So, Here's the Thing: A podcast about life, love, and all that other shit!

So, Here's the Thing: A podcast about life, love, and all that other shit!

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  • Freedom Friday!

    In this throwback episode, I pull back the curtain on a very personal (yet public) experience that I had. It is my hope that through my transparency, you are able to shed light on some of your darkest moments.

    Be sure to comment, share, and subscribe to this podcast. And as always, thanks for listening. 

    I love you for real,

    Javon A. Frazier

    Your Guiding Light 

    31 min
  • You Killin Me Smalls!

    In this episode, I apologize to the brothas. Like, really!

    Be sure to comment, share, and subscribe to this podcast. And as always, thanks for listening. 

    I love you for real,

    Javon A. Frazier

    Your Guiding Light 

    24 min
  • The R Kelly (I Mean Ripple) Effect

    In this episode I discuss the recent Lifetime docuseries regarding R. Kelly and the effect it is having on our community. 


    Be sure to comment, share, and subscribe to this podcast. And as always, thanks for listening. 


    I love you for real,

    Javon A. Frazier

    Your Guiding Light 

    24 min
  • Ep. 3: Ladies, You Better Love That Man
    In this episode I am talking about the importance of loving our black men.
    Here are a few things to consider:
    1. Yes, there are some "bad" men out there, but we cannot lump them all together.
    2. A man responds better to love then aggression.
    3. We are killing men faster than any cop or bullet.
    4. As women, we have the power to create the change that we want to see in men.
    I want to hear from you! Join in the conversation on social media by using #HeresTheThing. Your opinion could be added to the next episode.
    If you enjoy this episode, be sure to like, comment, and share!
    1 hr 14 min
  • Ep. 1: Demystifying the Superhero Complex
    In this episode I am breaking down the "Superhero Complex" and what that means for black women.
    Here are a few things to consider:
    1. The Superhero Complex is killing us.
    2. Just because we CAN do it, doesn't mean that we SHOULD.
    3. No one can "do it all" and do it all in excellence. Something will go lacking
    4. Surround yourself with people who love you enough to check you.
    If you enjoy this episode, be sure to like, comment, and share!
    56 min

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So, Here's the Thing is a podcast created by Javon A. Frazier, author and self-proclaimed Guiding Light. This is the place she shares her thoughts, trials, and triumphs as a black woman and how we can…