In this episode of Sister Science Stories, Jill sits down with skin whisperer Melanie Nelson, founder of U Retreat in Victoria. Together, they explore skin not as something to fix, control, or perfect, but as a messenger, a boundary, and a living reflection of what’s happening inside us.
Melanie shares her philosophy as a holistic aesthetician trained in herbalism, lymphatic drainage, and facial reflexology, and explains why presence - and not just products - is the missing ingredient in modern skincare. From ritual to routine, to how touch resets the nervous system, to why skin issues like acne, eczema, and dryness often mirror stress, hormones, and emotional boundaries, this conversation reframes skincare as a relationship with self.
You’ll hear how simple daily practices - like cleansing your face with intention, choosing products your body actually likes, and using your hands as a listening tool - can reconnect you to your intuition, support your lymph and nervous system, and restore a sense of nourishment that goes far beyond beauty standards.
This episode is for anyone who’s tired of fighting their body, overwhelmed by skincare rules, or quietly longing to feel more at home in their own skin.
In this episode, we explore:
Why skin is a storyteller and early warning systemThe difference between routine and ritualHow touch helps regulate the nervous system Skin as a boundary: what’s coming in, what’s ready to goAyurvedic parallels to holistic skincare and abhyangaWhy beauty deepens in community, not comparisonIf your skin has been asking for more kindness, more listening, and less fixing, this conversation is for you.
Listen now and let your skin teach you.
You can find Melanie and her amazing team at U Retreat in Victoria, on Instagram at SkinWisdoms