In this conversation, De'Shonda Lucas and Vernice Redmond-Carson discuss domestic violence and Vernice's personal experience as a survivor. Vernice shares her journey from a loving relationship to an abusive marriage and her eventual escape. She emphasizes the importance of seeking help, trusting in God, and making a mindset shift to break free from the cycle of abuse. Vernice also reflects on her childhood and the impact of her upbringing on her resilience. The conversation highlights the process of rebuilding and healing after leaving an abusive relationship. In this conversation, De'Shonda Lucas speaks with Vernice about her life, experiences, and advocacy for domestic violence. They discuss the importance of family and love, Vernice's passion for sewing and fashion, and her work in raising awareness about domestic violence. Sandy shares resources for those in need and emphasizes the importance of finding freedom from abusive relationships.

Takeaways

1. Seeking help and counseling is crucial for survivors of domestic violence.
2. Trusting in God and making a mindset shift are important steps in breaking free from an abusive relationship.
3. Childhood experiences and upbringing can influence one's resilience and ability to overcome adversity.
4. Rebuilding and healing after leaving an abusive relationship takes time and support.
5. Sharing personal stories of survival can inspire and empower others who may be experiencing domestic violence. Family and love are essential in creating a strong support system.
6. Learning a skill set, such as sewing, can provide independence and opportunities for creativity.
7. Fashion can be a form of self-expression and a way to empower oneself.
8. Advocacy for domestic violence is crucial in raising awareness and supporting survivors.
9. There are resources available for those experiencing domestic violence, including crisis hotlines and safe houses.
10. Finding freedom from abusive relationships is possible and necessary for a fulfilling life.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Background

06:06 Discussing Domestic Violence

08:09 Marriage and Early Signs of Abuse

16:19 Abuse Escalates and Seeking Help

25:35 Leaving the Abusive Relationship

30:41 Childhood and Upbringing

36:48 Rebuilding and Healing

45:10 Loss and Moving Forward

49:50 Family and Love

54:17 Learning to Sew

57:47 Fashion and Creativity

59:12 Advocacy for Domestic Violence

01:03:24 Resources for Domestic Violence

01:05:22 Finding Freedom