What happens to a society when we lose the rituals that once helped women cross the great thresholds of their lives?
In this episode of the The Sisters of the Rose Podcast ā The Elders Series, we sit down with Sister Sally Berg of Mature Eros to explore the ancient rites of passage that once honoured women as they moved through the different stages of womanhoodāand what has been lost as many of these traditions have disappeared.
Across cultures, women's transitions were once recognised and witnessed by their communities. From maidenhood to motherhood, through sexuality, partnership, birth, loss, menopause and into elderhood, women were not expected to navigate these profound transformations alone.
They were initiated.
They were witnessed.
They were guided by women who had walked the path before them.
Together, we explore what happens when these initiatory structures disappear and women are left to navigate some of life's most profound transitions without ceremony, community, or Elders to guide them.
Our conversation asks why these ancient roles still matter in the modern world.
What might change if young women had access to women who could guide them through the thresholds of womanhood? What happens when a woman reaches midlife without being consciously initiated into the wisdom of her next chapter? And what becomes possible when mature women are once again recognised not as women who are becoming less relevant, but as Elders carrying wisdom, experience, sensuality, and perspective for the generations that follow?
We explore the importance of reclaiming mature womanhood, the role of the Elder, and the cultural knowledge that can be passed from woman to woman when communities create spaces for witnessing, initiation, and belonging.
At the heart of this conversation is a deeper question:
What happens to womenāand to societyāwhen we forget how to honour the thresholds of a woman's life?
Perhaps the answer is not to recreate the past exactly as it was, but to remember what those traditions understood:
Transformation needs witnessing. Women need women. Every threshold deserves to be honoured. And the wisdom of mature women is something society desperately needs.
This conversation also marks the beginning of something new.
In October, the Sisters of the Rose will be launching our Rose Author Elders Circleāa dedicated Author and Rites of Passage programme inviting Elders to consciously step into their next chapter of life.
This is an invitation to honour the life you have lived, reflect upon the initiations that have shaped you, and begin sharing the wisdom you have gathered along the way.
Through the programme, Elders will have the opportunity to tell their story, begin writing their book, share their wisdom through the Sisters of the Rose Podcast, and create a lasting legacy for future generations.
Because becoming an Elder is not simply about growing older.
It is about consciously stepping forward to say:
"I have walked this path. I have learned something along the way. And I am willing to share what I know."
Perhaps this is the rite of passage our culture is ready to remember.
The time to resurrect the Elder is now.
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