In a world full of trends and hashtags, social media is often part of discussions that allude to it being a negative space that holds the key to comparison and a false reality. Having both been off of posting much on social media in the past couple of years to rocketing straight onto most social media platforms, we have some unpopular opinions to share with you on our own experiences with social media. It can be a vulnerable place to be but just as with all vulnerability, beautiful things can come from social media. We unpack boundaries, cancel culture and influencers. We have interesting perspectives to share from our own experiences as we learn to redefine social media on our own terms.