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In this episode, Sid sits down with India's #1 dating coach, Kshitij Sehrawat. They talk about the dating market in India, his stories from game and pickup; they also discuss trauma, what is it, how it effects people and the types of it. A large part of the discussion centres around that and it's healing. They also discuss the wrongs of Bollywood; how borderline molestation is passed off as a comedic/romantic thing, how there's no concept of consent, etc. Finally they also talk about the concept of touch in pickup and game.
Disclaimer:
Neither Kshitij nor Siddhansh is a clinical psychologist, viewer discretion is advised.
About Kshitij:
He's an international personal development coach helping men be more confident, get more dates, & have deeper fulfilling relationships. Over the years, he's helped over 1000s of men in person and online through his transformational content and coaching over the past 5 years. He's been featured in various publications including Vice, The Times of India, Indiatimes, MensXP, & DNA India. And is one of the most sought after coaches in the Self-Improvement industry.
Connect with Kshitij:
Iron Man Lifestyle: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCf07eBo_ZzNmhVeTRyJDJ3g
High Worth Cycle: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCsxB6KoVi07qKAfMaA672mQ/featured
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kshitijsehrawat/
00:00 ad
00:40 Introduction
01:12 India's dating market
04:39 Kshitij is Sanjay Dutt
06:11 Abundance vs Manipulation
14:40 Kshitij's dating by refferal
16:04 Why do people cry in Kshitij's workshops
20:00 Depersonalising Trauma
23:20 Goa game story
27:16 Game is not "On/Off"
32:10 Setting boundaries
34:35 How to fix the "creepy guy" reputation
38:55 College presses the reset button
44:33 What is "trauma"
48:41 Childhood trauma and parents
57:05 Trauma and types of it
01:00:45 A traumatic experience
01:04:04 Parents should make a safe space for a child
01:06:22 Get healed before having a child
01:13:05 Bollywood and it's problematic scenes
01:19:39 Gangs of Wasseypur is realistic
01:21:27 "Touching" in game
1:26:13 Closing notes
Connect with Siddhansh Agrawal
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LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/siddhansh-agrawal-6b95231b8/
Facebook: (who tf uses it now)
Mentep: https://www.mentep.com