Mark Seekins Psalm 127
1. Mark gave a pretty humorous job description for parents. Is there anything you would add? How would you write your job description as a parent? If you don’t have kids, how would you write a job description for your responsibility in helping to raise kids?
2. Do you agree that LOVE IS NOT ENOUGH when it comes to raising kids and a healthy family? Practically-speaking, if God is at the center of your family, how does that play out? What habits, practices, or traditions, might help to foster this centrality?
3. Mark mentioned that without the Lord you “work and wear out in vain”. What is the hardest thing for you as it comes to resting in the Lord? Do you agree with this statement: “There is a trust we can place in God, that he cares more about our children growing up right than even we do, so we can work our hardest, and then go to sleep entrusting God with the “city”/“field” of our family.” If so, how are you resting in God’s grace as it pertains to your family and your work?
4. How are children a “gift” or an “inheritance” from the Lord? What implications does this have on your understanding of your role in raising them? If you are the child, how does this strike you?
5. Mark said: “No gift from the Lord is intended to be a platform for us to gain our sense of significance or value.” Have you seen this kind of idolatry in society? In your life? How can we redirect our significance back to Him?
6. Can you answer the question “why did God give me my kids”? How are or have you set them free (i.e., loosed the arrow) to make an impact for God’s kingdom?
Re-read Ephesians 3:20-21 and remember your job description: Builds, Labors, Watches, and Works for someone else. Owns nothing, but manages everything. Trusts the boss with most important possessions. Knows there’s still “far more” to come each day.