In this episode of Uncovering Her, we unpack the often misunderstood difference between being fully sober and identifying as “California sober.” From the social pressures to drink or casually use cannabis to the personal rules we create around recovery, we explore how sobriety isn’t one-size-fits-all — but also why clarity and honesty with yourself are essential.

Whether you’re in recovery, rethinking your relationship with substances, or curious about the gray areas, this conversation invites you to define what sober means for you , without shame, without comparison, and without pretending.