So You Can Relate

So You Can Relate

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  • 16. Playing with eternal placement
    Happy Friday!  This week we’re exploring prophecy, manifestation, affirmation, meditation, and doubt. How many of you can relate to witnessing prophecy in church meetings and how has your understanding developed through the years. We discuss working through doubtful periods of our Christian walk and how it ultimately makes us stronger. Brace yourself for some laughter and Mary Mary songs along the way. Current faves mentioned: Mary Mary songs - Believer, Seattle, Stand still. Scripture mentioned: Ephesians 2:9. This is a juicy episode we hope that you enjoy!
    57 min
  • Minisode: The Holy Washing Machine

    Today's minisode was suggested by you - a trip down memory lane to the Christian media we had growing up, from music to TV shows and movies! And on the other hand, what were we forbidden from watching because it was too worldy and inappropriate for 'children of God'? Lol! Reminisce with us and enjoy x

    Mentioned: The Holy Washing Machine

    27 min
  • 15. Sweet Mother

    We're back! To honour Mother's Day this Sunday, today we're talking about motherhood and our perceptions and experiences with our mums from childhood until now. What do you have in common with your mum? Are you her "favourite child?"  Also, what do we think of the parallels drawn between motherhood and womanhood, and the way people may intertwine them? Enjoy this episode and treat your mum this Sunday!

    Current faves mentioned: How Great Medley - Israel & New Breed, He Still loves me - Fighting Temptations


    1 hr 2 min
  • 14. I can speak to dreams, they will come true

    Welcome back! Join us today as we talk about dreams, both personal and general. How much can we draw similarities between what we experience in real life and what we experience in our dreams, and is there a message and/or meaning behind them all? We're also discussing whether God speaks to us through all of our night-time experiences, be them classified as 'God', 'soulish' or 'demonic' dreams. Brace yourself, and enjoy! 

    Current faves mentioned: New Rivers TV, The Clark Sisters - Livin'

    1 hr 3 min
  • 13. Deep in my heart, the answer it was in me

    We're back with another other episode! This is part 2 of our interviews, where we're asking each other questions that make us look deep inside for answers. Today, Joyce is interviewing Adefela with questions like, 'What do you think being in love feels like?', and 'What kind of parent do you think you'll be?' We hope this episode gives you even more questions to ask yourself in the effort to know and understand yourself more, and to ask the people you care about in the effort to know more about them. These are questions we don't ask ourselves on a casual basis. Enjoy part 2 - let's get introspective!

    Adefela's blog: somevariables.org

    1 hr
  • 12. I don't believe in happy tears

    Welcome back! Over the next couple of episodes, we'll be interviewing each other, with questions as simple as 'Do you like your hair?', to thought evoking ones like, 'What burdens your mind?'. Today we're starting off with Adefela interviewing Joyce. Besides you getting to know Joyce, we hope this episode gives you some questions to ask yourself in the effort to know and understand yourself more, and to ask the people you care about in the effort to know more about them. These are questions we don't ask ourselves on a casual basis. Enjoy this one - let's get introspective!

    Adefela's blog: somevariables.org

    1 hr 2 min
  • 11. How does gender qualify submission?
    Wishing you a happy Valentine’s Day in advance🤎 In the spirit of this season, here are our personal experiences of Valentine’s Day, and all things love & romance! We’re also delving into our opinions about submission in a marriage, and exactly what it is that makes a man worth submitting to. Does it only apply to men of God or is gender the sole qualification? We hope you enjoy this episode, sending love from our hearts to yours this weekend!
    1 hr 3 min
  • 10. Definition is overrated, frizz is fantastic

    Today we're celebrating 10 episodes of So You Can Relate! We're so happy to have made it to double digits, and we thank you for sticking by us thus far. Now, let's talk about hair! Listen in as we discuss our hair journeys, horror stories, the natural hair movement, and our current perceptions of Black hair. Why does Joyce say that hair can be political, and why is Adefela concerned about texturism and excessive protective styling? Of course, we'll cover all this and more in the episode. Relax and enjoy as we talk about all things hair!

    1 hr 5 min
  • Minisode: Whatever you feed will grow

    We're back with another minisode! We always have so much to say and they're getting longer lol. Today we're talking about our stance on love languages, personality tests and horoscopes - do we identify with them? We're figuring out how safe it is for Christians to read into beliefs that contrast with ours as God tells us who we are, and the situations where reading into these things could be most helpful. Enjoy this one and have a wonderful weekend!

    Verses referenced in minisode: 

    'Star signs/pagan practises' - Deuteronomy 18:10-14,

    'All things to all men' - 1 Corinthians 9:19-23.

    Reading around these scriptures gives context to them, and enables your deeper understanding of them!

    44 min
  • 9. Nobody airs like God.

    Happy Friday! Today we're rounding off last week's evangelism topic: How do we evangelise freedom in Christ to those who already feel free without Him? Also, what do we think about missionary work as a neo-colonial act? 

    We're also playing a game to figure out just how churchy we are given our Christian upbringings, whilst discussing things we've seen on Christian Twitter, such as whether or not free will is nothing but a myth! Enjoy this episode x

    Links mentioned in episode:

    Preston Perry's BOLDtv channel: Apologetics with Preston Perry - YouTube

    Honey Haven: Beauty | Honey Haven

    1 hr 29 min

About So You Can Relate

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Two Black girls figuring out life - with growth, relatability & their faith in mind.