This week, I’m pulling back the covers—literally and figuratively—to talk about two loaded topics in today’s dating world: sneaky links and body count. (If you don’t know what those mean, don’t worry. I googled it so you don’t have to.)

We’re diving into:

What qualifies as a sneaky link (Is it just a late-night booty call with better branding?)

Why the term “body count” needs to go back to action movies, not dating apps

How women still get judged for having a past, while men get praised for having a roster

And why you should never ask about someone’s number unless you’re ready to hear, “Mind your business.”

This is a no-shame zone. We’re grown. We’ve lived. And if you’re still out here acting brand new about sexuality in 2025... well, I’ve got some stories for you.