small talk

lucky number 13. thanks to everyone who rode along. maybe we'll be back next winter with a real concept for season 2!

rahime left his home at 11 with a fake passport and a story about watching his parents die in front of his eyes. two countries, one therapist, a whole lot of joints, and a stabbing later, he became the best boxer in berlin at age 21.

we are all women in the man cave. dilim asks for a threesome. what does the ideal relationship feel like?

tristan finds integrating in berlin challenging. i was so surprised. is it his migrant background? something uninspiring about the city? something personal?

the best boxer in berlin, berlin runner project, afrolist, späti party, man cave pt ii

what's it like being second generation in europe? strict parents? no room to show emotion? yile sums up her experience as chinese/dutch in just one word, and shares a surprise about her dating life

the most intense episode so far. starts slow, but gets burning when we try to figure out if its possible to really listen to your heart, and what voice all of your inner personalities have. ben almost cries. leland remains calm.

ben brings an imaginary friend on to discuss "ask vs guess" culture, incels, patriarchy in japan, and the sex, money, and drugs involved in being an international dj

jane finally comes on to clear up how our open relationship works - what our past relationships were like, why we decided on this, and what kind of work it takes.

if you're gonna ask for a threesome, you don't need to do it in the first 4 weeks of knowing someone. if you're gonna spend the rest of your life with the person anyway, take your sweet time.