The perspective of masculine and feminine that is being discussed at the moment is stemming from a wounded world. And, this is something humanity has struggled to balance since the dawn of time.

Ego, fear, scarcity, disbelief, pain, resentment, anger, rejection, shame and everything else that breeds trauma is not due to masculine energy. It is the result of trauma.

Let's be real right now, our world isn’t only in a global economic crisis. It’s also experiencing one of the largest healing crises in history. And it doesn’t seem to be lifting anytime soon.

Your trauma is not an excuse to treat people like shit.

As a healer, I’ve worked with quite a few interesting people. And one thing that always seems to be brought to my attention in this space is the amount of excuses that triggered people come up with in order to treat their friends, family, and even complete strangers like crap.

THIS IS NOT OKAY!

We get it, you’re hurting, but does that mean that you need to make me hurt too? NAH BRO!

This response is literally a dead-giveaway that the relationship is TOXIC!

*cue the red flags & alert sirens - weeeow weeeow

As someone that suffered with emotional dysregulation due to childhood trauma, I found it hard to relax, to breathe, and to stop overthinking.

Now being on the other side of this, I've created this 5min meditation to help make your day a little easier.

I don’t know about you, but when I became a healer, I was really confused about what the job description entails.

Yanno, because every other job has that stereotypical job description that outlines the do’s & don’ts of your position. LOL sorry to break it to ya sis, this job doesn’t really come with a description.

And it’s because we don’t have a description for our title that so many healers struggle with their authentic identity! It’s why they struggle with being heard, being seen, and standing in their power. But like…. What the F!!! does that mean then? It means that you get to decide.

You decide the terms. You decide the investment. You decide the format. You literally decide your entire job description. This is WHY healthy boundaries are suuuuuuper important for healers.

We’ve been taught that…in order to claim the title of healer, we need to be completely healed.

We apparently need to have no imperfections, no triggers, no sicknesses, basically no unhealed aspects.

And, as a full-time healer who has helped hundreds of people to heal their insecurities, their trauma, and shame, I want you to know that this idea of becoming the ‘perfect healer’ is FALSE ADVERTISING! It’s a fraud!

Who is God?… What is God?... and why don’t we know more about them? 🤔

These are some of the questions I am frequently asked as a healer. And to tell you the truth… the answer that always seems to leave my lips is this:

✨ God can be whoever you want god to be. He, she, god, goddess. Good, bad, judgemental, loving. God is everything and anything that you put that title too.

✨If you’ve asked yourself these questions at one point or another, my brand-new podcast series is exactly what you need to hear right now.