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- How to be single and date in 2024 with Katie Mc & Daisie-Belle
Katie speaks with Daisie-Belle from the Daisie Dates Podcast for a candid chat about modern dating. They explore everything from approaching people in real life to dealing with ghosting and maintaining healthy relationships. Katie and Daisie share their own experiences and practical advice, this episode will help you navigate the dating world with confidence and help you feel less alone in the sometimes chaotic world of modern dating!
KEY TAKEAWAYS
- Approaching people in real life: Be bold and remember you have nothing to lose. If you get rejected, it's not necessarily about you.
- Multi-dating can help reduce dating burnout and provide perspective on potential matches.
- How do you deal with being the only single friend in a friendship group?
- How to deal with the fear of being ghosted?
- What to do when your boyfriend's best friend makes no effort with you?
- How do you know when you've found "the spark" on a date?
- What to do when the person you are dating says they aren't ready for a serious relationship but will "get back to you" in a few months?
- Healthy relationships involve maintaining individual identities, consistent behaviour, and open communication.
- The "spark" is often misunderstood. A good connection should feel like getting into a warm bath - safe and comfortable!
- Give potential partners a chance beyond the first date, as nerves or circumstances may affect initial impressions.
- Understanding attachment styles can provide insight into dating behaviours and help build more secure relationships.
- Balancing time between friends and romantic partners is crucial for maintaining a healthy social life and relationship.
BEST MOMENTS
"I always knew that he was gonna tell me what the date would be the next week. When you do meet the right person that's as keen on you as you are them, you actually are never questioning if they're going to ghost you."
"I romanticise my solo time a lot. You have to do that. “
"Butterflies are horrible. I really hope I never ever have to feel like that ever again. It's the one of the worst feelings I think when you're dating. I think that's worse than being ghosted."
"The spark is just a thing that doesn't exist anyway, the thing that everyone's chasing that is not real. I think most people now, I'd hope they know that it's not real."
"I write down like things that I'm really interested in. I have an actual physical list. This might sound crazy, but I think it's good to come in like prepared if there are like awkward silences or the person you're meeting is more introverted."
VALUABLE RESOURCES
Daisie-Belle Instagram
Daisie Dates Podcast Instagram
ABOUT THE HOST
Katie McNamara - London.
I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety with how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium.
As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app.
CONTACT METHOD -
Linktree - https://linktr.ee/singlesounds
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/
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1 hr 18 min - The one with losing battles yet winning war
Live show tickets - 24th July
Katie interviews a hilarious, fun-loving American living in London who's looking for an extrovert man. With infectious energy and a passion for spicy food, this single has a lot of love to give to the right person. Expect drunk texts, pub dates and losing every battle but winning life. She shares hilarious dating stories, including a disastrous Bumble date over the "W word"!
KEY TAKEAWAYS
- The guest has a unique talent for "losing every battle but winning every war" in life, turning setbacks into unexpected opportunities.
- You must like spice, this single considers it an "ick" if someone doesn't enjoy spicy food
- As an American in London, she's embraced British culture, including developing a love for beer and adopting phrases like "Cheers, mate."
- She admits to being prone to drunk texting, viewing it as both a flaw and a way of showing genuine interest in someone she's dating.
- She values loyalty and deep connections, as shown by her willingness to support an ex-boyfriend's music career by repeatedly playing his SoundCloud tracks!
- The guest is adventurous in her dating life, once impulsively booking a flight to Copenhagen with a first date, showcasing her spontaneous nature.
BEST MOMENTS
"I am notorious for always losing every battle and winning every war."
"If you don't like spicy foods, don't talk to me."
VALUABLE RESOURCES
To date, this character contact the podcast on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/
ABOUT THE HOST
Katie McNamara - London.
I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety with how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium.
As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app.
Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/
CONTACT METHOD -
Linktree - https://linktr.ee/singlesounds
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/
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43 min - The one with sporty spice
Katie interviews a sports-loving single who brings joy and enthusiasm to everything she does. From her controversial tennis opinions to her game show appearances, this guest shares hilarious dating stories and insights into being a woman in sports. Listen in for a lively discussion on competition in relationships, the rise of women's football, and why letting someone win might be the biggest dating ick of all.
KEY TAKEAWAYS
- She appeared on the game show "Pointless" with her sister, making it to the final round twice!
- Her worst dating experience involved a series of awkward moments, including her date ordering food separately and swapping spicy meals.
- The interviewee is passionate about women in sports, both as players and fans, and has worked on projects to keep girls engaged in sports.
- She values partners who can handle losing gracefully and don't let her win out of misplaced chivalry.
- The guest enjoys a variety of sports, including basketball, tennis, and football - supporting Liverpool FC and her Mexican team.
BEST MOMENTS
"I think women in sports, not just necessarily women playing sports, but as a woman fan of a sport, like even watching men's sports as a fan, I think there's a lot that can be done."
"I am quite happy to try new things. I'm always, like, I think I have a good time doing anything. I'll have a good time just sitting on the sofa. And also, like, going on an adventure."
"I'm at a place where I'm quite happy with who I am and I'm quite comfortable with myself and I don't really, I'm not embarrassed about anything about me. Even if I can be weird."
VALUABLE RESOURCES
To date, this character contact the podcast on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/
ABOUT THE HOST
Katie McNamara - London.
I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety with how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium.
As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app.
Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/
CONTACT METHOD -
Linktree - https://linktr.ee/singlesounds
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/
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38 min - The one with the consistency king
Tickets to July's Blind Dating LIVE show
Katie interviews a former finance professional who boldly switched careers to become a personal trainer. He shares his journey from number-crunching to fitness coaching, his adventures in learning Spanish, and his quest for a partner who can understand his early-bird lifestyle. This episode offers a unique glimpse into this singles world, from tales of escaping dates to insights on maximising life. Tune in to discover if you're the perfect match for this ambitious, travel-loving, and consistently kind bachelor!
KEY TAKEAWAYS
- He transitioned from a stable finance career to pursuing his passion as a personal trainer, showcasing his willingness to take risks.
- He values consistency highly, applying it to his fitness routine, language learning, and relationships.
- He is learning Spanish, driven by his love for Spanish culture and desire to be bilingual later in life.
- As an early riser, he seeks a partner who aligns with his schedule and appreciates the importance of good sleep.
- He's an avid traveller and hopes to explore more of the world with a future partner.
- He describes himself as having "golden retriever energy" - positive and enthusiastic, unless he's severely sleep-deprived then he can be a moody boy.
- He's looking for someone equally active and ambitious, who wants to "maximise life" alongside him.
BEST MOMENTS
"I'm fun, but I'm kind and I'm serious about people. So, you know, if I do make friends with people or I get into a relationship with someone, I do take it very seriously and I'd say I'm quite a loyal person."
"My controversial opinion, I think Abba are massively overrated... This goes for anything that's just overplayed on nights out."
"If I'm up at five in the gym for six, okay. I need to be in bed early. So again, I need someone that understands that I'm an early bird, someone that's on a similar schedule."
VALUABLE RESOURCES
To date, this character contact the podcast on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/
ABOUT THE HOST
Katie McNamara - London.
I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety with how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium.
As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app.
Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/
CONTACT METHOD -
Linktree - https://linktr.ee/singlesounds
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
45 min - How to make better choices by date tracking with Jillian Romero Chaves
Katie chats with Jillian Romero Chaves, the founder of Clara for Daters - an app that helps singles track their dates and make better choices when dating. We track a lot of things in life we want to improve or make progress on so why not track your dating journey? Jillian shares her own dating experiences and how tracking her dates on her own app has helped her learn more about herself and the type of person she is looking for. Tune in to learn how to navigate the modern dating world with more self-awareness and positivity.
Tickets to July's Blind Dating LIVE show
KEY TAKEAWAYS
- Clara for Daters helps users track dates by asking helpful post-date questions, enabling them to make better choices in the early stages of dating.
- Tracking dates helps daters stay accountable, recognise patterns, and focus on qualities that matter in a potential partner.
- Multi-dating, or going on dates with multiple people, can help anxious attachment styles by preventing fixation on one person and encouraging a slower pace.
- The data from Clara confirms that conversion rates from dating app matches to in-person dates are low
- Focusing on enjoying individual connections and learning from each date brings you closer to finding the right partner, rather than fixating on the end goal.
BEST MOMENTS
"Dating intentionally means going on dates. If you can be on the apps and saying you're dating intentionally and never go on a date, that's not dating intentionally."
"Don't focus on that big end goal. Just focus on those connections in the moment and it'll get closer."
"I feel like that's what you learn the more you multidate - you have these conversations, then you're like, okay, now I feel comfortable to have it again if it came up."
"It's important that we have that safe space to reflect by ourselves. It's important."
"The whole idea is we're trying to make dating fun again. It is tough and you can't sugar coat it, but you can do things as tools like Clara to help get better."
VALUABLE RESOURCES
Clara for Daters - https://www.clarafordaters.com/
Single Sounds - https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/
ABOUT THE HOST
Katie McNamara - London.
I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety with how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium.
As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app.
Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/
CONTACT METHOD -
Linktree - https://linktr.ee/singlesounds
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
53 min - The one with always late but worth the wait
Katie interviews a high-energy, sassy, and always-late single who is unapologetically herself. Discover her unique quirks, like sitting on the floor to put on shoes and her love for Grand Designs. With her infectious energy and confidence, this guest is ready to find a partner who can keep up with her "spontanaynay" lifestyle.
Tickets to July's Blind Dating LIVE show
KEY TAKEAWAYS
- This single is always late but believes she's worth the wait
- She has a specific dream life planned out, including living near London, owning three dogs, and having a pickup truck for stargazing dates
- Her biggest icks include men who can't find her in a restaurant, wear lycra, have mismatched trouser and sock lengths, and have messy flats
- She is confident, can talk to anyone, and has a great strut when entering a room
- Spontaneity is key - she wants a partner who's ready for adventures, even after a night out
- She embraces her weirdness and quirkiness, like sitting on the floor to put on shoes and constantly strutting
- Her love for Grand Designs has inspired her dream house plans
BEST MOMENTS
"I'm always late, but I always say I'm always late but worth the wait."
"I am someone who loves like fully and wholeheartedly and I think that I have a lot of love to give to the right person."
"If you want to have fun, you want to have adventures and yeah, you want to be woken up in the middle of the night and go to a drive thru, or go do something fun and random, like, I'm your girl."
VALUABLE RESOURCES
To date, this character contact the podcast on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/
ABOUT THE HOST
Katie McNamara - London.
I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety with how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium.
As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app.
Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/
CONTACT METHOD -
Linktree - https://linktr.ee/singlesounds
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
41 min - The one with a true hobbyist
Tickets to July's Blind Dating LIVE show
This multi-talented single man brings humour, adventure, and an impressive array of skills to the table. From his musical prowess to his daring hobbies and meaningful career, he's sure to capture the hearts of many! Discover why he just might be the perfect match for someone looking for a partner who can keep them on their toes whilst making them laugh!
KEY TAKEAWAYS
- The guest is a true hobbyist with an impressive array of skills, including multiple instruments, extreme sports, and stand-up comedy.
- He has a successful career as a sustainability consultant, using his math skills for good.
- The guest is looking for a meaningful, long-term relationship with someone who shares his sense of humour and adventurous spirit.
- He finds it attractive when someone can call him out on his bulls**t and challenge his opinions.
- The guest took a big risk by signing up for a stand-up comedy course and now performs regularly.
- He puts effort into planning creative and fun dates, which is a major green flag.
- According to his friend, the guest is the "full package" and sure to keep a partner on their toes.
BEST MOMENTS
"My most controversial opinion is that people in London should have to have a license to be able to walk and be a pedestrian.”
"I think the biggest risk I've taken was about a year ago, signing up to a stand-up comedy course, and then... I've kept doing it."
"You should date me because I am a good laugh and a good date. And I'll pick the place, which is apparently not that common."
VALUABLE RESOURCES
To date, this character contact the podcast on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/
ABOUT THE HOST
Katie McNamara - London.
I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety with how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium.
As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app.
Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/
CONTACT METHOD -
Linktree - https://linktr.ee/singlesounds
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
41 min - The one with sunshine in human form
Join Katie as she interviews a charismatic and adventurous single lady who's left the corporate world behind to pursue her passions. This sparkly yoga instructor shares her love for exploring London's bakeries and coffee shops, the types of men she finds most attractive, and her biggest icks in dating.
Tickets to July's Blind Dating LIVE show
KEY TAKEAWAYS
- She left her corporate grad job after just three months to pursue her non-corporate passions
- She's a self-proclaimed list maker and a human map of London's best coffee shops and bakeries and wine bars
- Her friends would say she's weirdly attracted to actors, and she admits to having a thing for men with moustaches!
- Her biggest icks include men who are closed-minded and vape
- She considers herself a massive feminist but still appreciates chivalrous gestures like carrying heavy bags
- Her best friend describes her as "sunshine in human form" and praises her for being an incredibly generous, kind, and sparkly person
BEST MOMENTS
"I feel like when I think of the word nerdy, I reframe it as being like, oh it's such a thing where people are super passionate about something and I actually love that."
"I hated the fact that I was in a massive office with the people I was on a call with. Why don't we just go and connect like real people?"
"I've definitely in like my self-care, self-love era. Quite like a soft girly."
"She's kind of touched my life in so many ways that I can't even describe. And honestly, she's just an absolute catch. A gorgeous human being, inside and out."
"I'd want to date someone who is, I'd say quite wholesome, also quite chaotic”
VALUABLE RESOURCES
To date, this character contact the podcast on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/
ABOUT THE HOST
Katie McNamara - London.
I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety with how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium.
As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app.
Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/
CONTACT METHOD -
Linktree - https://linktr.ee/singlesounds
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
40 min - How to date off the apps with Molly Cookson
Katie chats with Molly Cookson from 2 Girls 1 Pup about their adventures in dating off the apps so far in 2024. From speed dating disasters to man crawls, they share their experiences and insights on trying new ways to meet potential partners. Get ready for a fun-filled discussion that will make you feel less alone in your dating struggles!
KEY TAKEAWAYS
- Molly and Katie emphasise the importance of having single friends who can relate to your dating experiences and provide support.
- Participating in various dating events and activities can help bring fun back into the dating process and alleviate the pressure of relying solely on dating apps.
- Being open-minded when meeting new people is crucial, as you may find a connection with someone you wouldn't have initially considered on a dating app.
- Rejection is an inevitable part of dating, both on apps and in person, and it's essential not to take it personally.
- Pushing yourself out of your comfort zone by trying new dating experiences can be scary but rewarding.
- Giving people a chance beyond the first few minutes of interaction is important, as nerves can impact initial impressions.
- Dating can be challenging and emotionally taxing, so it's essential to be kind to yourself throughout the process.
BEST MOMENTS
"You could be the best peach in the world, but not everyone likes peaches."
VALUABLE RESOURCES
2 Girls 1 Pup - https://www.instagram.com/2_girls_1_pup/
Single Sounds - https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/
ABOUT THE HOST
Katie McNamara - London.
I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety with how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium.
As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app.
Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/
CONTACT METHOD -
Linktree - https://linktr.ee/singlesounds
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
56 min - The one with the Tinder bio list
This week's single guest is an optimistic and adventurous single man who's looking for a long-term relationship and a supportive teammate. From laidback dates in Mexico City to his controversial opinions on women's Tinder bios, this guest takes an interest in people and will keep you entertained while sharing his unique perspectives.
KEY TAKEAWAYS
- The guest appreciates maturity and experience in dating, having previously dated women up to 8 years older than him.
- He believes women aren't held accountable for the outrageous things they put in their Tinder bios, and provides humorous examples in the episode
- His most toxic trait is getting stroppy when losing at video games or board games
- The guest's worst dating story turned out to be his best, involving a woman who was 2 hours late to their date in Mexico City
- He emphasises the importance of supporting one another and having each other's backs in a relationship.
- The guest has lived and worked in various countries, teaching languages and running his own tutoring business.
BEST MOMENTS
"Women aren't really held to account for what they say in their bios".
"One of these is a lie. I hate men. I have a baby. I have a job. Turns out the lie was, yeah, she doesn't have a job."
"If you beat me in a video game or a board game, which is unlikely, by the way, I will get a bit stroppy. I might not talk to you for like, 10, 15 minutes."
"I want to have a relationship with someone where we're just smashing life together as a team, supporting each other, caring for each other."
VALUABLE RESOURCES
To date, this character contact the podcast on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/
ABOUT THE HOST
Katie McNamara - London.
I started Single Sounds to create a new fun method of dating as I felt that there is now little variety with how to meet people. I absolutely love podcasts and believe in the strong sense of self you can get from them so I thought it was perfect for a dating medium.
As I like to say this podcast is for people who have too much personality for a dating app.
Katie McNamara: https://www.instagram.com/katiee.mcnamara/
CONTACT METHOD -
Linktree - https://linktr.ee/singlesounds
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/singlesounds/
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
41 min
About Single Sounds
From the publisher's feed
Welcome to Single Sounds - the only podcast that finds you dates!
Single Sounds is designed to create positive connections as an alternative dating method to apps. Each week Katie Mc interviews an anonymous single character and you as the listeners (or potentials!) of this podcast can decide if you would like to date them. If you would like to date a Single Sounds character or become one, please message the podcast on Instagram or via E-mail.
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