Single To Soulmate Podcast with Johnny & Lara Fernandez

To be wanted by the man you like, you sometimes fit yourself to the description of their ideal woman, and one of them is being a cool chic. Sure anyone would want to be cool, liked, and wanted. But did you know that being one can hurt your chances of finding true love? In this episode, Johnny debunks the myths of the cool chick and why you need to stop being one. He also shares how you can become that real chic, a high-valued woman that a guy is willing to fight for. And lastly, Johnny discusses what attracts a commitment-minded, emotionally mature high-quality man who’s looking for his prize, his wife. Listen on and learn how you can be that real chick that attracts a high-quality man!   In this episode we talked about: - What is a cool chick? - The myths of the cool chick - The message that you’re conveying when you’re being a cool chic - Why you need to stop being a cool-chic and become a real chic instead - Becoming the woman that a guy wants to fight for   Are You Having Trouble Finding TRUE LOVE? Let’s be honest, finding true love nowadays is hard! And it’s definitely harder when you’re doing it on your own. But when you’re equipped with the right mindset, information, strategy, and EXPERTISE,  it can happen for you! Even faster than you can imagine!  If you’re interested in finally meeting your true love, head over to johnnyandlara.com/apply to book your appointment and start working with us! Life is too short to wait for love to happen to you. Don’t wait, act right now and make it happen so that you can start living the life you love with your true love and soulmate! --- Did you enjoy this episode? If so, please share it with a friend and let us know by leaving a review. To get notified when a new episode comes out, subscribe to the show on your favorite platform.

Do you just stay stuck up at home every weekend because you don’t have friends to go out with? You don’t have anyone to go out with because most of the people you know are busy with their dates, boyfriends, husbands, and own soulmates. Then all of a sudden you start thinking that your life is operating in a vacuum because you’re still single and can’t find someone to love, who will also love you back.  Here’s the truth, you’re not living in a vacuum and Johnny is going to tell you why in today’s episode! Know why you haven’t found your soulmate yet and learn how you can maximize your time so that you won’t miss out on your love life.   In this episode we talked about: - Why you are not operating in a vacuum - Time, making the right decisions, and the importance of setting priorities -  How coaching or having guidance helps you to focus on your goal Are You Having Trouble Finding TRUE LOVE? Let’s be honest, finding true love nowadays is hard! And it’s definitely harder when you’re doing it on your own. But when you’re equipped with the right mindset, information, strategy, and EXPERTISE,  it can happen for you! Even faster than you can imagine!  If you’re interested in finally meeting your true love, head over to johnnyandlara.com/apply to book your appointment and start working with us! Life is too short to wait for love to happen to you. Don’t wait, act right now and make it happen so that you can start living the life you love with your true love and soulmate!   ---   Did you enjoy this episode? If so, please share it with a friend and let us know by leaving a review. To get notified when a new episode comes out, subscribe to the show on your favorite platform.

Do you ever feel like you’re stuck and not moving forward in your love journey just because nothing is happening? You’ve done all the tips, tricks, and advice from the books you read and podcast you listen to, yet you feel like all those information ain’t enough to get you to where you want, to be with your Mr. Right.  What if what you need isn’t information but transformation? Information alone isn’t going to magically give you your soulmate, but how you apply it and approach things is also important. Self-development work is great and you should keep on improving yourself but did you know that it can also block you from soulmate love? Join us in this episode, as Lara talks about how personal growth can sometimes block you from finding your “The One”. Lara also discusses how you can intentionally attract your soulmate and keep them. In this episode we talked about: - When personal growth and self-help becomes a block to you finding your Mr. Right - How to intentionally attract the love of your life and keep them - Information to transformation - 3 points about how self-growth can be a block to your soulmate love journey - What is “spiraling up”?   What you’re going to learn from this podcast is more than just dating tips and tricks. If you’re open to learning and growing, then get on your phone and have a conversation with me and lets talk about how you can take charge of your love life! Are You Having Trouble Finding TRUE LOVE? Let’s be honest, finding true love nowadays is hard! And it’s definitely harder when you’re doing it on your own. But when you’re equipped with the right mindset, information, strategy, and EXPERTISE,  it can happen for you! Even faster than you can imagine!  If you’re interested in finally meeting your true love, head over to johnnyandlara.com/apply to book your appointment and start working with us! Life is too short to wait for love to happen to you. Don’t wait, act right now and make it happen so that you can start living the life you love with your true love and soulmate!   ---   Did you enjoy this episode? If so, please share it with a friend and let us know by leaving a review. To get notified when a new episode comes out, subscribe to the show on your favorite platform.

Have you heard of the saying “Love will happen or find you when you least expect it”? Sounds familiar right? To tell you the truth, this is one of the biggest myths ever told when it comes to love.  Yes, you read that right. Waiting for love to happen and thinking it’ll find you when you least expect it is actually a recipe for love not finding you at all.  Join Johnny in this episode as he debunks 3 of the biggest love myths that are paralyzing you from meeting your “the one” and achieving success in love. These myths may be the reason why love isn’t happening to you yet. Listen on and discover how you can be great at love again!   In this episode we talked about: - The myths that are preventing your success in love - Will love really happen when you least expect it? - The real work which is not about finding a guy - The basketball analogy in relation to your love life   Are You Having Trouble Finding TRUE LOVE? Let’s be honest, finding true love nowadays is hard! And it’s definitely harder when you’re doing it on your own. But when you’re equipped with the right mindset, information, strategy, and EXPERTISE,  it can happen for you! Even faster than you can imagine!  If you’re interested in finally meeting your true love, head over to johnnyandlara.com/apply to book your appointment and start working with us! Life is too short to wait for love to happen to you. Don’t wait, act right now and make it happen so that you can start living the life you love with your true love and soulmate!   ---   Did you enjoy this episode? If so, please share it with a friend and let us know by leaving a review. To get notified when a new episode comes out, subscribe to the show on your favorite platform.

You are enough, just as you are, and were made to be. You don’t have to be more.  In this current day and age, we are flooded with messages that we are enough. And so many people feel like they need to be more. They buy more to counter this feeling of not being enough. But we all now that, that won’t really help in getting rid of that not- enoughness feeling. In this episode, Johnny wants to encourage you to think that you are enough, not because of what you do but because you exist and that you are you. He shares the difference between spending and investing and how to recognize it. He also talks about the importance of investing in yourself to reach your goals and dreams. So, start reminding yourself today that you are valuable, you are enough!   In this episode we talked about: - Difference between spending and investing - Investing in yourself - Reminding yourself that you are enough Are You Having Trouble Finding TRUE LOVE? Let’s be honest, finding true love nowadays is hard! And it’s definitely harder when you’re doing it on your own. But when you’re equipped with the right mindset, information, strategy, and EXPERTISE,  it can happen for you! Even faster than you can imagine!  If you’re interested in finally meeting your true love, head over to johnnyandlara.com/apply to book your appointment and start working with us! Life is too short to wait for love to happen to you. Don’t wait, act right now and make it happen so that you can start living the life you love with your true love and soulmate!   ---   Did you enjoy this episode? If so, please share it with a friend and let us know by leaving a review. To get notified when a new episode comes out, subscribe to the show on your favorite platform.

People tend to associate sex with having a good relationship. But have you also thought that it’s possible to have a good relationship and love someone wholeheartedly even if you haven’t had sex with that person yet? In this episode, Johnny talks about why sex matters and why it doesn’t. He also shares the worst part when you’re having sex out of order and how sex won’t bring you closer to finding that man who deeply cares and respects you.  Of course, you’d want to have amazing hot sex, but you don’t want it with just anyone. You want to do it with the man who’s also going to be a good husband and father to your children. Listen on as you learn when sex matters and when it doesn’t!   In this episode we talked about: - Why sex does not matter - When does sex matter? - The worst part that can happen when you’re having sex out of order Are You Having Trouble Finding TRUE LOVE? Let’s be honest, finding true love nowadays is hard! And it’s definitely harder when you’re doing it on your own. But when you’re equipped with the right mindset, information, strategy, and EXPERTISE,  it can happen for you! Even faster than you can imagine!  If you’re interested in finally meeting your true love, head over to johnnyandlara.com/apply to book your appointment and start working with us! Life is too short to wait for love to happen to you. Don’t wait, act right now and make it happen so that you can start living the life you love with your true love and soulmate!   ---   Did you enjoy this episode? If so, please share it with a friend and let us know by leaving a review. To get notified when a new episode comes out, subscribe to the show on your favorite platform.

In order for you to have the man of your dreams, you have to believe that you actually are the woman who is the right fit for him. But becoming that woman takes more effort and work than you think especially when you don’t know how to deal with your feelings and men. How do you take action over the things that are happening in your love life? In this episode, Johnny talks about how you can take intelligent actions with a wise strategy so that you can be more in control of yourself and live the life you’ve always wanted with your soulmate.    In this episode we talked about: - Going from feeling to action - Your self-image as a woman - Taking intelligent actions and having a wise strategy Are You Having Trouble Finding TRUE LOVE? Let’s be honest, finding true love nowadays is hard! And it’s definitely harder when you’re doing it on your own. But when you’re equipped with the right mindset, information, strategy, and EXPERTISE,  it can happen for you! Even faster than you can imagine!  If you’re interested in finally meeting your true love, head over to johnnyandlara.com/apply to book your appointment and start working with us! Life is too short to wait for love to happen to you. Don’t wait, act right now and make it happen so that you can start living the life you love with your true love and soulmate!   ---   Did you enjoy this episode? If so, please share it with a friend and let us know by leaving a review. To get notified when a new episode comes out, subscribe to the show on your favorite platform.

Lately, you feel like you’re having a tough time. You’re in a slump because until now, the husband you’ve been wanting to meet is nowhere near your circle. You’ve been seriously trying for more than two years, going on dates and meeting potential partners but you’re still not sure if that person is the right guy for you. What can you possibly do to get back on track? In this episode, Johnny encourages you to take a step back, look and ask yourself, is this a temporary slump or has this become my new standard? If you’ve spent more than two years and no soulmate, no special person, no someone, the chances are it’s not a slump, it’s your new standard. Moreover, Johnny will also talk about how you can get out of your comfort zone and change the flow of your love life. It may be uncomfortable at first but you deserve more than having this slump that has turned into your new standard.   In this episode we talked about: - Your slumps and new standards - Getting out of your comfort zone - Actions you can do to transform your love life and start attracting the right man for you  Uncover your Love Pattern and stop letting it hold you back! Did you know that you have a unique love pattern that not only explains your path but affects your future as well? Before you fall into another heartbreak discover how it’s holding you back from leveling up your love life. If you want to learn more about how your “love patterns” have determined your life in the past and will affect your future, just go to singletosoulmate.com/quiz. Just take the free quiz to discover your love pattern and know what may be holding you back. You’ll also get a customized report, the ROADMAP to start taking action towards attracting Mr. Right!   ---   Did you enjoy this episode? If so, please share it with a friend and let us know by leaving a review. To get notified when a new episode comes out, subscribe to the show on your favorite platform.

First impressions are everything when it comes to dating. When you like someone, you do everything to win them over. For men, they do this by sharing their achievements and talking a lot about what they know. But for some women, this trait makes them uncomfortable because the guy can come out as self-absorbed and narcissistic. You do like the guy but you’re not used to men who talk so much on dates. What should you do? In this episode, Johnny explains why men talk a lot on dates and how should you respond to it. He also shares how to discern between a man that wants to win you over versus someone who's not. A man who talks so much when they’re on a date with you might not be a bad thing.   In this episode we talked about: - Why do men talk a lot on dates - Why a man who talks so much when they’re on a date with you might not be a bad thing - Knowing that you are the prize - Getting your mind, body, heart, and soul in alignment with soulmate love Uncover your Love Pattern and stop letting it hold you back! Did you know that you have a unique love pattern that not only explains your path but affects your future as well? Before you fall into another heartbreak discover how it’s holding you back from leveling up your love life. If you want to learn more about how your “love patterns” have determined your life in the past and will affect your future, just go to singletosoulmate.com/quiz. Just take the free quiz to discover your love pattern and know what may be holding you back. You’ll also get a customized report, the ROADMAP to start taking action towards attracting Mr. Right!   ---   Did you enjoy this episode? If so, please share it with a friend and let us know by leaving a review. To get notified when a new episode comes out, subscribe to the show on your favorite platform.

Having a love mentor is critical in creating the success of your love life. Although everyone has good intentions, there are just some bad advice and methods that's been keeping you single for a long time. Johnny and Lara who have been love coaches for over 14 years have found that 1 on 1 coaching is not only slow and costly, but it could be the reason why you’re still single. You may be scratching your head right now thinking why? Shouldn’t it be more effective because it’s one on one? Unfortunately, it isn’t and Johnny is going to enlighten you on the reasons why. In this episode, Johnny talks about the reason why 1 on 1 coaching isn’t effective and won’t get you closer to the love of your life. Johnny is going to share the reality of 1 on 1 coaching, why we don’t do it, and why you should consider group or community coaching.   In this episode we talked about: - Why 1 on 1 coaching is the slowest, most expensive, and least effective way of transforming your love life - The reality of 1 on 1 coaching and why we don’t practice it - Why group/community coaching is more effective Uncover your Love Pattern and stop letting it hold you back! Did you know that you have a unique love pattern that not only explains your path but affects your future as well? Before you fall into another heartbreak discover how it’s holding you back from leveling up your love life. If you want to learn more about how your “love patterns” have determined your life in the past and will affect your future, just go to singletosoulmate.com/quiz. Just take the free quiz to discover your love pattern and know what may be holding you back. You’ll also get a customized report, the ROADMAP to start taking action towards attracting Mr. Right!   ---   Did you enjoy this episode? If so, please share it with a friend and let us know by leaving a review. To get notified when a new episode comes out, subscribe to the show on your favorite platform.