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š„ Episode Summary:
Not every connection is meant to be carried forever.
In this raw and freeing solo episode, Todd explores what it means to love people deeply without tethering your identity to them ā especially when their role in your life was meant to be temporary.
From spiritual assignments to relational pruning, Todd walks listeners through the emotional wisdom of releasing with peace, loving with boundaries, and letting go without guilt.
This episode is a spiritual reset for anyone carrying expired relationships, emotional codependency, or trauma-bonds that masquerade as divine connection.
š Featured Scriptures:
Ecclesiastes 3:1 (NIV)
āThere is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens.ā
ā Discernment is required to know when a relationship has fulfilled its season.
Isaiah 55:8ā9 (NIV)
āāFor my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways,ā declares the Lordā¦ā
ā Just because something felt right doesnāt mean itās meant to last.
John 15:2 (NIV)
āHe cuts off every branch⦠that bears no fruit⦠and prunes those that doā¦ā
ā Pruning isnāt punishment. Itās preparation.
Matthew 10:14 (NIV)
āIf anyone will not welcome you⦠shake the dust off your feet.ā
ā Sacred distance is not bitterness. Itās clarity.
Galatians 6:2,5 (NIV)
āCarry each otherās burdens⦠for each one should carry their own load.ā
ā Help others, but donāt hijack their healing or lose your own center.
š§ What Youāll Learn:
The difference between a divine assignment and true alignment
How to spot when a relationship is draining your peace or identity
Why pruning is often the next step after emotional growth
How to release people without resentment or self-betrayal
The importance of discerning sacred distance vs. emotional detachment
āļø Reflection Prompts:
Who in your life may have served their season already?
What roles have you played in othersā lives that youāre no longer meant to carry?
Where are you afraid of being alone, so youāre tolerating misalignment?
What emotional identity are you still holding onto from an old role?
What would it look like to love from a distance without guilt or grief owning you?
š Core Message:
You are not required to carry everyone across every threshold.
Some people are pass-throughs.
Honor them.
Bless them.
And move forwardāwith peace.
š® Teaser for Episode 32:
Next week, Todd is joined by Brooke Deanne, the Life Goddess Coach ā a trauma-informed healer, bestselling author of Shattered, Broken & Beautiful, and a woman who has survived religious trauma, PTSD, and deep emotional rewiring.
If youāve ever been the one who got shattered ā this next episode will speak to the parts of you no one else could reach.
Come ready. Come open. Come healing.
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
By Todd Tononi5
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š„ Episode Summary:
Not every connection is meant to be carried forever.
In this raw and freeing solo episode, Todd explores what it means to love people deeply without tethering your identity to them ā especially when their role in your life was meant to be temporary.
From spiritual assignments to relational pruning, Todd walks listeners through the emotional wisdom of releasing with peace, loving with boundaries, and letting go without guilt.
This episode is a spiritual reset for anyone carrying expired relationships, emotional codependency, or trauma-bonds that masquerade as divine connection.
š Featured Scriptures:
Ecclesiastes 3:1 (NIV)
āThere is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens.ā
ā Discernment is required to know when a relationship has fulfilled its season.
Isaiah 55:8ā9 (NIV)
āāFor my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways,ā declares the Lordā¦ā
ā Just because something felt right doesnāt mean itās meant to last.
John 15:2 (NIV)
āHe cuts off every branch⦠that bears no fruit⦠and prunes those that doā¦ā
ā Pruning isnāt punishment. Itās preparation.
Matthew 10:14 (NIV)
āIf anyone will not welcome you⦠shake the dust off your feet.ā
ā Sacred distance is not bitterness. Itās clarity.
Galatians 6:2,5 (NIV)
āCarry each otherās burdens⦠for each one should carry their own load.ā
ā Help others, but donāt hijack their healing or lose your own center.
š§ What Youāll Learn:
The difference between a divine assignment and true alignment
How to spot when a relationship is draining your peace or identity
Why pruning is often the next step after emotional growth
How to release people without resentment or self-betrayal
The importance of discerning sacred distance vs. emotional detachment
āļø Reflection Prompts:
Who in your life may have served their season already?
What roles have you played in othersā lives that youāre no longer meant to carry?
Where are you afraid of being alone, so youāre tolerating misalignment?
What emotional identity are you still holding onto from an old role?
What would it look like to love from a distance without guilt or grief owning you?
š Core Message:
You are not required to carry everyone across every threshold.
Some people are pass-throughs.
Honor them.
Bless them.
And move forwardāwith peace.
š® Teaser for Episode 32:
Next week, Todd is joined by Brooke Deanne, the Life Goddess Coach ā a trauma-informed healer, bestselling author of Shattered, Broken & Beautiful, and a woman who has survived religious trauma, PTSD, and deep emotional rewiring.
If youāve ever been the one who got shattered ā this next episode will speak to the parts of you no one else could reach.
Come ready. Come open. Come healing.
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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