Sober Girl Diaries

Sober Girl Diaries

By Violet HarperEducationSelf-Improvement
Download on the App Store

Sober Girl Diaries episodes

  • E11: if you're stuck, listen to this episode

    Hi, bestie...I'm sorry for disappearing last week. I have been feeling so stuck recently & have been in such a creative rut. If you have been feeling this same way, this episode is for YOU. In this episode, I talk about what to do when you're feeling stuck & how you can regain your power, motivation, & direction.

    I hope this episode can give you that extra mood boost you've needed & help you get back in tune with your higher vibrations!!! I'll see you next week for another episode & I promise I WON'T flake again. I love you

    xo - Vi

    22 min
  • E10: rejection is a new direction

    Hi, bestie! So you know that guy I told you about in last week's episode that I was talking to? Well, he ended things...maybe I jinxed it or...maybe the universe has another plan for me. In this episode, I explore that idea & talk about how rejection is a new direction. The universe is screaming at me to be single & I think I might just need to listen this time. Enjoy & see you next week!

    xo - Vi

    18 min
  • E9: life update: dating/career/reinventing yourself

    I'm back besties <333 I missed you guys after not posting an episode last week ): life happens and that's okay BUT I'm so happy to be back!!! In this episode, I talk about some of the most recent life updates in my love life, applying for a big girl job, and the idea of reinventing yourself. Enjoy & I will see you next Saturday with another episode!

    xoxo - Vi

    24 min
  • E8: being single is sexy NOT sad

    I almost broke my literal BACK recording this because my first recording got deleted & I spent an absurd amount of time in my closet redoing it HAH. In this episode, I talk about:

    • how being single is hot & doesn't mean your life is over
    • how to stop giving your energy out to guys who do not deserve it or reciprocate it
    • & how to stop putting guys on pedestals.
    • Independence is SEXY & being single gives you the perfect opportunity to fall back in love with yourself. Being single is FREEEINGGGG & allows us to flourish if we look at it as a blessing, not a curse.

      Our time is precious & so is our energy. We shouldn't be giving it out to guys who don't reciprocate it. Hot girls don't have time to waste & don't have people in their life that will waste their time.

      & last thing, I need you to grab every pedestal you have put a guy on OUT from under them. Most likely you either elevated him or shrunk yourself. We are not putting guys on pedestals in 2024 because hot girls don't idolize mid-men.

      Listen to this episode & make today the day you take your power back... I LOVE YOU!!! See you next week babe.

      - xox0 Vi

      21 min
    • E7: 10 things i've learned while being sober
      EPISODE 7 IS HERE! In this episode, I share with you guys 10 things I've learned since getting sober. In light of it being Dry January, I thought it would be a great way to start 2024 off right by talking about some of the hard truths yet rewarding lessons I've learned so far throughout my journey in being sober. I hope you enjoy it & I'll see you guys next week for another episode! I LOVE YOU!!! <3
      - vi
      SOCIALS:
      Instagram: @vharpss (https://www.instagram.com/vharpss/)
      @sobergirldiariespodcast (http://www.instagram.com/sobergirldiariespodcast/)
      Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@vharpss
      24 min
    • E6: ins & outs for 2024

      Let's get right for the new year. In this week's episode, i share with you my ins and outs for 2024. With the new year comes new opportunities and my ins and outs list can help you get a head start on setting new intentions, healthy goals, & leaving behind what's holding you back...enjoy! Happy early new year and I'll talk to you in next week's episode.

      - vi

      SOCIALS:

      Instagram: @vharpss (https://www.instagram.com/vharpss/)

      @sobergirldiariespodcast (http://www.instagram.com/sobergirldiariespodcast/)
      Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@vharpss

      31 min
    • E2: the creative process & how you can tap into yours

      In this episode, i talk about the complexities that come with doing creative things. It can be scary to put ourselves out there for the world to judge when it comes to sharing our chosen art forms. I confront some of the fears that come with this and how to overcome them. From one creative to another, tune in to learn how you can tap into your highest creative self.

      Art is meant to be shared & podcasting has become my most recent art obsession. I hope this episode helps you find yours! See you next week and don't forget that I love you.
      - xoxo Vi

      SOCIALS

      Instagram: @vharpss (https://www.instagram.com/vharpss/)

      @sobergirldiariespodcast (http://www.instagram.com/sobergirldiariespodcast/)
      Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@vharpss


      22 min
    • E5: self doubt & imposter syndrome, lets talk about it

      EPISODE 5 IS HERE!!! In this episode, i talk about struggling with self-doubt & imposter syndrome and how i have learned to navigate these challenges. They are so prominent in my life and this episode is helping me tell self-doubt & feelings of imposter syndrome to F*CK OFF!!! If you're looking for a sign to do the same, this is IT!

      enjoy babes and see you next Saturday for another episode (:

      SOCIALS:

      Instagram: @vharpss (https://www.instagram.com/vharpss/)

      @sobergirldiariespodcast (http://www.instagram.com/sobergirldiariespodcast/)
      Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@vharpss

      27 min
    • E4: idk what i'm doing

      This episode talks about the fact that I don't know what I'm doing. Yup..that's right. I'm not going to act like I have it together, because the reality is, I DON'T! I'm baring it all with you guys and leaning into the idea of... sometimes it has to be shitty before it's beautiful.

      I talk through the scary feelings that starting something new can bring up, I actually recorded this in my closet lmao...because it's the quietest spot in my apartment. Just ur average hot sober girl talking to herself in her closet.
      enjoy this episode and I'll be back next week with another one! Leave any requests below if you want me to talk about any specific topics.

      xx - Vi

      SOCIALS:

      Instagram: @vharpss (https://www.instagram.com/vharpss/)

      @sobergirldiariespodcast (http://www.instagram.com/sobergirldiariespodcast/)
      Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@vharpss


      17 min
    • E3: why i got sober

      You're probably wondering why I decided to get sober and you might even think I'm boring because of it. I'm here to tell you that I'm living proof that being sober doesn't make you boring. It's actually hot and it's changed my life for the better in more ways than one. In this episode, I take you through the not-so-pretty reality of what it looked like.

      I feel like this episode is long overdue since the title of my podcast is “Sober Girl Diaries” lol so.....think it’s about time I stop putting this one off.
      I was procrastinating making it because of my fear of it not being perfect. We all know in our rational brains that perfectionism is just a toxic illusion so I’m gonna stop being so irrational and give you the not-so-pretty, totally unfiltered, and completely imperfect story of why I'm sober. (:

      SOCIALS:

      IG: @vharpss (https://www.instagram.com/vharpss/)

      @sobergirldiariespodcast (http://www.instagram.com/sobergirldiariespodcast/)


      21 min

    About Sober Girl Diaries

    From the publisher's feed

    Hi bestie, I’m Violet, also known as the sober girl living in Chicago! I share my story of being sober, the highs and lows of life, & how to love yourself through it all. SGD talks about all things mental health & wellness related, sobriety, & navigating life in your early 20’s. Whether it’s about self-love, relationships, or the everyday mundane…let’s create our best life one episode at a time. ♡︎