Single To Soulmate Podcast with Johnny & Lara Fernandez

Chemistry is very important to have in any relationship. It is that fun friend you always want to hang out with and go together with on road trips. But is chemistry always a good thing?

In this episode we talk about:

- Why chemistry shouldn’t be your main decision-making framework

- How chemistry can lead you astray and how it has lead you astray in the past

- Examples of things that can help you make better decisions

Don’t make chemistry your main focus in all your relationships. The chemistry and the sparks have to be there but it can’t be the one controlling how you’ll decide things. It can’t be your main decision-making factor.

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We either teach people to treat us with dignity and respect, or we don't. Nobody deserves mistreatment. But we are partly responsible for the mistreatment that we get at the hands of someone else.

In this episode we talk about:

- How to take loving responsibility

- Having a higher level of commitment to loving and valuing yourself and love

- Self-respecting behaviors

- Making clear, non-negotiable boundaries to help you have that space to attract ‘Real Love”

- How to change

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Frazzled, overwhelmed and stressed. These are the three words that best describes the feeling that leaves you no room in your life for love. If you're frazzled, overwhelmed and stressed, you're not really ready for a relationship in your life. Even if the most amazing man in the world walked into your life right now, you wouldn't have any room for him. What can you do to change this?

In this episode we talk about:

- How frazzle, overwhelm and stress is affecting you

- What you can do to reduce the frazzle and stress in your life?

- How a lot of learning becomes more of unlearning

- Connecting more with other women for healing and happiness

- Reducing frazzle, overwhelm and stress in your life

We live in a society where standards are becoming higher and expectations harder to meet. And so we focus very hard on our work.

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In this episode, Johnny talks about the crashes you may experience in life. And how a certain incident can turn into your breakthrough.

In this episode we talk about:

- How riding motorcycles led Johnny to Lara

- Not allowing your crashes to define who you are

- The importance of having a friend or someone who has the expertise to help you navigate through difficult waters

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You may have that feeling of hopelessness sometimes. You can’t avoid it. If you’re feeling hopeless, you may look for encouragement everywhere, in any form. But what’s actually going on and how can there be a turnaround when you’re feeling hopeless?

In this episode we talk about:

- Feeling hopeless

- How your present determines your future and not your past

- Turning your hopeless situation around

- Allow yourself to feel the pain

- The real pain of losing your dreams and desires

- Looking for evidences that helps you achieve and make your dreams possible

- Angelica’s inspiring story of pain, hope and not giving up on the future that she wants

- Not giving up

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The dating world could get really overwhelming and intimidating for someone who’s not prepared to actually make a decision or doesn’t know if someone is right for them or not.

In this episode we talk about:

- The importance of having a breakthrough in your life

- Becoming your own soulmate first as the right path to soulmate love

- Being kind to yourself

- How you’re not only leading yourself, but you’re also leading a team

- Looking at how aware are you on where you put your time, money and energy in your past relationships

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Setting boundaries is such a big issue especially when it comes to your family, lover or people who are super close to you.

Boundaries are needed in order to have a healthy relationship with anybody. When setting boundaries, make sure it is clear and reasonable.

In this episode we talk about:

- Lessons on boundary

- How everything affects your love life and your love life affects everything

- How to draw boundaries with the people (e.g. parents, siblings, lover) you’re very close with

- Not putting yourself in difficult situations

- Not calling a delusion a boundary

- How to stop expecting others to be someone they are not

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What does it take for you to call a man perfect? Should he be handsome? Wealthy? Attentive? Kind? A family man? Does he even exist or have you just fallen into “The Perfect Man Trap”? Should you be that perfect girl too in order to be the right match for your ideal perfect guy?

In this episode we talk about:

- The “perfect man trap” - a story about people who didn’t click and a story about perfectionism

- Perfection myths you should stop believing if you want to attract your soulmate

- You don't have to be what he wants you to be, you have to be who YOU want

- A genuine warm smile is the best thing you can wear

- If you love you, then he will love you

- Don’t pressure yourself with unrealistic expectations

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They say you can’t have it all. But what does it really mean to have it all? This concept of having it all means different things to different people. It could mean having an exciting career, a loving husband, being rich and famous, and whatnot.

In this episode we talk about:

- What “having it all” really means

- Love Warriors take their dreams seriously and so does the people around them

- Surrounding yourself with people who are living the life you want

- How we are given life in order to prosper it

- Being wise in our choices and going for our dreams

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Social media is not really helping when it comes to moving on from a breakup. Sure, you did unfriend your ex or maybe even blocked him. But what about his friends? What if they post something where your ex is tagged or mentioned? What if this reminder of him hurts you too much? Should you unfriend them too?

In this episode we talk about:

- Releasing your anxiety by unfriending your ex’s buddies on social media

- Taking a break and going on a man diet

- Learning to forgive yourself for the decisions you’ve made in

terms of dating

- Raising your “Quality Attraction Factor” to magnetize the man of your dreams

- Extraordinary self-care by committing to yourself

- Knowing yourself first

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