SlutStack Podcast

Content note: The book, and this episode, includes discussion of real sexual assault and childhood sexual abuse alongside consensual non-consent.

Welcome to the SlutStack podcast! We are two wholesome sluts who talk about love, sex, and community. This time, Chesed finally gets Pandora to read her first full-length erotica: Asking for It by Lilah Pace. We go through the plot (spoilers!), our favorite scenes, the dirty talk, how the book handles rape fantasy, and the practical CNC tips hidden in it. We also count orgasms.

* Welcome to Dirty Book Club, Pandora’s first erotica, and the Literotica non-con section (00:28)

* Synopsis and key scenes (05:28)

* Our thoughts

* Do you owe CNC partners a disclosure of your abuse history? (33:19)

* Favorite scenes: the drunk hotel scene, the cabin, and the home invasion (36:36)

* CNC dirty talk flavors: threats vs. slut-shaming (39:19)

* How the book handles rape fantasy (42:12)

* Classic romance tropes: tall, hot, smart, secretly rich (53:21)

* Practical CNC tips: safe gestures, remote locations, and pre-cutting the seams on clothes you’ll destroy (54:14)

* Next up: Begging for It, and our predictions (57:54)

* Pandora’s orgasm count: 3–4 (1:01:26)

Have a book we should read for Dirty Book Club, or thoughts, reactions, questions or complaints about this one? Email us at [email protected].

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Thank you to Chesed’s husband for recording and editing, and thank you for listening! If you like what we’re doing here (or really hate us and want to keep tabs), become a paid subscriber.

Welcome to the SlutStack podcast! We are 2 wholesome sluts who talk about love, sex, and community. This time we’re joined by our friend Aella for a catch-up episode covering her new boyfriend, SlutCon 2026 planning, some Twitter discourse, and her new project to match rich men with women who want to be single moms.

In this episode, we cover:

* Aella’s new boyfriend and the art of asking men out (00:54)

* Novelty, escorting, and getting properly wet for someone new (04:04)

* Planning an erotic LARP together (05:47)

* SlutCon 2026!

* More Flirt Girls, the marriage track, and pre-con training on giving feedback (11:48)

* The world’s first interactive vulva gameshow…as far as we know (18:36)

* Addressing feedback from last year’s con (20:49)

* Twitter discourse about SlutCon and aggressive norms (23:33)

* Are we polluting the purity of the rationalist community with our dirty dirty ways? Are we, perhaps, to blame when AI kills everyone? (39:55)

* Listener question: performance anxiety in a throuple (41:23)

* The SlutCon promo photo shoot (featuring a lot of vegetables) (51:54)

* Disgust responses, kinks that squick each other out, and collars (55:30)

* Aella’s pronatalist matching platform, Knock Her Up (59:27)

Submit your own listener questions at https://www.admonymous.co/chesed or by emailing [email protected]

Thank you to all the men who enabled this podcast, especially Chesed’s husband. And thanks to you for listening! If you like what we’re doing here (or if you really hate us and want to keep tabs), become a paid subscriber at sluts.substack.com.

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Welcome to the the SlutStack podcast! We are 2 wholesome sluts who talk about love, sex, and asking for what you want. This time we have a third wholesome slut, our friend Gretta Duleba! Gretta currently works in AI alignment, but previously was a software engineering manager and relationship/sex therapist.

Follow the links to listen in your favorite podcatcher!

In this episode, we cover:

* Introducing Gretta! (00:40)

* Journey to becoming a polyamorous slut (02:35)

* Life as a relationship therapist specializing in poly/kinky couples and high-conflict situations (08:56)

* Emotional regulation 101: how to fight better with your partner (15:30)

* Kink dynamics and conflict resolution (20:49)

* SlutCon and the stable marriage problem (28:53)

* Red Means No (39:00)

* Losing on purpose and Gretta’s first real CNC experience (43:33)

* Rizz Under Uncertainty: Gretta’s SlutCon talk on rejection (52:16)

* Motherhood, hormones, and poly parenting (58:02)

* Moment of sexual gratitude (1:03:23)

Submit your own listener questions at https://www.admonymous.co/chesed or by emailing [email protected]

Thank you to all the men who enabled this podcast, especially Chesed’s husband. And thanks to you for listening! If you like what we’re doing here (or if you really hate us and want to keep tabs), become a paid subscriber at sluts.substack.com.

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Welcome to the the SlutStack podcast! We are 2 wholesome sluts who talk about love, sex, and the dirty pull of social media.

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In this episode, we cover:

* SlutCloud news (00:36)

* Note that this discussion of mastitis and the joys of antibiotics happened before Chesed was hospitalized. but she’s fine now!

* Whoopsie, went viral twice (12:10)

* More Glosso talk and perception vs. reality of your sluts (19:24)

* You don’t have to be a rapist (39:34)

* Coming up soon on the SlutStack (43:57)

* Deep dive on our vaginal microbiome

* Dirty book club

* Moment of sexual gratitude (1:06:21)

Submit your own listener questions at https://www.admonymous.co/chesed or by emailing [email protected]

Thank you to all the men who enabled this podcast, especially Chesed’s husband. If you think this podcast is too long, blame him. And thanks to you for listening! If you like what we’re doing here (or if you really hate us and want to keep tabs), become a paid subscriber at sluts.substack.com.

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Welcome to the the SlutStack podcast! We are 2 wholesome sluts who talk about love, sex, and dirty books.

Follow the links to listen in your favorite podcatcher!

In this episode, we cover:

* SlutCloud news (00:54)

* Clitlit (19:56)

* New relationship energy (NRE) (36:51)

* Dating app algorithms (54:02)

* Is Gen Z fucking enough? (1:11:56)

* Poly vs. monogamous (1:31:10)

* Moment of sexual gratitude (1:34:57)

Submit your own listener questions at https://www.admonymous.co/chesed or by emailing [email protected]

Thank you to all the men who enabled this podcast, especially Chesed’s husband. If you think this podcast is too long, blame him. And thanks to you for listening! If you like what we’re doing here (or if you really hate us and want to keep tabs), become a paid subscriber at sluts.substack.com.

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Welcome to the the SlutStack podcast! We are 2 wholesome sluts who talk about love, sex, and SlutCloud gossip

Follow the links to listen in your favorite podcatcher!

In this episode, we cover:

* Pandora goes on a date with Scary Man (0:58)

* The sluts consider a poly compound (12:38)

* Pandora comes out as poly to her mom (15:30)

* SlutCloud update! (23:35)

* Aella built us a literal SlutCloud visualization at glosso.ink

* Twitter discourse (31:15)

* Do women actually like anal and choking? Do women even like sex?

* Nikki Glaser and her one-sided open relationship

* Nipple stim (48:21)

* Poly vs. monogamous (51:37)

* Moment of sexual gratitude (59:49)

Submit your own listener questions at https://www.admonymous.co/chesed or by emailing [email protected]

Thank you to all the men who enabled this podcast, especially Chesed’s husband. And thanks to you for listening! If you like what we’re doing here (or if you really hate us and want to keep tabs), become a paid subscriber at sluts.substack.com.

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Welcome to the the SlutStack podcast! We are 2 wholesome sluts who talk about love, sex, and skiing.

Follow the links to listen in your favorite podcatcher!

In this episode, we cover:

* Free use ski trip, orgies, and other SlutCloud happenings (00:36)

* Reflections on week 39 of pregnancy (13:07)

* What men should wear to a play party or sex party? (24:34)

* The Sluts’ neglected sex acts (29:37)

* Poly vs. mono (43:11)

* Moment of sexual gratitude (57:42)

Submit your own listener questions at https://www.admonymous.co/chesed or by emailing [email protected]

Thank you to all the men who enabled this podcast, especially Chesed’s husband. And thanks to you for listening! If you like what we’re doing here (or if you really hate us and want to keep tabs), become a paid subscriber at sluts.substack.com.

Note: this is an adult podcast for adults. This episode features extensive discussion of the consensual-non-consent (CNC) kink, also known as rape fantasy. During the episode, at times the word “rape” is used when rape fantasy/CNC sex is meant. For example, when Brangus says he is going to “brutally rape” Chesed, he means he is going to have consensual sex with her that features a mutual kink. Please keep in mind that the Sluts and Brangus both think actual rape is bad (hot take). Our conversation occurs in the context of three adults who all know each other well, have had sex, and share similar kinks and consent norms.

Welcome to the the SlutStack podcast! We are 2 wholesome sluts who talk about love, sex, and triggering men on purpose for our sexual gratification. This week we’re joined by special guest Scary Man, aka Brangus.

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In this episode, we cover:

* Introducing Scary Man (00:31)

* How to have sex with women (4:31)

* Extraordinary Lover event led by Maya Diamond (8:49)

* Scary Man’s philosophy of dating (33:44)

* On getting cancelled and cross-political romance (43:19)

* The difficulties of long-term relationships (53:37)

* Contributing to society by making Aella do things (01:06:56)

* Lindy West and poly discourse (01:13:15)

* Moment of sexual gratitude (01:44:17)

Submit your own listener questions at https://www.admonymous.co/chesed or by emailing [email protected]

Thank you to all the men who enabled this podcast, especially Chesed’s husband. And thanks to you for listening! If you like what we’re doing here (or if you really hate us and want to keep tabs), become a paid subscriber at sluts.substack.com.

Note: this is an adult podcast for adults.

Welcome to the the SlutStack podcast! We are 2 wholesome sluts who talk about love, sex, and increasingly, motherhood. This week we’re joined by special guest Carol Lesser of Sexy as a Mother.

This episode was recorded before Chesed gave birth. Stay tuned for Chesed’s birth story in an upcoming post!

Follow the links to listen in your favorite podcatcher!

In this episode, we cover:

* Introducing Carol (0:26)

* Some definitions (3:59)

* Craniosacral therapy

* Doula vs. midwife

* Chesed’s birth feelings (9:17)

* Orgasmic Birth (and the connection between fear and pain (25:11)

* Transitioning to motherhood and integrating sexuality (38:53)

* How to relax your pelvic floor (51:01)

* Orgasms in a consensual-non-consent context (59:55)

* Goals for birth (1:15:21)

* Moment of sexual gratitude (1:17:00)

Submit your own listener questions at https://www.admonymous.co/chesed or by emailing [email protected]

Thank you to all the men who enabled this podcast, especially Chesed’s husband. And thanks to you for listening! If you like what we’re doing here (or if you really hate us and want to keep tabs), become a paid subscriber at sluts.substack.com.

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Welcome to the the SlutStack podcast! We are two sluts who talk about love, sex, and big data.

Follow the links to listen in your favorite podcatcher!

In this episode, we cover:

* Sleep kink vs. sleepy girl (0:41)

* Breast happenings (6:39)

* Expressing colostrum

* The sluts’ boobs over time

* Breaking new boob technology: Our friend Talia got fancy breast filler from cadaver fat!

* Her breasts, like her soul,, are really truly beautiful, strongly suggest checking out all her links

* Bonnie Blue is pregnant? (22:56)

* Monogamous or poly? (28:07)

* Huel

* Pothos plants

* HIIT

* The Roman Republic

* The Roman Empire

* Stoicism

* Podcasts

* NYC

* Playing around with Aella’s Big Kink Survey data

* Are neurotic women more likely to watch violent porn?

* Are neurotic women less likely to be able to orgasm without clitoral stimulation?

* Are you more likely to find free use erotic if you had a sexually repressed upbringing?

* Are you more likely to find free use erotic if you consider yourself less attractive?

* Are sex workers more mono or poly?

* Moment of sexual gratitude (53:45)

Submit your own listener questions at https://www.admonymous.co/chesed or by emailing [email protected]

Thank you to all the men who enabled this podcast, especially Chesed’s husband. And thanks to you for listening! If you like what we’re doing here (or if you really hate us and want to keep tabs), become a paid subscriber at sluts.substack.com.

Support the sluts by subscribing!