Single, Married, Divorced

In this week’s episode of Single, Married, Divorced our hosts discuss if it’s healthy to argue in a relationship and whether it is smart to start a fight to show you care.  Tom tells us about a guy who goes on a first date at a mattress store.  We also catch up with Allison on her app dating.  Erik and Allison  finally get to tell Tom why he’s wrong  but do they change his mind?

Poll Question: Do divorced people date more?

Question 1: Should you start an argument to show you care.

App Story: Meet me at the mattress store.

Question 2: That bothers me, is it my fault or yours?

This week the Single, Married, Divorced crew discusses love vs. lust at first sight.  Also, the people have spoken. Following last week’s poll, Allison has downloaded three dating apps but has she activated them? Tom drops some more married guy knowledge on us that love is hard and we may have discovered one reason why Erik hasn’t walked down the aisle.

Poll Question: Love at first sight.  Is that for real?

Question 1: Debit and destination weddings.

App Story: ALLISON DOWNLOADS DATING APPS!

Question 2: Do you need to like all of your spouses friends?

After reading a Wall Street Journal article the SMD team discusses its findings that more and more people are waiting to get married.   Is marriage as we know it becoming outdated?   Allison continues down the path of signing up for a dating app and we learn why and how she became divorced.  Tom talks about team dating and Erik tells us what he expects his marriage (if it ever happens) to be like.

Poll Question: More 25 to 34-year-olds are unmarried now than a decade ago.

Question 1: Does one cheating incident mean a relationship is over?

App Story: Team app dating. 

Question 2: Who do you please at a wedding, your guests or your fiancé?

Breaking News: More people are meeting on-line than ever before. What does that mean for people trying to meet off-line?  The SMD crew takes issue with lying on dating profiles as Allison gets closer and closer to taking the plunge into app dating.  Some app pick-up lines get nothing but groans from our hosts and Tom lays down some solid marriage knowledge for those single folks.

Poll Question: Where do most singles meet?

Question 1: Is lying on a dating profile worth it?

App Story: Questionable pick-up lines.

Question 2: First date location. Near you, near them or someplace between.

This week the SMD crew takes dating off-line and old school. Who should be making the first move? Allison shares a bizarre dating request that blows the guys minds and Tom tells us how he moved in on a woman only to be told to move on.  Our team also discusses what happens when the bill comes on a first few dates.

Poll Question: A majority of men say they want women to make the first move.

Q1: Who pays on a date?  Should the other person pretend to go for their wallet, AKA “The Pump Fake.”

App Story: She says let’s go, he’s says let’s talk?

Q2:(Ran out of time) We seem to do this a lot. Sorry! See episode 8.

In this week’s episode, the SMD crew gets political.  Not necessarily talking about their political views, just how those views can work or not work in a relationship. Allison shares how she made it through NRA dinners with her ex-husband and Tom talks about being raised by parents of different political persuasions.  Erik tells us how politics ended a recently budding romance before the first date.  BUT putting politics aside- Allison and Tom agree to chaperone one of Erik’s potential dates.

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Poll Question: How people feel about staying together in a politically mixed relationship.

Q1: Can couples stay together despite their political differences?

App Story:  Allison’s friend has a chance to swipe left or right on a certain special someone.

Q2: What is the cab etiquette when a woman is wearing a dress or skirt?

On episode five of SMD, Allison, Erik and Tom discuss proper pre-dating protocol, AKA cyber stalking. Erik shares his Bumble profile and Allison tells us how one of her dates compared to his mug shot. Tom has some strong thoughts about Yelp and finds out how one review sank a date before it even happened.

Poll Question: Have you done your dating homework?

Question 1: How do you screen for potential dates?

Dating App Story: An attorney, a gun and a Tesla. What every woman wants right?

Question 2: Ran out of time. Please see Episode 6.