part security. That’s techie stuff, but good news for all Evernote users and fans!

                                                                                                                                      Vanessa’s Thing:

                                                                                                                                      Vanessa shared a story about a client who learned that money can’t buy you happiness…having connections was more important than a fancy luxury condo!

                                                                                                                                      Links

                                                                                                                                      Amazon.com Link to Support Charity Water
                                                                                                                                      ScanSnap
                                                                                                                                      Evernote Peek
                                                                                                                                      Evernote Hello
                                                                                                                                      Evernote Food 
                                                                                                                                      GTD/Evernote Tool called The Secret Weapon
                                                                                                                                      Using Evernote and QR Codes
                                                                                                                                      If This Then That
                                                                                                                                      Information Week Evernote Breach Article

                                                                                                                                      How To Combat Procrastination

                                                                                                                                      The Power of Saying No
                                                                                                                                      How To Create and Share Multiple Google Calendars

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                                                                                                                                    • SLT017: Evernote Simplified (Part 1), & A Focus on Fitness

                                                                                                                                      Today’s show is about focus…from two very different perspectives. First, we’re going to focus on how to use Evernote, and then shift the focus to fitness.

                                                                                                                                      Dan’s Topic: Evernote Simplified (Part 1)
                                                                                                                                      • OK so unless this is your first time listening to the podcast, you might know that I’m an Evernote fan. And one of the most requested things I’m asked to talk about is Evernote. So, by popular demand, my topic for this show and next week’s will be Evernote!  Read more…
                                                                                                                                        • Today I want to cover the basics and next week I want to hit some more advanced tips and some use cases. Like most things, it takes a little playing around with Evernote to get the full hang of it, so after this show you can dive right into Evernote if you haven’t already, and then you can send in some questions that I can cover on next week’s show.
                                                                                                                                        • Here’s what I’m going to cover today: What is Evernote, Why I like Evernote, some  Evernote Basics, Searching in Evernote, and finally Sharing in Evernote. So let’s get started.
                                                                                                                                        • So what is Evernote?

                                                                                                                                          • Well, you’ve heard the saying “an elephant never forgets” right?
                                                                                                                                          • Evernote is that little square green app you see almost everywhere with the elephant in the middle.
                                                                                                                                          • Most often you hear of Evernote being described as your “external brain.”
                                                                                                                                          • Evernote makes it easy to remember things big and small from your everyday life using your computer, phone, tablet and the web.
                                                                                                                                          • With Evernote, you can take in info in tons of ways and it synchronizes it across all your devices so it’s there when you need.
                                                                                                                                          • So..think of Evernote as a synchronized database of all your important information that’s there for you when you need it and how you need it.
                                                                                                                                          • The Evernote app is free for your desktop and all your devices, and so is the Evernote program on the web itself.

                                                                                                                                            • You can also upgrade to an Evernote Premium premium account for $5 per month or $45 per year.
                                                                                                                                            • We’ve been Premium users for about 4 years now and it is worth every penny.
                                                                                                                                            • There really is very little difference between the free and paid versions, but we wanted to support the company, and I’ll get back to that in a minute.
                                                                                                                                            • So some of the benefits of a Premium account are increased ability to share, bigger file sizes, some other faster functions that I’ll cover later.
                                                                                                                                            • If you’re just a casual user, you’ll be fine on a free basic account.
                                                                                                                                            • But if you’re a power user or just want to support the company, you’ll want to upgrade to Premium.
                                                                                                                                            • Why I Like Evernote

                                                                                                                                              • Ubiquitous Capture…
                                                                                                                                                • One of the tenets of Getting Things Done, by David Allen.
                                                                                                                                                • Very simply, ubiquitous capture means capturing all your important thoughts or “things to remember” thoughts in a way that you can recall them when needed.
                                                                                                                                                • Don’t let them float around in your head, where they will likely be forgotten. Capture it now, before it’s gone.
                                                                                                                                                • I’m not a user of GTD…but ubiquitous capture is a fantastic habit to cultivate…if you’re into that sort of thing, like me.
                                                                                                                                                  • Get info into Evernote by…
                                                                                                                                                    • Typing text
                                                                                                                                                    • Recording your voice
                                                                                                                                                    • Dragging in files
                                                                                                                                                    • Email it to your account (even video)
                                                                                                                                                    • Taking pictures
                                                                                                                                                    • Scanning things in
                                                                                                                                                    • Using the web clipper
                                                                                                                                                    • Even use automated ways to get things in. We’ll talk about that next week.
                                                                                                                                                    • Evernote strives to be a 100 year company
                                                                                                                                                      • Tech companies and their products come and go
                                                                                                                                                      • Many like to bring a product to market, then sell for the big bucks
                                                                                                                                                      • Evernote plans to be a 100 year company and make a difference in the world. I heard this directly from their CEO, Phil Libin when I was at Evernote in San Francisco at their first ETC…and I believe him. It was a pleasure talking with him and everyone I met at Evernote.
                                                                                                                                                      • There’s a great community around the Evernote product line (links in the show notes)
                                                                                                                                                        • The Evernote Life Google+ community
                                                                                                                                                        • The Evernote blog
                                                                                                                                                        • The Evernote Community
                                                                                                                                                          • They even have a podcast in iTunes which I think is hilarious!
                                                                                                                                                          • Security concerns? I love their article Three Laws of Data Protection
                                                                                                                                                            • Your Data is Yours:
                                                                                                                                                              • “We do not own your data. Putting notes and other content into Evernote does not change its ownership or copyright status. If the data was yours to begin with, it remains yours after you put it in Evernote.”
                                                                                                                                                              • Your Data is Protected:
                                                                                                                                                                • Private by default. “We never look at it, analyze it, share it, use it to target ads, data mine it, etc.”
                                                                                                                                                                • “Our business model does not depend on “monetizing” your data in any way. Rather, it depends on building trust and providing a great service that more and more people choose to pay for.”
                                                                                                                                                                • Multiple redundant servers
                                                                                                                                                                • Physical and virtual safeguards in place
                                                                                                                                                                    • Your Data is Portable
                                                                                                                                                                      • There is no data-lock in Evernote.
                                                                                                                                                                      • “We are committed to making it easy for you to get all of your data into, and out of, Evernote at any time.”
                                                                                                                                                                      • Basics

                                                                                                                                                                        • Notes: Everything in Evernote centers around notes which we get into Evernote as I mentioned, by:
                                                                                                                                                                          • Typing text
                                                                                                                                                                          • Recording your voice
                                                                                                                                                                          • Dragging in files
                                                                                                                                                                          • Email it to your account (even video)
                                                                                                                                                                          • Taking pictures
                                                                                                                                                                          • Scanning things in
                                                                                                                                                                          • Using the web clipper
                                                                                                                                                                            • Notebooks:
                                                                                                                                                                              • Just like when you were in school, when you take notes you typically had a different notebook for each class or subject…same with Evernote
                                                                                                                                                                              • You can have up to 250 Notebooks…I don’t know why anyone would want that many but…
                                                                                                                                                                                • Tags: 
                                                                                                                                                                                  • Some people get confused by Tags.
                                                                                                                                                                                  • Tags are simply addition descriptors that you can use to give you incredible flexibility.
                                                                                                                                                                                  • In the physical world, we grew up using file trees. Think of physical notes or documents organized in a filing cabinet
                                                                                                                                                                                  • The note or document is kept in a folder and the folders are labeled, either by subject or relationship, etc
                                                                                                                                                                                  • So if I have a note or document that deals with my car insurance, do I file that under Car or do I file that under Insurance? And when I want to retrieve that, how do I remember which one I used. Or do I make two copies of the document and file one under Car and the other under Insurance?
                                                                                                                                                                                  • You see the dilemma
                                                                                                                                                                                  • With tags, which are digital, you can “tag” the note car, insurance, bill, policy, whatever! And it all remains with one note, not copies of the note.
                                                                                                                                                                                  • When we “evolved” from physical filing to digital filing, most people stayed with the “file trees” method. When they filed a doc and they needed another copy in another file, they simply made another digital copy…causing digital clutter, redundant files, the opportunity for conflicting files, duplication of effort for updating, etc…
                                                                                                                                                                                  • Tagging eliminates all of that.
                                                                                                                                                                                  • That’s the superpower of tagging and we’ll talk about how to use that superpower in a minute.
                                                                                                                                                                                    • A Recap of the Basics with another analogy (adapted form Brandon Collins’ book The Evernote Bible, link in show notes)
                                                                                                                                                                                      • Picture a town as being like your Evernote database
                                                                                                                                                                                      • Towns have lots of houses, each house has people that are grouped, typically by family
                                                                                                                                                                                      • So Houses are like Notebooks
                                                                                                                                                                                      • Well, houses are for people, usually related, but each unique
                                                                                                                                                                                      • So People are like Notes
                                                                                                                                                                                      • Each person in that house has different relationships…people they go to school with, friends they hang out with…you know Relationships
                                                                                                                                                                                      • So while it’s just one person, they have lots of relationships. The same goes for Notes. It’s just one Note, but it can have lots of different relationships.
                                                                                                                                                                                      • So Relationships are like Tags
                                                                                                                                                                                      • And you can have up to 100K different relationships, or Tags, in Evernote!
                                                                                                                                                                                      • Searching

                                                                                                                                                                                        • So let’s start off with Searching in Evernote
                                                                                                                                                                                        • For a basic search in Evernote you just type what you’re searching for into the search bar
                                                                                                                                                                                        • Not too tough, huh?
                                                                                                                                                                                        • But just like we talked about way back in Episode 2 when I talked about getting the most out of search in Google, you can do some things to refine your search in Evernote, too!
                                                                                                                                                                                        • This way, it will narrow down your search results significantly
                                                                                                                                                                                        • Just like in Google, if you put your search in parenthesis then Evernote will do search to match that exact phrase
                                                                                                                                                                                        • Again, just like we talked about in Google search in Episode 2, you can also use what are called “operators” to narrow your search even further if you have thousands and thousands of notes.
                                                                                                                                                                                        • I have thousands of notes, but honestly, I haven’t felt the need to search by these operators. But, I’ll link to an Evernote cheat sheet that has them all listed in case you want to incorporate them in your search habits
                                                                                                                                                                                          • Earlier I mentioned taking pictures with Evernote’s mobile app or dragging pics into your notes.
                                                                                                                                                                                          • Evernote uses optical character recognition (OCR) so it makes text in your photos searchable! OCR works with handwritten notes, too! How cool is that?
                                                                                                                                                                                          • So, say you take a picture with Evernote of a great wine you had with dinner and your favorite restaurant
                                                                                                                                                                                          • Once you snap your picture into Evernote, your note will sync with Evernote’s servers, be processed for OCR, and the text will become searchable!
                                                                                                                                                                                          • So later, depending on how you named and tagged your note, you can search by;
                                                                                                                                                                                            • Name of wine
                                                                                                                                                                                            • Date
                                                                                                                                                                                            • Wine in the Tag
                                                                                                                                                                                            • Wine in the Subject
                                                                                                                                                                                            • Any text you remember on the label (company, type of wine, etc)
                                                                                                                                                                                            • You can even view your note by the location in the Atlas view on the desktop version or the Places view on mobile
                                                                                                                                                                                            • Let me sum up search this way…the basic search functions in Evernote are terrific. But, if you add a little bit of information during the “capture” phase, search will be a whole lot easier. And that’s really why you’re using Evernote, right…so you can recall information, not just hoard it?
                                                                                                                                                                                            • So, let’s move on to our final area of the topic today, and that’s Sharing.
                                                                                                                                                                                            • Sharing

                                                                                                                                                                                              Sometimes, information is just too good to hold on to…you need to share it!

                                                                                                                                                                                              • With Evernote, you have lots of sharing options. You can share by:
                                                                                                                                                                                              • Individual note or by entire notebooks
                                                                                                                                                                                              • Probably the most popular is sharing by note
                                                                                                                                                                                                • Just shares that note, one time via a link, email, or on social networks
                                                                                                                                                                                                • Right at the top/right of your Note there’s an arrow that lets you share your note and which method you want to use to share it
                                                                                                                                                                                                • Couldn’t be easier!
                                                                                                                                                                                                • You can also share entire Notebooks
                                                                                                                                                                                                  • Share with one person, many, or make it public
                                                                                                                                                                                                  • Everyone it is shared with will have access to all the notes in there now and those you add after it’s shared, so caution is in order
                                                                                                                                                                                                  • You can limit what the can do with the Notes in the Notebook
                                                                                                                                                                                                    • View only
                                                                                                                                                                                                    • Allow editing
                                                                                                                                                                                                    • Don’t worry, if you decide you no longer want to share a Note or a Notebook, you can “Stop Sharing” at any time
                                                                                                                                                                                                      • So, to adapt another analogy from Brandon Collins’ book, think of today’s episode like your car’s owner’s manual. It tells you lots about your car, but doesn’t teach you how to drive. Next week’s show will cover the “how to drive” Evernote lessons. We’ll even talk about some cool stuff to up your productivity and have you driving Evernote like it’s a Formula One.
                                                                                                                                                                                                      • Vanessa’s Topic: A Focus on Fitness

                                                                                                                                                                                                        Dan and I talk frequently about the 5 Important Pillars in our lives: Faith, Family, Finances, Fitness and Future, and how we try to make sure we stay focused on each of them as we make decisions in our day to day lives.

                                                                                                                                                                                                        Well, I remember briefly talking about about my fitness journey back in Episode 05, “The One Secret To Accomplishing Anything,” but I thought that I would go into a little more detail about my journey and how I continue to make it an important part of my life.  I’d like to share with you my struggles, reasons for staying fit and give you some tips on what worked for me that you may find helpful if you want to make fitness part of your life too.

                                                                                                                                                                                                        After all, that’s what this podcast is about…sharing ideas…and simplifying our lives to focus on what’s important.

                                                                                                                                                                                                        So…my fitness journey probably officially started in January 2001, but of course there’s a back-story of how I got to the point where I needed to start a fitness journey.  

                                                                                                                                                                                                        Growing up I had a pretty active lifestyle.  My siblings and I almost always played outside, we went camping a lot and we really enjoyed the outdoors…exploring, horseback riding, hiking, fishing, etc.).  I also started playing sports in the 6th grade (around 11/12 years old) and continued in high school where I played Varsity sports 9-12th grade…throughout the entire school year (volleyball, softball, track).   So…I was definitely an athlete.

                                                                                                                                                                                                        And was all fine and dandy and working great until the end of my senior year when my knees started to give me issues and I decided not to finish the last half of the track season.  Then whoosh….on came the pounds. Let’s just say I gained my college “Freshman Fifteen” a little early.  

                                                                                                                                                                                                        But, you know…it wasn’t that big of a deal…but over the course of the next 4 years I gained another 10 or so pounds.  It didn’t really bother me too much because I didn’t look too overweight and I was still kicking butt on my Air Force ROTC fitness tests…one of the top female performers actually. So my weight wasn’t really holding me back…that is until I got on active duty and started my career in the Air Force.

                                                                                                                                                                                                        Well, reality slapped me right in the face!  All of a sudden was now in charge of a whole lot of folks and had a ton of responsibility dumped in her lap.  I worked long hours, slept little and ate terribly.  Fitness was the last thing on my mind.  So over the course of the next 4 years on active duty I slowly but steadily gained the weight to where I was about 40 pounds heavier than when I graduated from high school.

                                                                                                                                                                                                        Now…maybe 40+ pounds doesn’t seem like much…but the bigger issue for me was that I was terribly unhappy.  I was stressed out, moody, borderline depressed, and definitely didn’t feel good about how I looked or how I felt.  It was like I was completely uncomfortable in my own skin.  On top of that, my fitness scores (although still good) were drastically declining and even worse…I was over my weight standards in the Air Force. I think I was over my maximum weight for a few years but thankfully I was able to barely inch by (literally) on my body tape measurements (explain weight and fitness standards).

                                                                                                                                                                                                        So, I definitely was living an unhealthy lifestyle and I certainly wasn’t setting the example for my troops as their leader because fitness and weight standards are pretty important in the military.  Well, just when things were starting to spiral out of control as far as my self esteem and dissatisfaction at work, I got lucky and deployed to Saudi Arabia in January 2001. Now, most folks wouldn’t think that was luck…getting deployed to the Middle East

                                                                                                                                                                                                        Anyoos…there wasn’t much to do but work…and work out.  One day a troop of mine asked if I wanted to be her workout partner.  I said, “Um sure…why not?  What have I got to lose except some weight right?”  Well, lemme just say…it was the best thing that happened to me!  I started working out and lost 20 pounds in 3 months!  And the funny thing was…I had fun doing it!

                                                                                                                                                                                                        After I got back from my deployment, I continued to lose and extra 20 pounds over the next 8 months.  I got addicted and there was no turning back!  I loved the way I felt, how comfortable my clothes were, how much easier it was to concentrate and be productive at work plus I was absolutely fascinated by how I was able to transform my own body…because for years I thought there was nothing I could do about it…in my mind I was a victim of faulty genetics and poor circumstance.

                                                                                                                                                                                                        So, 12 years, 5 smaller dress sizes, 2 full marathons, 5 half marathons, several team sports competitions, and many juice fasts later…I’ve kept it off (minus that little 9 month stint when I was pregnant and gained 35 pounds…but quickly shed it in 4 months).  So there is no doubt that fitness is part of my life and will continue to be.

                                                                                                                                                                                                        Over the years I’ve had friends and acquaintances ask me how I did it and what the secret to my success was.  I realized that the secret to my success wasn’t just one thing…or one secret ingredient.  It was a combination of things that helped me.  So, I thought that I would share with you the thing that helped me…and maybe they’ll help you too.

                                                                                                                                                                                                        1. I decided right from the beginning that it was a lifestyle change…not a quick fix.  I set forth to make it a part of my everyday life just like showering and brushing my teeth. This mindset I believe had the biggest impact on my success.  I don’t know why at that very time and that very place (stuck in who knows where Saudi Arabia) I made that decision (because honestly, I was always kind of an instant gratification/quick fix gal before), but I did make a lifestyle change and it stuck! Committing to a lifestyle change works, because quick fixes don’t last long.
                                                                                                                                                                                                        2. I didn’t expect instant results and decided to be patient.  This was very hard because I can be a pretty impatient person sometimes. I didn’t get on a scale for a whole month!  I just stuck with the program and when I noticed my clothes were getting loose I decided to weigh myself and was pleasantly surprised.  If you are starting a program, it’s best to be realistic about your goals.  Losing weight steadily over the course of several months is better than losing just a few and giving up because you weren’t losing fast enough.
                                                                                                                                                                                                        3. I stopped playing the victim! I decided not to feel sorry for myself…just because everyone else in my family was either petite or tall and thin…I couldn’t blame them for my short muscular physique. I also stop making excuses why I couldn’t work out.  I decided I was in control of my body, my circumstances and my time. 
                                                                                                                                                                                                        4. I embraced the body and gifts that were given to me. I viewed my body differently. First I figured that if I wanted to live a healthier, longer life, I needed to start taking better care of myself by eating healthier and exercising.  I also viewed my body differently in that I stopped comparing it to everyone else’s.     
                                                                                                                                                                                                        5. So those were the mental shifts I made that helped me on my fitness journey.  Here are some things that worked for me. They may or may not work for you because everyone had different needs and different ways of getting things done:

                                                                                                                                                                                                          • Created a routine.  Oh no…there I go again talking about routines!  But creating a routine was critical in keeping me on track with staying fit.  It’s one thing to say that you want to work out more, but how exactly are you going to do that and at what frequency to make a difference?  I created a schedule and now I track my training using Google Calendars.
                                                                                                                                                                                                            • I took baby steps…one thing at a time.  I started doing weights first…then a little bit of cardio…then a little more cardio…then focused on my diet.  I’m sure that if I tried doing all of this at once it would have been too much to handle.
                                                                                                                                                                                                              • Ate more meals…with slightly smaller portions and healthier options.  I actually ate 3 times a day with a few snacks instead of only 1 time late at night (yuck)! Also started to choose healthier options like grilled versus fried, fresh salad instead of cooked veggies, less salad dressings, mayo, butters, syrup, etc.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                • Embraced weight training!  Instead of getting bulky I actually lost weight.  And even when I stopped losing weight I started losing inches and dress sizes.  It’s true what they say…muscle weighs more than fat but it’s denser/tighter.  The amazing thing about weight training is that it helps build lean muscle which in turn helps burn calories and fat!  It burns stuff while you sleep!
                                                                                                                                                                                                                  • Realized cardio is good…Real Good!  After about a month of getting the weight training routine down I decided to step it up a notch and incorporate cardio. I started walking on a treadmill and stairclimber and then eventually started running.  Cardio is great for keeping the heart strong and blood pressure under control.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • Got a workout/accountability partner.  I don’t know that I would be where I am today without that troop as my workout partner.  When you have someone else that depends on you, you don’t want to let them down and you tend to be more committed to your goals. That’s just how it is. 
                                                                                                                                                                                                                      • Varied my workout routines.  I learned early on that if I changed my workout routines my body would respond faster to losing weight.  I would change up my cardio by doing different exercises (like step, swimming, biking, inline skating) or training for marathons.  I also tried different strength training routines…doing total body workouts 2-3 days per week…or fast circuit training.  
                                                                                                                                                                                                                        • Still allowed myself to enjoy the good (bad) foods too.  I didn’t deny myself cheat days to eat greasy burgers, fries and shakes.  It’s all about portion control!
                                                                                                                                                                                                                        • Additionally here are some tips that made maintaining my fitness lifestyle a lot easier and even fun!

                                                                                                                                                                                                                          1. Joined a running group. I ran with a running group before my first marathon and it was great to have that peer support and accountability.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                          2. Joined a gym. This can be intimidating at first but once you get used to things it’s really nice that everything you need is in one spot…and you don’t have to buy any equipment for your home! 
                                                                                                                                                                                                                          3. Experimented with different meal plans. I experimented with different options. I ate Vegetarian for 6 months, Gluten-free for 2 months and have been juicing for over a year! Each has it’s pros and cons but luckily I’ve been able to adopt concepts of each to figure out what works best for me. 
                                                                                                                                                                                                                          4. Challenged myself by training for marathons.  It easier for me to stay committed to something if there is a goal or challenge involved.  I actually have a tendency to sign up for a 1/2 marathons when I realize that I’m slacking in my workouts or lose my motivation.  Training helps me to focus on a goal and get motivated. Plus the races are a lot of fun! 
                                                                                                                                                                                                                          5. Got my kids involved.  Instead of saying I couldn’t work out because I was watching our daughter, I decided to incorporate her into my routines. I got a running stroller that I used for 3-4 years.  I also had a bike trailer that I used to tow with her in it. She loved it and it was a win win for us both! 
                                                                                                                                                                                                                          6. I prep my fitness clothes the night before.  No matter if I was headed to a gym or just working out from home, I always laid out my fitness clothes for the morning.  It’s no fun trying to stumble around for that stuff when you’re still trying to wake up.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                          7. Created a fitness calendar.  Whether I’m training for a marathon or just keeping up with a strength training/cardio routine…I put it on my calendar, like I mentioned earlier. So I know exactly what I’m doing each day of the week.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                          8. Use different apps.  
                                                                                                                                                                                                                          9. – I use MyFitnessPal to track workouts and meals and the calories I burn.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                            – Nike Plus app to track and map my runs.  I like that it tells me when I hit each mile on my runs and that I can post to FB (another accountability tool).
                                                                                                                                                                                                                            – iTunes is great for listening to your music, audiobooks and of course podcasts during my workouts
                                                                                                                                                                                                                            – Tempo runs…programs that play music to specific beats per minute depending on the pace you want to run.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                            OK, so I know this isn’t earth-shattering information, but I know I find inspiration through other people’s experiences and thought that maybe I should share mine with you.  People I meet today have no idea, that I ever struggled with my weight!  Once they learn about I have…and especially when they see my before pictures…they’re instantly interested in learning how I got fit, lost the weight, and kept it off.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Let me be clear though….I’m not a fitness model or a skinny mini by any stretch of the imagination.  I’m not crazy fit and still have trouble spots and extra fat I don’t care for…but I know that I’m in a heck of a lot better off now than I was back then…both physically and mentally.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                            I think most people care about their health and fitness but struggle with making it a priority.  It’s all about defining what’s important to you and taking those baby steps to make it a priority.  Almost anything is possible if you put forth the effort.  Forget the quick fix and think long term sustainable lifestyle….that’s where you’ll experience success.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                            The “Thing” Segment:

                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Dan’s Thing:  Meetup.com

                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Dan’s thing this week is Meetup.com. He’d been looking for a meetup group about podcasting and surprisingly, there wasn’t one in our city. It’s kind of hard to believe that in the 7th largest city in the US, there’s not a podcasting group. So, he figured I’d start one. No guts, no glory, right?  But Meetup.com seems like such a cool resource. So, we’ll let you know how things go!

                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Vanessa: Joining our local “Y…M…C…A”

                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Well, Vanessa became a stay at home mom 5 years ago, we stopped our gym membership to cut down our expenses.  So for the last 5 years she’s been doing her own strength training, cardio and training at home.  Well, Vanessa’s been itching to change things up…so she checked it out and loved it!  It has a great weight room, cardio, fitness programs, daycare and fun zones for kids, coffee bar, free wi-fi, a rock climbing wall an outdoor pool with waterslides and of several other things…and all for $89…for the entire family. You can even put your membership on hold for up to 3 months and only pay $10….so like if you’re going on a long trip in the summer.  And the best thing…the times that I like to go…there’s like nobody there!

                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Edit & Forget It Update!

                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Lots of new folks to the Facebook Edit & Forget It page this past week! So if you signed up for Edit & Forget It, join the fun over on FB, too! It’s never too late to join the Challenge, it’s going on all year so if you’re ready to edit 2013 things from your life, head on over to SimpleLifeTogether.com and  sign up!

                                                                                                                                                                                                                            A special shout out to Former President George Bush for his support in the video he did for the Edit & Forget It Challenge Facebook page. Regardless of your politics toward the former Prez, it’s nice to know he supports our efforts at Simplificatin’.

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                                                                                                                                                                                                                              Here are the links we mentioned in the show:

                                                                                                                                                                                                                              Books:

                                                                                                                                                                                                                               Evernote Bible by Brandon Collins (my all-around favorite)

                                                                                                                                                                                                                              Evernote: The Unofficial Guide to Capturing Everything and Getting Things Done. 2nd Edition by Daniel Gold (best if you’re a GTD fan)

                                                                                                                                                                                                                               From the Evernote Website:

                                                                                                                                                                                                                              Evernote Overview

                                                                                                                                                                                                                              Getting Started with Evernote

                                                                                                                                                                                                                              Guide to Evernote for Windows

                                                                                                                                                                                                                              Guide to Evernote for Mac

                                                                                                                                                                                                                              Guide to Evernote for Web

                                                                                                                                                                                                                              Guide to Evernote for Android

                                                                                                                                                                                                                              Guide to Evernote for iPhone, iPad, iPod Touch

                                                                                                                                                                                                                               Other Evernote resources:

                                                                                                                                                                                                                               Evernote Cheat Sheet 

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                                                                                                                                                                                                                            • SLT 016: Making Decisions Like a Fighter Pilot & Frugal vs. Cheap
                                                                                                                                                                                                                              Making Decisions Like a Fighter Pilot & Frugal vs. Cheap

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                                                                                                                                                                                                                              Dan’s Topic: The OODA Loop

                                                                                                                                                                                                                              Our Decisions, Our Future

                                                                                                                                                                                                                              • You’ll recall that the 5 pillars we focus on for OUR simple life together are Faith, Family, Finances, Fitness and Future
                                                                                                                                                                                                                              • Well, our Future is determined every single day by decisions that we make
                                                                                                                                                                                                                              • We make decisions all the time…daily in fact…most of them without any effort whatsoever
                                                                                                                                                                                                                              • But isn’t it funny how simple these “automatic” decisions are when other decisions lead us to hours, days, and sometimes months or years of contemplation and struggle and hemming and hawing?
                                                                                                                                                                                                                              • Introducing the OODA Loop

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                • Today I want to talk about decision-making and a very simple framework that you can use to help with your decision-making
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                • This process is called the OODA Loop, as in O-O-D-A
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                • OODA stands for Observe-Orient-Decide and Act. The OODA Loop is a recurring decision-making process…a cycle, if necessary…developed by Col John Boyd, who was a fighter pilot and later a Pentagon consultant after he retired. Col Boyd is also credited with being the key planner for Operation DESERT STORM
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                • While Boyd’s OODA loop concept began in fighter pilot circles, its also pretty popular in other combat ops units, too. It’s become so popular, in fact, that it has since spread to the civilian word…becoming popular in business, sports, and becoming quite popular with attorneys in the litigation process
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                • So, if you’ve never heard of the OODA loop before and are wondering how this little tool can help simplify your life…well, I’m here to share that with you.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                • What’s the Scoop on the OODA Loop?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  • The premise of the OODA Loop is that through a recurring cycle of OBSERVE-ORIENT-DECIDE-ACT you can  “get inside” an opponent’s decision making cycle and gain the advantage.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  • But it’s not solely for use against what would traditionally be called “opponents”. In business, competitors would be a more appropriate term than “opponent’ or “enemy” and even more generically, in life, “situations” can be our opponent when we’re trying to achieve our goals.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  • And, well, we all know that clutter and complexity are our enemy, so I cover how the OODA loop can help you out there, too!
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  • So, with the OODA Loop, if you can get through the observe-orient-decide-act cycle quicker than your opponent or faster than the situation unfolds, you’ll come out on top!
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  • So, let’s break it down…
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  • OODA Loop Phases

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • First, let’s talk about the phases of the OODA Loop
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • The first step is OBSERVE. Essentially, this is when you notice a situation that is a potential problem. It’s simple, you see something, you observe it. No judgements are made in this phase.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • The next step is ORIENT. This phase is the biggie…this is where your entire past comes into play. We have to put what we’re seeing into a context so we can later make a decision. In the ORIENT phase, we use our hard-wired instincts, intuition, our history, our knowledge, our experience, new information, split-second analysis…even our mental predictions of what the outcome or impact of potential decisions could be…all to orient ourselves as to what we’re observing
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • Once we’ve OBSERVED and ORIENTED, we can then DECIDE. We make decisions every day, and when we do, our decisions aren’t just based on the current situation, as I just mentioned in the ORIENT phase, they’re based on everything we’ve soaked in over our lifetime. But our decisions are often limited to a reasonable, limited set of choices. We’ll get to that in a moment.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • So…now it comes time to ACT. Acting is just following through with your decision. Simple as that.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • But the OODA loop process doesn’t stop there. Remember, it’s a loop so it can be repeated over and over again until there’s a final outcome. Of course, in Colonel Boyd’s model, this would likely take place at altitude with two pilots dogfighting until one of them is the victor. In my former world it takes place on the ground as you and you enemy fire and maneuver until one no longer returns fire. Each step in these battle scenarios requires another cycle through the OODA Loop.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • OK…So Here’s an Example

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      • In your world, the OODA loop may help you as you battle your clutter or as you fight your consumeristic tendencies.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      • Let’s say you’re doing the Edit & Forget It Challenge and you’re going through a storage area. With each item, you can use the OODA loop to help your tackle the whole job.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      • With each item you’ll go throughout the phases…
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        • Observe: OK, here’s a widget
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        • Orient: Do I need this, have I used this, do I love this, can I see myself needing this soon, what will I do if I don’t have it, can I borrow it…etc
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        • Decide: Keep it or not. If not, what am I going to do with it? KEEP-TOSS-RECYCLE-DONATE-TRASH (each one of these may require it’s own OODA loop
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        • Act: Follow through! Don’t make the mistake of waiting!
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          • oo-oo-oo you know what that is?
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          • How Can I Use the OODA Loop?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            • Remember…this is a decision making framework. You can use this for decision making of almost any kind, not just in battle or in editing…in almost anything!
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              • Use OODA Loop on your Inbox, when shopping, buying a new car
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              • We have a good friend John over at LetsReverseObesity.com whose goal is to control the forces that allow him to overeat…anyone trying to change behavior or start a new habit will meet challenges and obstacles along the way
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              • Each one of those is a decision point…and having a decision-making framework can help you make decisions that are aligned with your goals
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              • The OODA loop can easily become a nearly instantaneous cycle or you can use it to make more detailed deliberate decisions
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              • Don’t Forget the End State!

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                • So, armed with your news OODA loop, let’s get back to where I started when I said “our Future is determined every day by decisions we make”
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                • If you’re a regular listener, and we hope you are, then like us you’re on a journey to simplify your life
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                • And hopefully you’ve taken some time to really reflect on your life plan…what you want your life to look like down the road
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                • We always talk about the “desired end state” or what you want things to look like in the end as the best place to start out.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                • Imagine starting out on a long road trip without a destination in mind. It’s kind of hard to plan things out, isn’t it? Why take that chance with your life?
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                • The reason I bring all this back up is that if “our Future is determined every day by decisions we make” then we need to keep that desired future in mind when we go through our decision making process. So, in the OODA loop, our desired end state should certainly be a consideration when during the ORIENT and DECIDE phases.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                • Just like your personal values and morals shape your decisions, so too should plans for your future as they’ll be directly effected by those decisions
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                • Final Thoughts

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  • So, give the OODA loop a shot and see if it works for you
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  • Maybe having your goals well thought out, and a solid framework in place will lead you further down the path on your journey with a few less stumbling points along the way
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  • So, give the OODA loop a shot and let us know how it works out for you!
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  • Vanessa’s Topic: Being Frugal vs. Being Cheap

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    A couple of weeks ago I was with a group of women and the subject of makeup and the best facial skin care products came up. One of the gals said the best lipstick was made by Chanel. When I asked her how much it cost she said $38…with other lipsticks up to $50! I was like….that’s nearly half my electric bill for this month! I can get 3-5 decent lipsticks for the price of one!

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    I was shocked at the price because I just can’t justify (personally) spending that kind of money for lipstick.  Probably because I came from humble beginnings and was never really exposed to high-end/designer labels and such. Let me just say…just because I don’t shop high-end designer labels, doesn’t mean I don’t care about how I look or about quality.  I do!  But just on a budget.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    The whole situation got me to thinking…do I sound like I’m being cheap?  Do my friends and colleagues think I’m cheap because I don’t have designer sunglasses, handbags, or shoes?  Do my clients judge me?  Well I decided to jump on the internet to see if I could answer the question: “Am I being frugal…or am I being cheap?”

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    As I sifted through the various articles I found a few that for me, clearly explained the difference, so I thought I would highlight some of the better explanations and examples of what I found….because I think it’s bound to be a question or topic that comes up with this type of lifestyle that we are living or striving to live.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    Definitions of Being Frugal and Being Cheap.  Here are a couple of definitions I found on a couple of different sites:

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • “Frugality is in the center of the money spectrum, between cheapness and extravagance.  Like most good things, frugality taken to either extreme is not a good thing. It is the wise and intentional use of money whether saving or spending.” (from Life Renewed)
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      • “Being cheap is a reluctance to spend money, even on things that are necessary and needed. Cheapness is selfishness and often results from fear; fear of running out of money and not being able to take care of yourself and your family. Cheapness is only concerned about spending the least amount of money possible” (from Life Renewed)
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        • “Cheap people care about the cost of something; frugal people care about the value of something.” (from AskMen.com)
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        • Examples of Being Cheap vs Being Frugal (From Life Renewed):

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          • “Cheap is buying stuff on sale just because it’s probably the best or only time to get this item at such a cheap price….Frugal is buying only what is needed, wanted and by researching the best deal.”
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            •  “Cheap is buying the cheapest food (restaurants or grocery stores) without any care for quality or nutrition…Frugal considers cost of food but with regard to quality and health benefits.”
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              •  “Cheap is not tipping at restaurants or not paying your share of the tip on a group ticket…Frugal budgets for eating out which includes tax and tip.”
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                •  “Cheap is suffering living in a hot or cold house because you don’t want to spend too much on the utilities…Frugal finds the right temperature that is economical and within a budget and not wasteful.”
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  • “Cheap is lying about your kids’ age to get a discount…Frugal is planning and budgeting outings with your family that consider the costs of such outings.”
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  • Examples and Thoughts on Frugal vs Cheap from Mr. Money Moustache:

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • “It’s all in your head….many of the worst spending addicts do so because of their imaginary fantasies about social status.”
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      • “Frugal doesn’t mean owning mostly crap.  Cheap people will keep things like old appliances even though they are not efficient, energy efficient or even safe.  They just don’t want to buy new.  A frugal person will buy a newer one product because it’ll probably save time and energy.”
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        • “Frugal doesn’t mean you don’t spend on yourself.” You should still enjoy a date night here and there with your spouse…treat friends or family to dinner every now and again…get a massage every once in a while….just don’t become a pamper-me addict!
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        • Example from Choosing Voluntary Simplicity: 

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          • “Frugality has become almost synonymous with deprivation and denial and understandably, this kind of negative frugality turns most people off….when frugality is base on your own values and what You want out of life, it can only be a positive influence.  It’s not about spending less money…how you choose to spend your time and how you choose to conserve other resources should all be part of the total equation.”
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          • Frugality…What’s It All Worth?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            • “It is balancing your needs and wants of today with those needs and wants of tomorrow…it is not a destination but a journey.” (Life Renewed)
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              • I totally agree with this!  I say all the time that it’s ok to spend money on things you need and even want…as long as it’s deliberate, thoughtful and won’t hurt you or interfere with your long-term goals.  It’s the spending every dime you have the second you get it with no regard for your future…or saving every dime you have and not enjoying a damn thing in life….that’s what will get you in trouble or living a life of regret.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              • My Thoughts:

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                • Being frugal helps you to have a better understanding of, appreciation for and relationship with your money.  Being frugal usually means that you’ll have a better understanding of what “living within your means” really means…with benefits of avoiding debt, avoiding bad purchases, avoiding foreclosures, etc.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  • It helps you to analyze, and focus on your “important goals and priorities.” 
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • I also think that when you’re frugal..you usually end up with more time and means to do things you really want to do…not just living paycheck to paycheck. It can allow you to allocate those resources (time and money) to other causes or priorities….donating to charities…giving your time to help others…etc.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      • Yet again, we come to an idea or concept that isn’t “cookie-cutter” perfect.  Frugality is different for everyone.  But after reading these articles and many ideas on the topic I’ve come to conclude that the idea of being frugal is a concept of being in control, being more mindful, and being deliberate so that you can live a life on purpose…without the pressure of trying to achieve what society or mainstream America defines as success. It’s about living in the moment (responsibly of course) and also looking forward to the good things that lay ahead.  It’s not about being selfish, stingy or living in fear.  It’s all about defining life on your own terms and securing your freedom to live a life with meaning.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      • The “Thing” Segment:

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        Dan’s Thing:  The GOOD-FAST-CHEAP Conundrum

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        I’ve noticed in life that products you need typically only meet 2 of the 3 criteria on the FAST-GOOD-CHEAP model.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        • You can have Good/Fast: Usually that’s usually an expensive option…so be prepared to pay
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          • You can have it Good/Cheap: But typically not available within your timeframe…so planning is a must
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            • The worst products typically fall into the Fast/Cheap category: They usually also end up as a “clutter producing” option…or are the result of an “impulse buy”
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            • The best way to avoid the FAST-GOOD-CHEAP conundrum? Identify your true needs, do some research, and plan in advance.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              Vanessa: Brene Brown’s book: Daring Greatly.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              In the book she was talking about practicing courage and facing our shame and vulnerabilities…in particular she was describing a moment where she experienced shame and that her advice to people who experience the same thing is to “own the story ” and not bury it.  She quoted Carl Jung (famous psychotherapist) who said, “I am not what has happened to me.  I am what I choose to become.”  I thought that was so powerful because too often we let shame control and silence us.  By owning your pain, and admitting your vulnerabilities, somehow you  become stronger.  Highly recommend anything by Brene Brown…I’m a total fan!

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                               Edit & Forget It Update!

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              Lots of new folks to the Facebook Edit & Forget It page this past week! So if you signed up for Edit & Forget It, join the fun over on FB, too! It’s never too late to join the Challenge, it’s going on all year so if you’re ready to edit 2013 things from your life, head on over to SimpleLifeTogether.com and  sign up!

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              A special shout out to Former President George Bush for his support in the video he did for the Edit & Forget It Challenge Facebook page. Regardless of your politics toward the former Prez, it’s nice to know he supports our efforts at Simplificatin’.

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                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              Closing Thoughts:

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              We’re blessed to be able to share some ideas and some of our experiences as we journey toward a simpler life in the modern world and we’d like to hear some of your experiences, too.

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                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                Here are the links we mentioned in the show:

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                • Life Renewed
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                • AskMen
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                • Mr. Money Moustache
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                • Choosing Voluntary Simplicity
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                • Brene Brown
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                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                • SLT015: Creating Your Morning Routine, and Living Without a Printer

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  Wouldn’t you love to simplify your morning routine? What? You don’t have one? Well, in this episode Vanessa shares some tips to help you create your morning routine so you can start of each morning on the right path.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  But even if you start out on the right path, sometimes little things can become big irritants, can’t they? One thing that can be really frustrating is printer problems. Do you think you could digitize your life to the point where you don’t even need a printer? Well, Dan shares his thoughts on that very subject! Read more… 

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  Vanessa’s Topic: Creating Your Morning Routine

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  Are you feeling a little rushed in the mornings? Are you stressed out? Do you find yourself getting distracted from completing your important tasks? Well, you’re not alone. One of the most popular posts on my GetSimplifized.com website is about how to create a morning routine. I talked about routines in general way back in Episode 2, but I thought I’d get a little bit more specific here and share some tips specific to a morning routine.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  When you establish a routine for you or your family, you are creating an environment of consistency. With consistency comes known expectations of roles and responsibilities, known outcomes and a happier, calmer family.  Think about it like this…we are drawn to certain businesses, products, bosses and friends because they provide consistently good food, products, leadership and friendship, right?  Well, if we expect and value consistency in those things…why not value it in our own lives?  A morning routine is just the thing to give you order and calm.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  Now, before you jump into creating a daily routine, remember to keep the following in mind:

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  • Specific tasks: You’ll need to identify your specific morning tasks and how long it takes to do them.  I suggest writing everything down and be specific about the exact times it takes to complete a task.  Sometimes tasks take longer than we think!
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • Specific order: Figure out the most logical sequence of events for you and schedule each event in a time slot.  I highly recommend writing this schedule down on paper or on your calendar.  Electronic calendars are especially wonderful because you can rearrange your tasks without wasting time rewriting and erasing events.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      • Consistency: This is key!  Once you’ve figured out your tasks and order, now you’ve got to stick to it.  There’s no point in going through all the effort of creating a routine if you’re not going to follow it.  
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      • Here are a few suggestions and typical tasks to think about incorporating into your morning routine:

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        • Wake up. Take 15-30 minutes to wake up, enjoy your coffee, check out the news or read.  Check out my morning coffee routine post on prepping your coffee the night before.  Having a fresh cup of joe already made first thing in the morning makes all the difference!
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          • Review your daily tasks. Refresh your memory of the tasks and important “to-do” items you need to get done that day.You might also consider preparing this list the night before as part of a  nightly de-clutter routine.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            • Make your bed. Simply taking 5 minutes or less to make your bed will instantly make your room look cleaner plus you’ll feel much more relaxed when you come home to a tidy room. If you don’t like the process of making the bed, consider cutting down on the amount of pillows you have and use a duvet cover over your comforter that doubles as a top sheet too!
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              • Prepare for dinner. Make sure all of your food items are defrosted and that you have all the necessary ingredients for the evening’s dinner.  That way you can pick up any missing items later on in the day. I actually like to refer to my weekly dinner menu and look at the next day’s meal too so I know to take out things from the freezer to give them time to defrost.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                • Empty the dishwasher or dish rack.  Put your dishes away first thing in the morning so that you and your family can fill it up after breakfast and throughout the day instead of waiting to do all of it after dinner.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  • After you shower and get dressed, clean up after yourself. Be sure to put dirty clothes in the laundry hamper, put away your toiletries and makeup, wipe down the sinks and hang up your towel.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • Prep kids for school.  Allot time to make lunches (or better yet, make them the night before), eat breakfast, dress, brush teeth and get school bags ready.  Of course, if your kids are old enough be sure to get them in a routine too and have them take on some, if not most of the responsibilities.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      • Make breakfast and cleanup afterwards. Like your bed, the kitchen has a lot of counter space and when one counter is cluttered the whole kitchen looks messy.  Take just a couple of minutes everyday to wipe down those counters and appliances…you’ll be amazed at how refreshing it is to come home to a clean kitchen after a busy day at work.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      • Ok…so there are some suggestions for you.  Although you may have these tasks written or typed in on your calendars, you might try writing them down on paper and creating a checklist that you can actually check off as you go so. Post it where you’ll see it (bathroom, next to the coffee maker, or somewhere else in the kitchen perhaps).   Sometimes that can help you pick up a new habit/routine faster.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        Dan’s Topic:

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        We’re keeping a running list of our top top problems, issues, or situations that cause us frustration. You know, things that are just a hassle. We’re keeping the list so we can do a good 80/20 analysis and take action to eliminate or at least mitigate the problems.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        On the top of the list for tech items is our computer printer. We used to have 2 printers, one in the house and one in the office. We really seldom use them and I’d be willing to bet that the one inside the house wasn’t used for over a year before we got rid of it. As for the work printer in the World Shedquarters, we seldom use it at all and when we do, we usually have an issue connecting. It’s a wifi only unit with no option for a direct connection to our computers or our router. And even with software updates we haven’t had the best of luck with it staying connected.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        Well, the other day Farnoosh Brock, from ProlificLiving.com, who is a member of our Edit & Forget It Challenge posted this on the Edit & Forget It Challenge Facebook page:

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        Hi everyone, so I’ve made a firm decision NOT to buy a printer for our business. Until a month ago, we’d be using my hubby’s work printer and side note: I HATE Printers with a passion like you wouldn’t believe …. soooo can I survive without a printer? I am willing to bet yes.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        That post really got me thinking. I spent a lot of time comparing and contrasting our options when I bought this all-in-one printer but I never once considered NOT buying a printer! After all of the efforts we’ve made over the last 3-4 years at going paperless, I just never even considered it. Well, that got me thinking about the real feasibility of doing away with a printer completely.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        So, knowing that we don’t use a printer much, we had to take a look at what we DO use it for. Here’s what we boiled it down to and potential work arounds:

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        1. Vanessa prints out service agreements for her clients. She typical sends an email version of it but for some clients she needs to have only a dozen or so paper copies on hand… “justin case”. One option is having some pre-printed out at OfficeMax, etc, and keeping just a few on hand.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          1. Printing out an online coupon…which we maybe do twice a year max! So is it really worth it? Maybe we could try a screenshot of the online coupon with an iPhone and see it they’ll take that.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            1. Our son’s schoolwork. He may need to print something 2-3 times per school year. He always has the option of printing them out at his mom’s house or at school.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              1. Tickets to hockey games, movies, etc...just 3-5 times per year. A good option is to just use the Will Call option at the ticket booth. Still pay ahead, but pick up at Will Call.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              2. Here are some other ways to print out what you need:

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                • Email to Print Services: OfficeMax, OfficeDepot and Fedex/Kinkos all have email “email to print” services.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  • Save stuff into Evernote. I’m an Evernote fiend and it’s our repository for all things info!
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • Print to PDF. Most operating systems let you print to PDF as an option. Apple’s OS X also lets you save to an “online receipts” folder in the print menu.  Again, I prefer to save into Evernote, either as text or as a PDF right in the note.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      • Print what you need. There’s always the good old thumb drive option. If there’s something that absolutely needs to be in printed “hard copy” form, save it to your thumb drive. Try to batch print jobs if possible and go print them all out at once.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        • Options for Your All-In-One’s Other Functions:
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            • Digital Signatures: I use apps like iAnnotate in my mobile devices. I’m not sure about on a PC, but on a Mac you can sign docs using the trackpad with apps such as Autograph and Signature, or use the built in signature optioning the Preview menu. Here’s some tips from Lifehacker:
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  • Signing digital documents has gotten a bit easier over the last few years, especially on the Mac, with great apps like Autograph and the built-in signing option in Preview, but both have their pros and cons. Autograph, while quite good, can’t store signatures and has been a little unstable in recent releases. Preview, on the other hand, requires a webcam and an image of your signature. The quality of the final product doesn’t look so great, either, but you can store signatures so you don’t have to scan them in all the time. Signature, however, combines the best of both: you can sign with your finger on the trackpad and store signatures for later use.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        • Another option is Hello Fax. It lets you keep a digital image of your signature on file, which you can then position, resize and reuse on other docs.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            • Use an online Fax service: It’s wasteful to print a page just to be able to fax it. Instead, sign up for an online fax service, like FaxZero, that will let you send and receive paperless faxes through email, the web or on your smartphone.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            • Alright…well, those are some options for you. Take some time and evaluate whether you really need a printer and if it falls squarely into that category of 20% of things that cause 80% of your tech problems.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              So, have you gone without a printer? Do you think you could? I’d love to hear from you either way.  I think our printer is now firmly on our “tech to phase out” list. There may be a few growing pains, that’s what growing is all about, right?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              The “Thing” Segment:

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              Vanessa: Our story about how we chose to sponsor Charity:Water on our website.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              Dan: How an article on Zen Habits reminded him of a letter he wrote to his son before heading off to Afghanistan right after 9/11.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              Edit & Forget It Update!

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              Well, we welcomed a lot of new folks to the Facebook Edit & Forget It page this past week! So if you signed up for Edit & Forget It, join us on FB, too! It’s never too late to join the Challenge, it’s going on all year so if you’re ready to edit 2013 things from your life, head on over to SimpleLifeTogether.com and  sign up!

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                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              Closing Thoughts:

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              We’re blessed to be able to share some ideas and some of our experiences as we journey toward a simpler life in the modern world and we’d like to hear some of your experiences, too.

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                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                Resources and Links:

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                Get Simplifized: Morning Routine

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                Your Morning Coffee Routine Just Got Simplifized

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                Organize Your Morning Routine with a Nightly Routine

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                Leo Babauta’s Zen Habits Article: Advice to My Kids

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                Photo Credit: RaSeLaSeD – Il Pinguino

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                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              • SLT 014: How Typical Is Your Home & A Gateway Gadget Intervention
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                How Typical is Your Home? And…A Gateway Gadget Intervention

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                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                Vanessa’s Topic: How Typical Is Your Home?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                Dan and I were interviewed a couple of times last week and during one of the interviews we were talking about how much stuff we have in our homes. Dan started talking about a study conducted by UCLA’s Center on Everyday Lives of Families. They sent a team of professional archaeologists, anthropologists and other social scientists to conduct a systematic study of home life in 32 middle-class, dual-income families in Los Angeles.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                Based off of this study they created a book: Life at Home in the Twenty-First Century: 32 Families Open Their Doors. UCLA also created 3 short video ethnographies for their university television station which are now on YouTube. The book and the videos highlight their major findings which I thought were absolutely fascinating!

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                The pictures and videos may not be as mouth-dropping as what you might see on the show Hoarders…but I think it does hit a little closer to home because it’s not highlighting those extreme cases of hoarding….it’s highlighting what is becoming…or rather…actually already has become the “norm” in the middle class America. So I reviewed some of the major findings and then discussed my thoughts.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                Findings in relation to stuff:

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                • With Family #27, they found 2,260 visible possessions in the first three rooms recorded (two bedrooms and the living room),” and that didn’t include “untold numbers of items tucked into dresser drawers, boxes and cabinets or items positioned behind other items.”
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  • In another home, Family #1 they looked at a display shelf in a girl’s bedroom and found: 165 Beanie Babies, 36 Human/Animal Figurines, 22 Barbie dolls, 20 other types of dolls, 3 Porcelain dolls, 1 Troll, 1 miniature castle
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • America has 3.1% of the world’s kids…yet it owns 40% of the world’s toys.  As a matter of fact, toys were found everywhere in the home.  It’s as if the home had become primarily child-centered.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      • The average refrigerator front panel in the homes studied holds 52 objects. The most crowded refrigerator was covered with 166 different objects. In most cases there was a direct corollary to the amount of stuff on a fridge and the amount of stuff in the home (ie: a more cluttered fridge = a more cluttered home)
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        • Only 25 percent of garages could be used to store cars because they were so packed with stuff. One article called this, “The New Junk Drawer” and rightfully so because that’s exactly what it’s become.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          • They found mountains of clutter in many of the homes. One family even had to resort to using a bathroom shower stall as a laundry hamper.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            • They also observed a huge trend in shopping at “big box” stores (like Sam’s Club, Costco, BJ’s) and how the items bought at these stores actually created more clutter and required a second refrigerator or freezer.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            • Findings in relation to the effects the stuff had on these families:

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              • Managing the volume of possessions was such a crushing problem in many homes that it actually elevated levels of stress hormones for mothers. Ironically, it rarely affected the men because they didn’t have to clean it up!
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                • There are several ways in which items come into a home but few processes on how to get it out.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  • So many of the parents sought a “refuge” to escape it all. The addition of costly “master suites” for parents proved the most common renovation in the homes that were studied, yet the spaces were hardly used. The average master suite “upgrade” at the time cost $80K…almost twice the average household income.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • The families rarely devoted renovation dollars to remedying obvious problems such as consistent and troublesome bottlenecks in the homes.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      • Even in a region with clement year-round weather, the families hardly used their yards, and this was the case even among those who had invested in outdoor improvements and furnishings…¾ of parents and ½ of the kids spent no time outside.  The number 1 leisure activity was watching television…even for parents who had limited interaction time available.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        • Most of the families relied heavily on convenience foods like frozen meals and par-baked bread, yet they saved an average of only 10 to 12 minutes per meal in doing so.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          • And the dinners were fragmented dinners — those in which family members eat sequentially or in different rooms — which threaten to undermine what some would call the sacrosanct tradition of the family dinner.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          • My Thoughts:

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            • I found this study fascinating, frustrating, sad and alarming.  It really made me think about how hyper-consumerism has affected us as individuals and as a society.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              • And what does it say about our society?  How superficial we are?  How we’ve outsourced nurturing by replacing it with television, toys and fast food? How we’ve allowed the time we spend with family and loved ones to be dictated by our stuff?
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                •  I don’t think any of us planned on this.  Certainly parents aren’t purposefully raising their kids to be hyper-consumers….it’s just what’s been ingrained in us.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  • At least we are starting to build awareness and opening our eyes to the negative effects that this superficial lifestyle has and how it can negatively affect us mentally and physically and how it can rob us of the more important things in life like building relationships and experiences with friends and family.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • The good news…people are seeing the benefits of living a life with less.  I know we are.  And we hope you are too!
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • What are your thoughts?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      • After listening to our summary of this study and after watching the videos, think about how they make you feel.  Are you angry, shocked, sad…what?
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        • Why do you think you feel that way?  Is it because you can relate? Can you identify with these families too?  That’s ok…because I know Dan and I do!
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          • Don’t beat yourself up though! Knowledge is the power to help you make change in your life.  If after studying living a life with less and armed with the belief that stuff isn’t what makes you happy…what are you going to do about it?
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            • We’re very interested in hearing your thoughts.  Check out the links to the articles and videos below, and let us know your take on all of this.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            • Dan’s Topic: A Gateway Gadget Intervention

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              OK, so today I want to talk about  what I call “gateway” gadgets.  Well, remember back in high school health class when they taught us about “gateway drugs”. Well if you haven’t heard of gateway drugs or the gateway theory, essentially it’s that by doing something at a lower or “entry level”, it may make you more likely to do things at a more advanced level. So for drugs, the theory is that using (and I say this in quotations because they can be just as bad) but lesser drugs such as tobacco, alcohol or marijuana, it may make you more likely to use much more dangerous or hard drugs. The same goes for crime…if you allow yourself to be deceitful or engage in shoplifting or petty theft, it may lead to more serious and dangerous crimes later on.  It’s the act of initially opening yourself up or compromising yourself just a little bit at first, that may lead to additional and higher levels of compromise.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              OK, so you get the idea…small things can lead to big things. I’m not here to talk about drugs, I’m here to talk about “stuff.” And I’m going to kind of “unwrap” how we…and especially, I, fell victim to this when it comes to our stuff. As I go through this, you might see a little of yourself in this situation too…because I think we all fall victim to this from time to time.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              Alright, so here we go… when Vanessa was expecting our little girl, we decided (like a lot of parents do) to get a camcorder. We figured that since our son was getting bigger and the baby was about to be born, maybe it’s time we “invest” (yeah…how many times have you said that to yourself…invest) in a good camcorder. So we spent probably way more than we should have on this camera…HD was kinda new, it recorded right to an internal hard drive…you know…why skimp, right? We deserve the best of the best right. Sure we do.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              Well, little did we know how little we would use this thing. After the initial glow of it faded, we realized that this thing was kind of a bear to use! I won’t mention the brand but they are notorious for using proprietary software and managing the files was just a pain the fourth point of contact.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              So anyway, yeah, the video format wasn’t compatible, the files were huge and maxed out my crummy laptop which was all we had at the time…essentially, this thing just ended up sitting in it’s top-of-the-line camera bag (because a good camera deserves a good bag, “we’ll be carrying it around all the time, right?”)

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              The other thing was that we bought this thing right at the cusp of a technology boom where smart phones were coming out with decent video, too. So almost a total waste of money, right. “But wait, there’s more!”

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              So when Vanessa started up her Professional Organizer blog, Get Simplifized!, we finally wiped the dust off the camera to make a few videos, cuz what’s a blog that doesn’t have videos, right? In the interim, we had changed over to Apple Macs, so the once just clunky software was not unusable because they didn’t have Mac compatible software available. So it turned into “Work Around Fest 2009” and buying these conversion programs, backup drives that were large enough to hold the files, etc…

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              Then, and again the whole online business-blog thing was new to me….but every reputable person out there that I followed and trusted online was using the Kodak Zi8…a tiny little $120 video recorder like a flip camera. It was cheap, small, and recorded in HD. So, of course, we had to have that! All the cool kids had ’em! But when we got it, the sound was pretty bad if recording inside. No problem, just buy the lavalier microphone for $30! That solves that. And a case…you gotta have a case. And a little tripod. Just a little one. Oh yeah, we had the big one from the camcorder but who wants to lug that around? Get the little one.That’s a no brainer.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              Well, a lot of our initial videos on Get Simplifized! were filmed with that little Kodak Zi8. But you know what? The zoom was bad and the aspect ratio of the screen seemed a little constrictive. Maybe we should try that old camcorder again now that decent conversion software was available. Yeah..that’s a great idea. Oh yeah, but we need a better microphone for the indoor shots. Most of Vanessa’s videos are indoors…she’s a Professional Organizer, not a landscaper.  So, yeah..a good microphone is a must. But why not use the $30 lavalier? Well, it leaves this little buzz and then there’s the “cord” thing to deal with. So a wireless lavalier would be best. Besides, it’s a business expense, right?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              But then the same old angles and shots seemed to get old. Maybe a green screen setup so we can add cool backgrounds in editing…you know, like the weather guys on TV? Yeah…and some good lighting...you gotta have good lighting now that we have decent video and sound.  Crazy, huh?  But can’t you see yourself doing this with some area of your life? Maybe not video equipment, but maybe sports equipment or something?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              Well we got really tired of having all this “stuff.”  Good quality stuff, but stuff nonetheless. So when the new iPhones came out with their upgraded camera lenses…it was another “no brainer” for sure! Let’s scrap most of what we have and start using the iPhone! Simplicity at it’s best, right? All we need is this little microphone adapter, this macro lens, this fish eye lest, this holder/grabber thingy for a tripod, this case so you can attach it to the tripod, this app, this “How to Make Amazing Video By Just Using Your iPhone” course...taught by a professional photographer who won an Academy Award for “Best iPhone Video”…finally…we had just what we wanted! Never again would we buy into the gateway gadget syndrome.  That is…until the Canon T4i came out!

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              Now THAT’S a camera…awesome stills, amazing video, auto focus video with the upgrade silent lenses. Oh, and King Size SD card that record for two light years, 1 Terra byte Thunderbolt hard drive to process the card’s huge videos, upgraded cloud storage plan, pro tripod, pro camera backpack, cool/sleek LED lighting to replace the old CFL lamps…besides, they were used like 10 times, extended battery pack with extra batteries, subscription to online video membership site, and extra lenses…you know, to make the edges look fuzzy.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              All this camera, photography and video stuff…it’s like mainlining gadgets…it’s digital crack.  Now I’m not saying don’t start…maybe that’s not realistic…but what I am saying is to be careful of your predispositions, your triggers, and be mindful of your simplicity goals. Something as simple as “I’m going to start running” can turn into crazy expensive shoes, running clothes, hi-tech water bottles, $3 packets of goo, armbands for your iPhone, waterproof cases, tracking software, expensive GPS’s that are scrapped for apps, digital scales to track your weight loss, $125 entry fees to half marathons that give away cotton tee-shirts that you won’t wear running because they’re not “performance” t-shirts…all to be scrapped later for the ultra-expensive minimalist shoes that have individual toes…because that’s how cavemen walked, so it must be better for you. Oh, and then socks with toes because your toes chaff…and then paleo creme for your caveman toes…and then a pedicure…because you deserve it.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              OK…that’s it. maybe this was a little bit of a rant…but at least I used myself as the example. You know where your weak points are, and you certainly won’t get any judgement from me…I’m just as guilty, if not more. Probably way more. But I’m workin’ at it. In the words of the great philosopher, Jules Winnfield, in the movie Pulp Fiction…I’m tryin’ Vincent…I’m tryin” real hard to be the shepherd!

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              The “Thing” Segment:

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              Vanessa: Stepping outside of her “comfort zone” to meet and connect with a neighbor.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              Dan: The surprising, Simple Life Together listener demographic and how the idea of living a simple life is resonating with so many different folks here in the US and around the world!

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              Edit & Forget It Update!

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              The Facebook Edit & Forget It page is rockin’ so if you signed up for Edit & Forget It, join us on FB, too! For the folks that are there…it’s great to be able to see your photos and interact…we have some folks really raking up the numbers and posting some great stuff over there too so if you haven’t been on the page, you’re missing out!  It’s never too late to join the Challenge, so if you’re ready to edit 2013 things from your life, you can sign up right here! We have well over 70 people signed up, so come and join us!

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                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              Closing Thoughts:

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              We’re blessed to be able to share some ideas and some of our experiences as we journey toward a simpler life in the modern world and we’d like to hear some of your experiences, too.

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                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                Here are the links we mentioned in the show:

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                UCLA Center on Everyday Lives of Families

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                Trouble in paradise: UCLA book enumerates challenges faced by middle-class L.A. families

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                Article announcing University of California TV Series on YouTube

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                A Cluttered Life: Middle-Class Abundance (Ep.1) Stuff

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                A Cluttered Life: Middle-Class Abundance (Ep. 2) Food

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                A Cluttered Life: Middle-Class Abundance (Ep. 3) Space

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                Life At Home in the Twenty-first Century (book)

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                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              • SLT 013: Escaping My Shawshank Cubicle, and First Steps on the Road to Simplicity
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                Escaping My Shawshank Cubicle, and First Steps on the Road to Simplicity

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                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                Dan’s Topic: Escaping My Shawshank Cubicle

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                “Indoor” jobs have never been a good match for my personality. I did well at them…the tasks, anyways, but I felt like that “staff work” was slowly sucking the life out of me…stealing my soul. Plus, I’ve always been a pretty fast worker and some would say I’m a great time manager, and that’s how it may look. But the truth is, I just have an ability to get crazy focused and knock out some really quality stuff really really quickly. Some people think that’s a gift…but I always said it was a curse.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                So, the reason I say it’s a curse is because I vividly remember…so many times…sitting at my desk, looking at the clock, it’s 2:30 pm, I’m not only caught up on my work but I’m way ahead. Yet there is no way I can leave. That’s just not how it worked. I’m essentially a prisoner….to a cubicle cell, and my master is $7 clock. A really, really slow clock that I swear sometimes ticked backwards, just to spite me.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                It was in those times that the seed was planted that someday I would build a future for myself, us, and our family,where our lives were designed purposefully around what we love. And I’ll get to that in a bit.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                But I’m just guessing that as you simplify your life, shaping how you work is important to you, too. You probably dream about creating a simpler life that includes a lifestyle business…you know, not a business that you work at 24/7 for a few years hoping someone buys you out…I’m talking a situation where you do something that helps other people, that you love doing, and that affords you the chance to live life on your terms. So, I wanted to share a couple of adages that will give you something to ponder this week as you listen to podcasts in your car or cubicle. Maybe they’ll prod you just enough to take some action.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                The Frog in a Pot of Water:

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                The adage goes that if you drop a frog in a pot of boiling water, it will of course frantically try to jump right out. But if you place it gently in a pot of warm water and turn the heat on low, it will float there quite placidly. As the water gradually heats up, the frog will sink into a tranquil stupor, exactly like one of us in a hot bath, and before long, with a smile on its face, it will unresistingly allow itself to be boiled to death. Crazy huh? Now don’t run out and try this. Be nice to frogs or they’ll keep you up all night when you’re camping. Seriously though, haven’t you felt like this at work some times?  I know I did. You get to the point where you’ll put up with anything because you’re comfortable with the “security”, “predictability”, whatever. But is that as good as it’s supposed to get?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                Crabs in a Bucket:

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                So the story goes that if you put a bunch of crabs in a bucket, most of the crabs will just clamor around at the bottom of the bucket making a fuss. But what happens when one of the crabs tries to climb out of the bucket? Do all the other crabs join in to help him escape? Nope. They pull him back down into the bucket. Now, I’m not going to draw any direct conclusions to your life, but how many times have you wanted to do something new, different or adventurous and all those around you who supposedly “care” about you say “that’s crazy”, or “no” or try to talk you out of it, or tell you how bad things could get. Now it’s certainly not because the they don’t want you to succeed. I think it’s because they DO care and just don’t want to see you fail. But sometimes, just like the crabs, they don’t know that if they just give you a lift then you might actually make it! That’s the crab mentality. Sure, there are some who might think “Well if I can’t have it then no one can.” But, I tend to trust in humanity, and I’d bet most cases are just people who care about you but are too scared to take action themselves, so they think they’re giving you good advice.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                How I Wanted to Define My Work Life:

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                I decided that when I left my first career and started my next life, it would be by my rules. And I defined what I wanted this way:

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                • Do work where I was paid for performance over presence
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                • When possible, work on a project basis versus a time basis (the only clock I want to work on is nature’s clock)
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                • Wear what I wanted, when I wanted
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                • Innovate without permission
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                • Gather my own toolset that best serves my craft
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                • Don’t limit myself to vacation days or how long I can work
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                • Choose who I want to work with and why
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                • How It All Played Out:

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  • Vanessa was doing the stay at home Mom thing at the time, but it was getting to that point that she was ready to go back to work.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  • Well when it comes to a Simple Life Together, it sure is a lot better when you can have the together part! So we tweaked the plans a bit to plan out what Vanessa really wanted to do with her career, too.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  • Vanessa decided that being a Professional Organizer was her calling
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  • Before she even started doing hands-on organizing we set up a website for her to start blogging about organization and simplicity.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  • We focused on her making the transition to self employment first, with me supporting her efforts and then following along with my goals later.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  • Starting Our First Website. Ugh!!!!

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    I gotta tell you, setting up that first website was a bear! I didn’t have a clue what I was doing and everything I read got me more confused. But I kept plugging away at it and in the years since I can’t tell you how many sites I’ve set up for us and for clients. But I vividly remember feeling absolutely lost and almost helpless! It would take me hours to figure out some of the simplest tasks or collect the info to make an informed decision. And that website was so important to us.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • It was a proving ground for me to get it set up and learn about things like hosting, WordPress, plugins, and a tiny little bit of code.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • It was a proving ground for Vanessa to begin writing about her new found passion for organizing.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • It was like this huge opportunity and major stumbling block rolled all into one.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • But we did it! We were on our way to starting a lifestyle business, a “side gig” as many call it.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • I Got Some Great Advice!

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      I’d certainly recommend that that’s how you start your lifestyle business, too. Some of the best advice I got was from Dan Miller, author of the best selling book 48 Days to the Work You Love.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      • I listened to his podcasts and studied what he had to say.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      • Often, he’d advise people to “start doing something on the side” and grow that side business…that “side gig”…until it can support you.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      • Along with that goes another piece of advice, and that is to “bootstrap” your business, meaning start with your own money and start without going into loads of debt.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      • I know that if this is one of your goals you’re probably so motivated to start that you want jump right in. But, just like consumerism…and we talk about this all the time here…sometimes patience helps you realize what you really need to get started versus what you want to get started.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      • Some Caveats…Please Take These Seriously

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        Just know before you start that it takes a LOT of work to work for yourself. And I’ll be the first to tell you that it’s really hard to make a business simple…but if it’s something you’ve absolutely decided to do then that’s great! Go for it!

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        • To be clear, it took us a long time working in “normal” careers to support us getting started on our own.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        • If anyone or any website tries to sell you a lifestyle line and promises it to be easy…RUN! It’s not easy.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        • You can be as passionate as you want about something but if you’re not making money at it then it’s just a hobby!
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        • That’s why it’s best to start out with a side gig to test the waters.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        • The Light At the End of the Tunnel

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          But if you’re ready to start on the path to shaping your life a bit more then there’s one thing I’d like to give you to help you get started. Something I wish I had…a guide to setting up your website. Like I said, for us getting that web presence going was one of the most intimidating things because we had no background in it whatsoever. Now we can do it pretty simply and I’ve copied all the background info down for you in Seven Modules, including what you need to know about…

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          • Module 1: Creating a Website for Your Lifestyle Business
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          • Module 2: Choosing a Domain Name
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          • Module 3: Choosing a Hosting Provider
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          • Module 4: Which Website Platform to Use
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          • Module 5: Giving Your Site More Functionality
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          • Module 6: Getting Creative with Your Brand (logos, headers, print materials, promotional merchandise, etc)
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          • Module 7: Tapping the Power of Social Media
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          • There are even links to videos to show you exactly how to get started on your site.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            So, What’s the Catch?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            No “catch”, it’s absolutely and completely free and it will be available next week or sooner.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            • It’s over 30 pages long and is packed with great tips to help you get that lifestyle business going on the side.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            • If you like the guide, and we think you will…especially for the low, low price of…FREE...we just ask that you consider using the affiliate links inside the guide to sign up for the web hosting you’ll need for your site.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            • You’ll get a fantastic rate, a free domain with top-notch hosting that all told will cost you around a hundred bucks for the the whole year.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            • Out of this, we get a small commission from the host that costs you nothing extra, and knowledge that we helped you get your lifestyle business started to support your Simple Life Together.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            • Everybody wins!  If starting up a website is new to you, I’ll guarantee you that if you follow the tips in the guide it will save you countless hours of research trying to figure the process out. Geez, I wish I had this a few years ago!
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            • So that’s it…a bit about how we started on this path toward simplicity and how we’d like to help you too if you’re looking to start a lifestyle business of your own. You can sign up to download the guide here:  Yes…I want the Simple Life Guide to Building Your Website and as soon as it’s available I’ll send you a link! Simple as that!

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              Edit & Forget It Update!

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              Well, the Facebook Edit & Forget It page is alive and well so if you signed up for Edit & Forget It feel free to join us on FB, too! For the folks that are there…it’s great to be able to see your photos and interact…we have some folks making amazing progress on their challenge! There have been some pretty funny posts over there too so if you haven’t been on the page, you’re missing out.  It’s still 2013 so it’s never too late to join the Challenge, so if you’re ready to edit 2013 things from your life, you can sign up right here! We have people signing up every day and we’d love to have you join us!

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              Vanessa’s Topic: First Steps on the Road to Simplicity

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              A couple of weeks ago, a friend and former colleague of ours sent me a direct message on Facebook commenting on how much he liked our podcast and our messages about living a life of simplicity.  He said that he realizes these are great lessons not just for adults but for our kids as well, but was wondering how parents instill these ideas in their kids? Though I’m not an expert, I have learned through my experiences as a parent, teacher, daughter and student (of parenting and organizing) that there are some strategies that can help make that learning process…those first steps on the Road To Simplicity…a little bit easier for your kids (or even adults).  So, in no particular order (except for the first thing I mention below), here are some thoughts and strategies:

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              •  Start with your values: When it comes to organizing and not buying into consumerism I recommend starting by looking at the values you want to instill in your children. Do you value spending time with and nurturing your family, exercising your faith, practicing financial responsibility, promoting a healthy lifestyle and personal fitness? Or exploring your creativity via hobbies, experiencing cultures via travel, practicing a good work ethic and earning your keep or giving back to others and practicing selflessness? What do you value most in life and what do you want to instill in your children? I recommend evaluating that first before getting into the “how tos” of it all because that will affect the way you act…the way you make decisions…and the way you parent.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                • Practice leadership by example: For instance…Stop working at a reasonable hour so that you can get home and spend time with your family. Curb your own spending. Pick up after yourself. Edit your own belongings. Read the bible and pray with your family. Let them see you exercise and eat healthy food. Sit down at the dinner table together when possible. Show them how to donate things and help the needy. By walking the walk they’ll see what’s important to you and in turn hopefully they’ll internalize that themselves.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  •  Get into instructor/teacher mode: If you want to teach your children new habits or a new way of thinking, try using some of the Laws of Learning: In particular: the Law of Repetition (repeating an action over and over again) and Law of Recency (the more recent or frequent an action is practiced the faster it’s learned). Of course the Law of Primacy sometimes gets in the way (this is trying to break bad habits if they were the first ones learned). The idea is to instruct them:  tell them what you want and expect…explain why it’s important…show them how (if applicable)…practice…repeat… and then hold them accountable.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • Speaking of accountability…have a system of rewards and consequences. This is along the lines of teaching your kids to be organized.  Reward them if they do good….but exercise the consequences if they’re bad. The key is to back up those consequences to prove you are serious.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      • Take advantage of teachable moments: They want to buy that big, expensive toy or the one with a million pieces? Ok. They have to save up and pay for it with their own money….or lug it around the store while you shop…or carry it around the amusement park all day long….or clean all the play doh up themselves…or pick up all those millions of pieces before they can play or do anything else.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        • Praise when they make good choices: Shower your kids with affection when they don’t beg for toys, voluntarily put artwork in the recycle bin, clean up after themselves or donate a toy willingly. Your children want to make you proud! You’ve gotta show them that you are!
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          • Less television is always a good thing! I took that quote directly from Joshua Becker of Becoming Minimalist during our interview a couple of podcasts ago.  This is one I’m personally working on because honestly…the television was giving me a break!   But I realized it’s more important I spend time with my child rather than tune her out (pun intended).  I started to limit the amount of television she watches so now we do a lot of other activities together. We try to opt for recorded shows without commercials…NickJR…Netflix, Amazon Instant Video, etc. to limit her exposure to commercials and advertisements…bonus!
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            • Have a genuine conversation with your kids: Ask why they want things. Ask them how it will make their life better. Ask them if it will make them feel better about themselves and how. Let them explore their own feelings without putting words in their mouths. Let them come to the conclusions on why something is or isn’t important. It shows that you are not babying them and that you respect their thoughts.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              • Compliment your kids often and build their self-confidence: It will help curb the need to be like everyone else. Your children’s clothes and things don’t define them…it’s their beautiful spirits and caring personalities that do!
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              • So…that was probably way more than my friend expected to get from his question… but I’m so glad he asked it because I think it something a lot of parents wonder about and don’t mind getting some ideas and suggestions on how they can teach their own children on how to appreciate what they have. I hope this was beneficial for all of you listening out there.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                The “Thing” Segment:

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                Vanessa: A Shopping Trip With My Daughter And Her Grasping The Idea Of Less

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                A few days ago I decided to take my daughter to the store to buy a volleyball and football so we could play catch in the backyard.  As we were walking through the store to go pay, I told her: ”Ok Junior…remember what we do when we get something new?  We have to give away something old, right?”  She said, “Oh yeah I remember mommy.  Yes, I can give away something I don’t play with anymore. That would be a good idea, right mommy?” And as we were having this conversation I passed a woman (who appeared to be there with her family of six kids) and I think she overheard me talking to Junior because she did a double take.  I don’t know if she heard or was interested in what I said but I don’t mind at all if she overheard my message! I was just so extraordinarily proud of my little girl….SHE GETS IT! And you know what…she got rid of 25 items in place of those 3 new ones!  Not bad for a 5 year old!

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                Dan:  A Private Podcasting Community on Google+ 

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                My thing this week is this group of fellow podcasters that I belong to. We meet on Google+ every couple of weeks and talk about podcasting, technology, what’s going on with our shows, you name it. It’s great. It’s so important to have a group you can bounce ideas off of, learn from, gauge your reality against, and know they’ll tell you their true opinion. That’s one thing I miss from my military days was having that peer group I can go to where everyone contributes. I’ve often thought of starting a mastermind group online to have that for the business side of things or the simplicity side of things. If you’ve never heard of a mastermind group it was made popular by Napoleon Hill in Think and Grow Rich and the concept basically references the synergies created when several minds unite to work towards a common specific goal, where the whole is greater than the sum of its parts. Basically, your own little think tank for ideas.  And so, hopefully you’re blessed to have people in your life to share and evaluate things with, too. If not…maybe you should take a look around. Start close to home with friends but maybe Google+ communities are a place to look, or Meetup.com…the key is to find a few people, with shared interests, and talk.  So, that’s my thing…

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                Closing Thoughts:

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                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  So, here are the links we mentioned in the show:

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  Simple Life Guide to Building Your Website

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  48 Days To The Work You Love by Dan Miller

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                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                • SLT 012: Sun Tzu & the Art of Inbox Warfare, and How To Organize Any Space
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  The Art of Inbox Warfare, and How To Organize Any Space

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                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  Dan’s Topic: Sun Tzu & the Art of Inbox Warfare

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  We’ve had a few other listeners out there who have been struggling with their email inboxes lately, so I thought I’d take some time to give you some tips on how you can declare war on Inbox clutter and reclaim the calm to this part of your digital life.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  The key to email management is the same as it is to physical things in your simple life: limit what you allow into your life. If your inbox is full of messages that don’t add value to your life, eliminate them now and put systems into place to eliminate them permanently.


                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  Why do we get so much junk? Sometimes it’s just that your email was on a subscriber list that was sold to marketers. But it’s also affected by what type of things you sign up for. So, if you really want to cut down on junk email:

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  • Be a bit more careful who you give your email address to
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  • Signing up for every little contest or offering that comes along is like saying, “Please spam me!”
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  • Get over what’s called FOMO or the fear of missing out.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  • There’s good info and junk info…bringing more junk info into your life doesn’t make your life better or more simple. It makes it cluttered and hectic. Trust me, you’re not missing out.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  • So, here are some steps you can take to shape a more simple email experience:

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    – Unsubscribe from newsletters, feeds, updates, lists and other streams that don’t enrich your life.  If there’s no link to unsubscribe, you shouldn’t be at all uncomfortable about marking the message as spam. Gmail has a built in function that marks the message as spam and automatically attempts to unsubscribe you from the sender’s list but you can also do it yourself by clicking the  little stop sign-shaped icon with an exclamation point inside in your Inbox panel.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    – Another way to deal with unwanted emails is by using filters. Most email programs allow you to set filters to weed out messages based on your inputs.  You can easily set filters in the settings area of your Gmail account, or if you have an email message open in Gmail, just click the “More” button and choose “Filter Messages Like These”.  Then just follow the prompts.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                     So that covers stopping the deluge of inbound emails. What about the “Occupy Inbox” movement that’s already camped on in your email? Here’s how to handle what you have right now in 3 Steps:

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    1-Pick the dozen or so emails in your inbox that must be handled now to avoid an emergency, overcharges, severe embarrassment, or a close relationship and deal with them now. That alone will leave you feeling better.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    2- Make the rest of the not so urgent emails (and yes, for many people that numbers in the THOUSANDS) and put them in a temporary folder or Label (Gmail). You’ll deal with them later. This does 2 things… First, it gets what appears to be a major obstacle, stumbling block, and barrier to progress out of the way. Second, it allows you to set up new habits and systems.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    3- Tackle that Temporary folder or Label full of old emails. If you have so many that you can’t tackle it in one sitting, pick a time, set a timer for 15 minutes, and go to battle. Make time in your schedule for the next session, and keep at it until you’ve dealt with all of them. BUT…big but here…NOT at the cost of your inbox. You’ve got to commit to staying on top of your inbox.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    So, now that you’ve kindly asked the spammy squatters to move on and you have your Inbox back...let’s move on to those habits and skills. Here are some things to master for a solid email routine:

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    – Don’t Over-Do the Folders or Labels:  Keep it simple by trusting the search function in your email system. So, set up a few folders (called “Labels” in Gmail) that match the major areas of your life such as work, family, home, your passions, taxes, etc…and then just use the Archive function for the rest.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    – Trust the Search Function: Gmail is especially great at this.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    – Delete When You’re Done: if you’ve finished reading an email and have no reason to keep it, then delete it right away.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    – Limit your Access: This one takes a lot of getting used to. Especially if you have a reputation for always being available…digitally, of course. Set your own terms on checking email. Tim Ferriss recommends in his book The Four Hour Workweek, not to check your e-mail the first thing in the morning, and only check it periodically throughout the day.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    – Set Expectations for those you correspond with, especially if they’re used to your instant responses. Set an auto responder that you’re only checking emails twice a day and give options for emergencies such as “If this is an emergency, please call my cell.”  No need to give out your cell number as those close to you already likely have it.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    – Send fewer emails yourself and write your emails to elicit complete responses versus volleys of emails (like the effective communication mentioned in Episode 10). For instance, when setting up an appointment, instead of asking “When are you available?” State in your email, “I can meet Monday morning between 9:00 and 11:00 or Tuesday between 2:00 and 4:15.  If neither of those times work for you, please send me 3 options for Wednesday through Friday in the morning after 9:00, but before 4:15.”

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    – Keep your messages simple. Short sentences and 3-4 sentences at most, if possible. If this is a “just catching up” email…consider whether a phone call, Skype call, or Facetime wouldn’t be more productive.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    -Your Inbox shouldn’t be your To-Do List . Process everything that comes in to your inbox with the goal of touching it once. If it’s a to do, use the Task List in Gmail along with Google Calendar, Evernote, the Reminders function on your Mac, or some other task management system.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    -Avoid sending e-mails if you can. If you’re having problems with too many e-mails, why continue to add to it?  Find ways to cut down on the e-mails you send and help others avoid the clutter in their inbox, too.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    Managing your inbox is a continuous battle. So, I’ll recap this in combat terms using the Principles of War compiled from the likes of Sun Tzu, Clausewitz and other smart dead guys. So, in no particular order, here we go!

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • Objective – Objective is defined as: Directing every operation toward a clearly defined, decisive and attainable objective.  A simple military example is “Take that hill and hold it!”.  For your email, your objective isn’t really “Inbox Zero” as some systems claim. That’s just a likely result. Your Objective is effective communication and your Inbox is one tool for that. Don’t beat yourself up if you have a couple untouched emails in your Inbox until you’re ready to deal with them. Focus on the “effective communication” aspect.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      • Offensive – Seize, retain, and exploit the initiative. “Attack!”  Just like in sports, defense is great, but you have to take action to win. Seize control of your Inbox, folders, and email system, and capitalize on your momentum to maintain the offensive.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        • Mass – In military ops, commanders strive to Mass the effects of overwhelming combat power at the decisive place and time. Commanders have many different weapons systems at their disposal. They bring air, land, and sea assets together at decisive places and times to defeat the enemy. That’s Mass. For your email system, this means “batch your tasks.” We talk about batching tasks a lot because it works. Interruptions kill momentum gained in the offensive and waste your time.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          • Economy of Force – Employ all combat power available in the most effective way possible; allocate minimum essential combat power to secondary efforts. In war, like in life, assets are finite. You can’t use all the tools in your toolkit all at once or when a lesser tool can accomplish the task. Your personal effort is your combat power when dealing with your Inbox. Maximize the use of automated systems such as the filters we talked about to minimize your personal effort, while maximizing the effectiveness of your system.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            • Maneuver – Place the enemy in a position of disadvantage through the flexible application of combat power. Essentially, lining up to “take the shot.” Again, filters can go a long way with maneuver, but think of your Folders or Labels in Gmail as a way to compartmentalize your info, and focus your attention where it needs to be.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              • Unity of Command – For every objective, seek unity of command and unity of effort. We’ve all been in situations where we wonder “who’s in charge here?” Who do I listen to? Unity of Command and Effort are great concepts to use when you share email for tasks or have an assistant that helps you with your emails. For instance, in a family setting, whoever does the bills should get the emails regarding the bills. In a work setting, your secretary or assistant should have clear guidelines for acting on your behalf or highlighting messages for your personal attention. The Four Hour Work Week has great examples for this.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                • Security – Never permit the enemy to acquire unexpected advantage. Of course there’s physical security, but one area that’s stressed in military circles is OPSEC or operational security. In sports, a boxer tries not to telegraph their punches, and poker players keep have a poker face to hide their intentions. At the same time, they try to read their opponents and look for their “tell”…a sign that gives away the opponent’s intentions. The enemy in our case is unnecessary information or digital clutter. Of course, be sure to apply all pertinent security methods for your email by using strong passwords, etc, but also think of this as securing your email address from those who might try to exploit it, and you, with spam, phishing attempts, and malware.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  • Simplicity – The most effective military plans are simple. The goal with this principle is to prepare clear, uncomplicated plans and concise orders to ensure thorough understanding.  There’s an adage called “Napoleon’s Corporal” that describes how Napoleon would have a corporal sit in during battle plan briefings to see if he understood the plan. If the Corporal understood, Napoleon figured, then commanders would understand. This best applies to your Folder or Labels system. Once again, if you’re using a product like Gmail, trust your email program’s search function.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  • and finally, we have..

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • Surprise – Strike the enemy at a time or place or in a manner for which he is unprepared. OK, this one might be a bit of a stretch, but wait until you see the surprise on the asker’s face when you decline to give your email address to someone who is trying to collect it. It’s precious! If you’re uncomfortable saying NO at first, have a decoy email address you can give. Look, you’re just protecting yourself, so no harm-no foul there. But eventually, it’s best to just take a stand and say, “I don’t give that out. I’m sure you understand.”
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • So that’s it. A little Inbox Boot Camp so you can liberate your email from the enemy.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      Edit & Forget It Update!

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                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      We’ll be setting up a private Facebook group for those doing the Edit & Forget It Challenge. You can share your successes, struggles, post pictures, etc.

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                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      • If the email you signed up for the Challenge was different from your Facebook name, I may send you a direct email confirming it’s you.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      • This Group will be for Edit & Forget It members only. People who sign up after 24 January 2013 will automatically get an invite to the private Facebook page after they sign up.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      • There’s certainly no requirement to join the Facebook group, it’s just another way to be involved in the Challenge. If Facebook isn’t your thing…no worries at all.
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                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      • Vanessa’s Topic: How To Organize Any Space

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        Since I’ve already talked about How Clutter Affects Your Life (Episode 10), The Benefits of Organizing and Having Less (Episode 4) and Why We Can’t Let Go of Our Clutter (Epidsode 3), I figured it was time share with you some tips on how to organize any space!

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        I won’t have time to go into a lot of detail but if you want a more in-depth explanation of the process you can check out my Organize Any Space Series at SimpleLifeTogether.com/organizeanything. I have 6 posts in the series that discusses each step in the process with a finale post where I organize a kitchen using the step-by-step process on how to organize it.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        I’m just going to quickly outline the process on how you can organize any space but before you start I recommend:

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        – Start small.  Pick a small area like a small junk drawer, nightstand, or one section of your closet.  Whatever the project…pick just a small one.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        – Mark your calendar. Yes…set a date for your organizing project. You’re more likely to get it done if you set a date.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        – Give yourself adequate time to organize your space.  Since I recommend starting small give yourself at least 2 – 3 hours. It may not take that long, but you’ll be surprised how long some projects take.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        – Limit interruptions. Try not to answer your phone, voicemails, emails, etc.  And if you can do it while the kids are out….that would be awesome!

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        There are several different organizers that have their own terminology on how to organize, but the basic steps and  process are all pretty much the same.  So being the uber simple gal that I am…I just have a 4 step process: N…A…P…O (ironically it’s the same acronym as the National Association of Professional Organizers…dorky I know):

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        1. Determine your NEEDS

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        2. ASSESS your space

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        3. PURGE or PARE DOWN your space

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        4. ORGANIZE your space

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        STEP 1 – DETERMINE YOUR NEEDS: (Please don’t skip over this step)  

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        – You really need to have a clear understanding of what your needs are, otherwise your efforts will be in vain. 

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        – Be sure to get the family and other household members involved.   

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        – Envision the space.  What is your end state?  How do you want it to look?  How do you want it to function?  How do you want to feel?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        STEP 2 – ASSESS YOUR SPACE: (Don’t skip this step either)

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        – Identify what’s working for you. 

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        – Identify what’s not working for you.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        – You’ll also want to evaluate your habits and natural tendencies. 

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        – Determine what’s in the space that shouldn’t be there. 

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        – Determine what is essential to you. 

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        – Map out your space by taking measurements and identifying limitations.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        – Take “before” pictures of the space.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        STEP 3 – PURGE/or PARE DOWN: This is the hands on editing phase of organizing your space…the part that’s the most difficult and frustrating but if you follow these steps it’ll make it a lot easier:

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        – Gather your supplies (paper, post it notes, markers, trash bags, 4-8 bins  for sorting ,  a folding table to give you a flat surface to work on,  and maybe even gloves for messier work like in the garage).

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        – Set up your sorting bins, bags and/or piles. 

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        KEEP: anything you love, use and need.  (Note:  this may require several additional  piles because you’re going to break your “keep items” down into general “like” categories like: office supplies, paperwork, kitchen utensils, electronics, toys, etc. Don’t get too specific…keep the piles general for now…you can fine tune later).

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        TRASH: items that are broken, soiled, ripped or beyond repair (use a trash bag)

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        RECYCLE: self explanatory but check with your local recycling center to see what they’ll take (use trash bag)

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        DONATE: don’t donate anything that is in poor condition. You know, things that you wouldn’t give  to friends or family (use trash bag or box).

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        DON’T KNOW: stuff you’re having a hard time of letting go of or figuring out what to do with.  Don’t spend too much time on these right now…you can decide later what to do with them.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        ELSEWHERE / RETURN: belong in another room, belong to someone else, or need to be returned.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        – Start sorting…pull everything out of the space one item at a time and decide which bin to put it in.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        – Start with flat surfaces first to free up your tables and counter space then tackle the cabinets and drawers and so on.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        – Move from one side of the room to the other. You’ll have a better idea of how much you’ve gotten done as you go.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        – Once you’ve finished sorting, go back to your DON’T KNOW PILE: If you don’t love it, need it or use it you can probably let it go.  But if you’re still having trouble, I recommend going to Episode 3’s shownotes for other helpful questions to guide your decision.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        – Remove all your bins and bags except for your “KEEP” items from the area immediately! Don’t give yourself the opportunity to change your mind.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                         STEP 4 – ORGANIZE: This is where you start to put things back in the space. Here are some things to keep in mind as you organize:

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        – Sort like items together:  Remember that KEEP Pile? You can break those general categories of things down even further. For example your kitchen pile can now be broken down into glasses, bakeware, pots and pans, utensils, dinnerware, food, bowls, etc.  You can do the same for your clothes, toys and office supplies.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        – Create zones in your space and place your items accordingly. For example the kitchen; you can establish a cooking zone near the stove, a baking zone near the oven, a coffee/beverage zone near the sink or fridge and a serving zone/dinnerware near the dishwasher.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        – In your zones, place frequently used items within arms reach.  Everyday items should be easy to grab.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        – Seldom used items up high, down low or in back of your frequently used items.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        – Think safety for yourself and the kids. Delicates, cleaning supplies, medications and heavy items should be put in areas that are safe).

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        – Don’t forget about vertical storage.  You can install racks on walls, behind door, or inside cabinets. You can use the side of a refrigerator or metal filing cabinet to hang magnetic jars and baskets.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        – Use containers and containers within containers.  I always recommend shopping from your own home and using what you have first (you may have actually freed up some containers after you edited).  But if you want to update your space with newer, nicer, or more efficient products by all means go ahead, just make sure you measure twice…and purchase once!

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        – Now you should label everything you can! I highly recommend getting yourself a good label maker like the Brother P-Touch…it makes such a difference.  You can label shelves, containers, lazy susans, drawers, etc. It helps to learn where things go…and where to return them!!!!

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        – Maintain your space by establishing rules and routines. Refer to Episode 2.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        So that’s how you organize any space: Determine your Needs, Assess your space, Purge your space and Organize it…then  Repeat because organizing is usually cyclical ;o)

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                         The “Thing” Segment:
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        Vanessa: Never Too Old To Learn

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        My Thing this week was being inspired by my one of my clients to never stop learning. I have a 68 year old client who in the past 3-4 years has completed her Bachelors in Nursing as well has her Master’s Degree…and is now working on her PhD. Dang!  She inspired me to pursue an Interior Decorating certification as well as my certification as a Certified Professional Organizer .  Yay!

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        Dan:  Focusing a Little Harder on the Fitness Pillar

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        Well, if you listened to Episode 1 or looked around our site, you know we focus our lives on our five pillars of Faith, Family, Finances, Fitness and Future. Well, with the holidays, my Vegas trip, too much sitting at a desk, the weather and (insert incredibly lame excuse here)…I think I’ve been too lax lately and my body is sending me signals to make some changes.  So I’m going to re-focus on my fitness and health by  doing more juicing, walking and biking.  So, that’s my thing…

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        Feedback: We’ve been getting flooded with great feedback and here’s just a sample:

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        Chef Toni from DinnerMadeSimple.com. wrote:”Just what I was looking for! A little direction on how live life more simply. Love Dan and Vanessa’s take on all this. From technology to finances to organizing…they’ve got it all covered and I can’t wait for more episodes! ”

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        Emily from TheCrunchyCoach.com wrote: “Every once in a while, I run into a new podcast that I wish was an old one so I could keep on listening to archived episodes every day for the next couple of months. Yours is one! Hurry up and get the next one out, lol! ” Turns out Emily started the Edit and Forget It Challenge before we even started it!  She’s gotten rid of a ton of stuff!

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        Vanessa was listening to the Mommy’s Cocktail Hour podcast and low and behold they mentioned SimpleLifeTogether as one of their Fabulous Finds for the week! How cool! So, thanks to all the ladies over at MommysCocktailHour.com!

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        And Nick from SPNT.tv left a terrific comment on iTunes for us. Nick is looking to simplify his life this year, too, and started listening to us on Episode 1 and he’s on his way! Well, thanks, Nick, and we’re certainly glad to be able to help out along the way!

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        Closing Thoughts:

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                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          So, here are the links we mentioned in the show:

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          The 4 Hour Workweek

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          Brother P-Touch Label Maker

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          Mommy’s Cocktail Hour

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          SPNT.tv

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          DinnerMadeSimple.com

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          SLT Podcast Episode 1

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          SLT Podcast Episode 2

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          SLT Podcast Episode 3

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                           SLT Podcast Episode 4

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                           

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          SLT Podcast Episode 10

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                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        • SLT 011: Becoming Minimalist With Joshua Becker and “But Wait, There’s More!”
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          Becoming Minimalist With Joshua Becker and “But Wait, There’s More!”

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                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          Interview with Joshua Becker of BecomingMinimalist.com

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          We had an amazing interview with, Joshua. He shared so much information with us!  He is truely an inspiration and has fantastic advice on how to simplify and get more out of your life by living with less.  Here is a list of questions we asked Joshua (believe us…you definitely want to listen to the podcast!):

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          1. So, Joshua…who are you and how do you make people’s lives simpler?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          2. Could you tell us about the “catalyst” that helped you decide to become minimalist and if there were any other factors or events leading up to your decisions?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          3. Tell us about how you approached your wife about your idea to pursue minimalism…her reaction…and your collective decision to move forward. Was there any “pushback?”

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          4. Can you describe how long it took you to get to a point where you called yourself a ‘minimalist’? Can you explain the process?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          5. How do you define or explain minimalism?  What does it physically look like to you…how does it feel?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          6. Does minimalism for you also include letting go of mental and digital clutter? Bad relationships, overcommitment? Do you have any recommendations for doing that?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          7. In your book Inside-Out Simplicity you talk about healthy relationships. I know from personal and professional experience that it’s usually easier when couples are on the same sheet of music, but what advice would you give if couples have different ideas of what simplifying is?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          8. In Living With Less: An Unexpected Key to Happiness (Simply for Students) you tell a story about your son and his birthday money. I think every parent has experienced that at some point. Could you describe that experience and give some advice to those of us with kids about how to deal with the constant consumer pitch of “more, more, more” and “bigger is better” from every aspect of the media?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          9. In your book Simplify, you say that living simply is “the real secret to financial freedom.” How have you found that to be true in your journey and do you have any financial pointers for us?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          10. If someone asked what the benefits are to a lifestyle like yours, what would you tell them?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          11. How can people learn more about you?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          12. Is there anything else you’d like to add?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          Dan’s Topic: “But Wait, There’s More!” The 2013 Consumer Electronics Show

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          Alright, so this past week I was in Las Vegas for the 2013 New Media Expo and the Consumer Electronics Show (CES) and I thought I’d  discuss some of my experiences there. So, I’ll let the irony of that sink in for a moment…a guy trying desperately to fight consumerism and simplify his life…at the CONSUMER electronics show…the LARGEST Consumer Electronics Show in history with over 100K people in attendance.  Yeah…trust me…the irony wasn’t lost on me either! I was actually there on business because I help my clients with tech for their businesses and even some individuals who just want tech coaching.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          So, first off, I walked the show with a couple of friends from morning until dinner time and let me just say that the show was pretty amazing!  It would be impossible to cover everything but I thought I would summarize my experience including the good, the ridiculous and some thoughts I had on the whole experience:

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          – We walked 9 miles, and still didn’t see it all. If I had to guess, I’d say we saw maybe half, if that. Other folks tracked in over 15miles!  That’s a lot of consumer products!

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          – Companies from every country on the globe were there selling their wares. All the new lines of gadgets and even super hi-tech robots.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          – Joshua eluded to the fact that we are bombarded with about 5000 advertisements a day.  Well…think of the CES as that on steroids…like full blast, no holds barred, in your face, just a crazy consumerism extravaganza….”But wait there’s more!” kind of  world!

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          – I couldn’t help but evaluate it all as I was going through the show, and what struck me was the word lure. You know, like a fishing lure.  I came to the conclusion that the intent of most advertising is simply to lure us in with flashy attention getters, that lack any real substance.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          – Lures were everywhere!  From swag bags to” booth babes” and none of which had anything to do with the products.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          – And after all that walking around, not much at the show really impressed me as new, innovative or “must have”.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          – Products I did like were the new ScanSnap scanner and some very nice Harmon Kardon headphones (they fit perfectly, had amazing sound and can be used corded or cordless…and you know I can’t stand cords).

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          – On the ridiculous end were $1000 ear buds…I mean really?…earbuds…$1000? And then the worst was they iPotty. Yes…taking one of Nature’s most basic functions (kids learning how to go to the bathroom) and adding the iPad to it. (You’ve got to listen to my rant on the podcast!  I had Vanessa vapor-locked!).

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          – So, you know what I’ll remember most? Sitting down to dinner at Beni Hanna’s with friends Cliff Ravenscraft from GSPN.tv and Gordon Firemark from Firemark.com for Gordon’s birthday meal. I cherish the personal experiences I had with friends.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          – The same goes for my experience at New Media Expo. The NMX staff did a wonderful job…but as much value came from the natural interaction, mingling…some would call it “networking”… as it did from the speakers and sessions.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          – So, once again I think this is an example of paying for experiences and opportunities as opposed to paying for “stuff.”

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          – I leave you with this:  Ask yourself “If I had twice as much stuff, would I be twice as happy?” What about three times more? What about half?”  I know what the answer is for me, and only you know what the right answer is for you.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          – And next time you feel yourself getting reeled in by advertising, try to figure out if they are using bait or just a lure. Choose wisely…watch out for the lures…and maybe help out a few of the other fish in the sea while you’re at it.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          Vanessa’s Topic: Edit & Forget Challenge Update

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          We wanted to give you an update on our Edit and Forget It Challenge.  To date, we’ve gotten rid of 322 items…we actually got rid of 120 things on the first day!  Not bad for just starting, huh?!  We’ve also created a spreadsheet to track all the items and what we’ve done with them…DONATE, TOSS, RECYCLE, SELL, ETC.  Additionally I’ve been taking photos and keeping notes on my observations, discoveries and some funnies along the way.  Here are a few examples:

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          – When editing my memorabilia box, I started going down memory lane and bored Dan with my stories of the past.  I even read a letter from a former boyfriend.  Who does that?  (Listen to the podcast to see how I redeem myself!)

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          – I also got busted by our 5 year old daughter.  I tried to toss an old hair scrunchie and she busted me red-handed!  She obviously had use for it.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          – We also discovered that sometimes items can bring up bad feelings…like the universal remote Dan got years ago that apparently was the bane of his existence at one point in his life.  The only thing it “switched” on was his frustration! (But he hasn’t given up hope!)

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          – And we also got rid of some rather odd things….like caution tape (huh?)…a feather duster (what the?)… and Christmas golf towels (we don’t golf)!

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          For those of you who’ve signed up for the Edit & Forget It Challenge…thank you!  We’ll be emailing you very soon with updates. When we had 10 folks sign up we were impressed. Then we got 20 folks to sign up and we were like, “wow!” Now we’ve got even more!  If you haven’t signed up but are interested in the challenge, just click on the Edit and Forget It icon on the left hand side of this page.  Remember, it’s not just about letting go of your things…it’s about renewing your mindset and discovering that less is more!

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          The “Thing” Segment:
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          Vanessa: Live Different

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          Vanessa’s “THING” was about an article titled “Live Different” by Pete Tegeler on a blog called The Unitive.  In the article he talks about living in a place of tension…and the struggle between Escapism (when you feel threatened) and Conformity (the need to be relevant). And he also talks about the struggles of pluralism and materialism. Vanessa relates to this article, especially with how we are intentionally living different lives by living with less.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          Dan:  An Invisible Thread…an interview on Huckabee

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          While in Vegas he had the TV on and saw Governor Huckabee interviewing a lady named Laura Schroff and a man named Maurice Mazyck. They have an incredible story that she shares in her book, An Invisible Thread.  It is the story of the mysterious, unseen connections that exist between people who are destined to meet—and how, if only we open our eyes and our hearts to them, these connections can be the great blessings of our lives (Its a must see!  Link is below).

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          Closing Thoughts:

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                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            So, here are the links we mentioned in the show:

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Becoming Minimalist Blog

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Simplify by Joshua Becker

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Living With Less: An Unexpected Key To Happiness by Joshua Becker

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Inside Out Simplicity by Joshua Becker

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            The Unitive Blog

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Pete Tegeler’s Article Live Different

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            An Invisible Thread website and video

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Cliff Ravenscraft at GSPN.tv

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Gordon Firemark at Firemark.com

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                             

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                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          • SLT 010: How Clutter Affects Your Life, & Secret (But Simple) Military Communication Techniques
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            How Clutter Affects Your Life, & Secret (But Simple) Military Communication Techniques
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                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Special Announcement: Especially for listeners in and around San Antonio/Austin, TX

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Our friend and colleague Karen Meade of Let’s Get Organizing will be hosting her annual Organize and Energize workshop. It’s on Saturday, January 19th, 2013 from 9:30 AM to 12:30 PM at TriPoint on North St Mary’s, in San Antonio, Texas. There’s a great lineup of speakers talking about organization, meal planning, health and fitness and Dan will be there talking about tech. For more information check out LetsGetOrganizing.com or Facebook.com/LetsGetOrganizing. Hope to see you there!

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Main Topics  
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Vanessa’s Topic: How Clutter Affects Your Life
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            So, what is clutter?  Here’s how some experts define it:
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            • Princeton University’s WordNet defines clutter as:
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              • “a confused, multitude of things”
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              • “to fill a space in a disorderly way”
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              • “a confused, disorderly, jumble of things”
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              • “filled or scattered with disorderly accumulation of objects or rubbish”
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              • Clutterers Anonymous defines clutter as:
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                • “anything we don’t need, want, or use that takes our time, energy or space, and destroys our serenity”
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                • Clutter is more than piles and piles of stuff.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  • It’s a combination of new, old, unused, forgotten, misplaced, and emotionally (or coerced into being emotionally) “attached to” items.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  • Clutter is more than just a physical item…clutter is also about how an item is or isn’t being used. For example, a magazine in-and-of itself isn’t clutter…it’s just a magazine.  But when that magazine hasn’t been read for two weeks, two months, or even a year and is just sitting on top of a stack of other magazines that are several years old, and that stack is on top of your desk preventing you from being able to use it…that’s when that magazine is now considered “clutter.”
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  • So for the rest of this topic, let’s just consider clutter as “anything we don’t need, want, or use that takes our time, energy, space and serenity”

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    Examples of clutter:
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • Things that are expired (food,  medicine and toiletries for example)
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • Duplicate items (3 coffee makers, 4 vacuum cleaners, 3 punch bowls, 3 of the exact same North Face jackets…all the same color and style…you get the idea)
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • Things that belong to someone else (stuff you’ve borrowed and never returned)
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • Broken toys
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • Broken dishes
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • Broken appliances and tools
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • Outgrown toys
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • Clothes you’ve grown out of
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • Knick knacks that don’t serve any purpose
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • Gifts that…let’s face it…you never really liked  (“in a million years I wouldn’t be seen dead in this” kinds of gifts)
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • Hand me downs or inherited items that you’ll never use
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • Just in case items…for emergencies
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • “Don’t know” (no idea why it’s there or how to use it…but darn it, I’m keeping it!)
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • Stuff that causes safety concerns (pose a hazard such as fire or physical harm)
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • Stuff that can cause health concerns…old food sitting around the house, trash lying around attracting bugs and rodents, etc.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • Obsolete / outdated papers
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • Piles of papers and mail that have never been opened or are waiting to be opened and sorted
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • Other not-so obvious clutter items aren’t necessarily physical items, but impact your lifestyle
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      • Overcommitment
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      • Meaningless activity / duplication of effort (activity that is unfulfilling or serves no real purpose)
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      • Old resentments and ill feelings / unresolved issues
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      • Unsatisfying relationships
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      • Unsatisfying work (paid work, work at home, volunteer work, etc).
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      • Digital clutter (emails, photos, online documents)
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      • So those are a few examples of what clutter is, but how do you know if clutter is affecting you?  

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        You see…the truth about clutter and accumulating more, is that eventually you’ll be overwhelmed by the physical clutter which in turn will overwhelm you emotionally in terms of stress, indecision, guilt and so on. Clutter slowly but steadily creeps into your home and sucks the life out of you.  It can affect both your mental and physical health.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                         As Peter Walsh said in his book It’s All Too Much:

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        “Clutter robs you of far more than the space it occupies–it steals your life!”

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        So if you’re unsure if clutter is affecting your life, here are a few questions you can ask yourself:
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        • More often than not…are you embarrassed to have people over because of the state of your home?
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        • Do you have trouble finding things…your wallet, glasses, checkbook, keys, bills, etc?
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        • Have you missed paying your bills? Regardless of your economic states, one of the first questions I ask is if you’ve missed your payments.  Its usually not a matter of being able to pay the bill…it’s a matter of too much clutter and disorganization.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        • Do you have rooms or items not being used for their intended purposes? (bed, table, desk, office…I’ve had clients that have used bathrooms or guest rooms/offices as storage closets).
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        • Do you like to bargain hunt and love getting a good deal on items at the store?
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        • Do you like to collect freebee items from conferences and workshops?
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        • Do you eat out a lot because it’s too difficult to use your kitchen at home to cook?
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        • Do you have more possessions than can reasonably fit in your home?
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        • Are others in your life affected by your clutter?
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        • Are your relationships strained because of the state of your home?
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        • If you find yourself saying yes to many of these questions then clutter may be negatively affecting your life.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          When clutter is controlling you instead of you controlling it…that’s probably a good sign to make a change.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          So where do you start if you or someone you love needs help? (NOTE…website links are listed at bottom of these show notes)
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          • Educate yourself via books, magazines, podcasts, websites, etc.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          • Take classes: Adult continuing education, certification courses, check out the National Association of Professional Organizers or NAPO…and other
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          • Professional organizations such as the Institute for Challenging Disorganization, Clutterers Anonymous (all have good information and resources)
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          • Or, Seek help from a professional organizer! (Some specialize in home, business, productivity, chronic disorganization and hoarding)
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          • Now, of course I have an entire website: Get Simplifized.com, dedicated to getting organized and helping you control the clutter with TONS of written posts and videos…and I even offer virtual organizing and consultation, just click on the Virtual Organization tab at the top of the Get Simplifized website.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            So you can check that out, but the fact of the matter is, there are tons of resources out there…it’s just a matter of taking the time to tap into them.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Dan’s Topic: Secret (But Simple) Military Communication Techniques

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            Communication should be so simple and natural, but often it’s not.  But, I think universally, effective communication is a common goal. Everyone who is a party in that communication has  responsibilities in that communication. But that doesn’t always happen. When we say that there’s a “breakdown in communication” more often than not it’s a case of someone not meeting their responsibilities in the communication process.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            So, I thought I’d share a few techniques that can help simplify communication. You can use these at home, work, school…wherever.  If you think these help, let me know and I have a couple more that I be happy to share in another show! Now I’ll preface this right up front that these are techniques I learned long-long ago as part of my training and they served me well throughout my time in the military and when I was teaching at university.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            The Sender-Message-Receiver-Feedback Model

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            There are 4 main actors in effective communication and if one of them is out of sync then there will likely be some breakdown, so you’ll have ineffective communication.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                            • The Sender is the one responsible for initiating the communication. Before the Sender attempts to communicate they should have a reasonable expectation that the message they send will be received. You know how sometimes kids will just start yelling “Mom!” from their room, with the door closed? Pretty frustrating, right? The Sender is also responsible for analyzing the receiving audience before they formulate their message to ensure the Message can be easily understood.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                              • The Message should be formed using the correct language, at the right education level, the right tone, culturally correct, situationally correct, ensure any jargon would be understood by the Receiver, etc. The Message should be clear and concise and in the proper form. Trying to reach someone in their car my mail makes no sense!
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                • The Receiver has responsibilities, too. They need to actively listen, not just hear, for effective communication to take place. If the Receiver is in a situation where communication is taking place, they’re expected to be an actively listening. Wearing earbuds in a classroom not only precludes the receiver’s ability to hear the message, it’s probably going to offend the sender and effective communication will be pretty unlikely. And the Receiver has one last and MAJOR responsibility. The last part of the sender-message-receiver-feedback equation is Feedback.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  • Feedback tells the Sender that the message was received, and whether the Receiver understood it or not. How frustrating is it when you communicate with someone and all you get is a blank stare back? Or send a text or email that’s not responded to? Or leave a voicemail and never get a reply?  The receiver has the responsibility to provide feedback. If the receiver gives no feedback, the sender should assume that effective communicate didn’t take place, and the Sender should reformulate and resend the message or ask for feedback.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  • Giving Tasks or Directions Properly: The next technique is a foolproof way to make sure you give out tasks properly that include guidelines and expectations. We’ve all been in situations where we’re given a task and sometimes the task itself is vague or most likely, the expectations are vague.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    A Poor (But Unfortunately, Typical) Example of Communication

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    Your spouse calls or leaves you a note that says “pick up some eggs.” That night your spouse gets home, goes to make the meal and oops! No eggs. You say “well I’m going shopping tomorrow.” “Well I needed them tonight!”

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    So obviously, the task was vague and the expectations were vague.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    Here’s a solution that is so commonplace in the military that it’s taken for granted. It’s called  the:

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    Task-Condition-Standard-Time Model

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    Here’s what each one means:

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • TASK: what needs to be done
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • CONDITION: Your resources or the situation
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • STANDARD: Self explanatory, but should be specific
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • TIME: How much time you have to accomplish the task or when the task needs to be done (event driven)
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                    • So using the buying eggs example, let’s use the Task-Condition-Standard-Time model:

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      • TASK: Buy eggs
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      • CONDITION: Given time, availability, proximity, money, etc..
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      • STANDARD: Call if you can’t pick them up. Don’t get the white eggs, I want the big brown organic eggs
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      • TIME: I get home at 5:00 o’clock and I need them as soon as I get home today.
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      • The Good Old Who-What-When-Where-Why-How Model (aka “5 Ws & How”)

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        This tried and true model is great for written or oral communication. If you’ve gotten away from this you may want to revive the habit. But add the necessary elements of Task-Condition-Standard-Time in there when applicable.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        Example: Say you’re sending a party invitation… the 5W and How explain all the basics, but adding the Standard could sure help when it comes to things like the appropriate attire for the party. That could be an embarrassing thing to leave out…especially if it’s a costume party!

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        Bonus: And a quick tech tip to go along with it is if you’re a Gmail user, build one of those Canned Responses that Vanessa talked about in an earlier episode and then anytime you need that format, just pop it in!  Or, if you’re not a Gmail user, in virtually any email system you could just build a template for these communication techniques and just save it in your drafts to copy when needed.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        So there you have it, two not-so-secret, but potentailly quite helpful, military tips, one reminder for the old school “5Ws and How” with military spin, and a quick tech tip. All to help you with more simple and effective communication. Again, if you think these help, let me know and I have a couple more that I be happy to share in a future episode, sound good?

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        The “Thing” Segment:
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        Vanessa: I love Quality!

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        I’ve mentioned that I’m a frugal gal, but there are a few things I don’t mind spending a little extra on….like my Vera Wang boots and Saddleback leather tote bag.  I buy them at a discount, but quality beats quantity almost every time!

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        Dan:  Spreadsheets in Google Docs

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        I don’t have lots of use for spreadsheets but when I do, I love the functionality of them in Google Docs or Drive. They keep track of all older versions and I can always restore to an earlier version. plus, both Vanessa and I can work on them at the same time and everything syncs! I like to use them for online forms, too! Super easy, they work essentially the same as an Excel spreadsheet. For power spreadsheet users they may not have all the functionality of an Excel sheets, but for people like me who still count with their fingers and toes, they’re great! You can even use the forms function for surveys, etc, on websites and in emails. I’m using them to track our stuff for the Edit & ForgetIt Challenge, too. They’re functional and simple…that’s why they’re my Thing this week!

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        Feedback:

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        Emily wrote on the website: “Found you through Cliff’s podcast – great first show, I look forward to catching up and then keeping up with it. You have inspired me to continue on with my own simple living podcast, that I recorded twice and then stopped, and have been waffling about whether to keep it going.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        On iTunes, Mamabearny wrote: “Great tips to start 2013 out right! This is the first time I’ve listened to a podcast and I’m glad I listened to this one. It was a great use of time and the hosts provide great practical advice that can be implemented right away to help simplify your life.”

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        Closing Thoughts:

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        Once again, Happy 2013 and we hope this year is a great year for simplifying your life. If you haven’t started yet or have just been thinking about it, now is a great time to start. We’re blessed to be able to share some ideas and some of our experiences as we journey toward a simpler life in the modern world and we’d like to hear some of your experiences, too.

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                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          So, here are other links we mentioned in the show:

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          Karen Meade of LetsGetOrganizing

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          Clutterer’s Anonymous

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          Institute for Challenging Disorganization

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          Peter Walsh: It’s All Too Much

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          National Association of Professional Organizers

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          GetSimplifized Links:

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          The Truth About Clutter

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          Lots of YouTube Videos to help you get rid of clutter and get organized!

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