In this episode of Stereotypes Pt. 2, I sit down with Hai Smith to talk about a stereotype people constantly push on lesbian women — the idea that there’s a certain way they’re supposed to look.

Hai shares her experience as a feminine lesbian and how often people assume she’s straight because of how she presents herself. We also talk about the reactions she gets from men, misconceptions people have about sexuality, and why society is still so quick to put people in boxes.

This conversation challenges a lot of assumptions.

Do you think society expects lesbians to look a certain way? 🤔

I’ve been misunderstood my whole life — not because I’m confusing, but because I don’t fit boxes. In this episode, I break down the stereotypes people throw at masculine-presenting women, call out myths about lesbian relationships, and share my personal experiences embracing both my masculine and feminine sides. From being misread in love and life, to challenging societal expectations, this episode is about stepping outside the box, owning your identity, and making people uncomfortable — because comfort was never my goal. Listen in and see why my existence isn’t up for debate🤏🏽💯

Some losses aren’t about death. They’re about people you thought would always be there — friends, family, lovers — who changed, disappointed, or left. This is for the grief we feel when those people are still alive, but gone from our lives❤️‍🩹

Friends, Lovers, & Energy Vampires — I sit down with Danny Rodriguez to talk about the tricky lines between friendships and relationships, jealousy, and people who drain your energy. We get real about emotional vampires, boundaries, and protecting your peace while keeping your connections. If you’ve ever felt torn between love, friendship, and your sanity, this episode hits.

This is Part Two of my grief story — the part people don’t always talk about. I share losing my mom, dad, grandma, aunts, uncle, foster mom, and my older brother, and how I navigated loss, heartbreak, and abandonment all at once. I talk about coping, the spaces and people that helped me survive, and what support really looks like. Part One dives into how it all began — listen to that first for the full story. This episode is for anyone carrying grief, loss, or trying to make sense of the pain.

MLK taught us that courage isn’t comfortable — that speaking up, even when it’s scary or unpopular, is how change happens.

In this mini episode, I’m sharing why I hit record even when it feels messy or raw, and how using your voice can be a form of growth.

This one’s for my podcast family — if you’ve ever been scared to speak, this episode is for you.

A short reflection on opinions, projection, and learning when silence is power.

Not everything needs a response.

Sometimes “silence speaks louder then words”🫶🏽

This is part two of our conversation about men being attracted to masculine-presenting women — this time from a stud’s perspective. Masculine-presenting women are often erased, misunderstood, or fetishized — especially when it comes to attraction. My guest shares real-life experiences navigating masculinity, desire, and the complicated ways men respond.

We dive into the difference between attraction and curiosity, how masculinity in women can both threaten and excite men, and why being masculine doesn’t make someone less desirable — just harder to fit into traditional boxes.

Honest, necessary, and sometimes uncomfortable — this conversation sheds light on what really happens when masculinity meets desire.

🎧 Tap in.

Grief doesn’t always announce itself. In this episode, I share what it’s like to carry loss quietly, survive before understanding, and navigate the moments that leave a lasting impact. Content warning: discussions of death, grief, and challenging experiences. Part 2 will explore coping and ways to honor those we’ve lost.🤍👼🏽

So my ex is lurking… and my first love just popped up on TikTok 👀

In this episode, I’m spilling the tea on closure, truth-telling, and lessons learned the hard way. Expect a little spice, some laughs, and the kind of honesty you only tell yourself when no one’s watching.

Whether you’re over your ex, still scrolling through old flames, or just love a story about growth and messy love, this one’s for you. Let’s talk about it🫵🏽🥰