Welcome to this seasons finale of Someone Had to Say It! with Olaoluwa and Temitope Oladokun.In this episode, we’re unpacking a topic that’s been quietly controversial in Christian circles for years: modesty. Is it just about how we dress—or is there more to it?Join us as we dive deep into the modesty conversation, asking the uncomfortable but necessary questions, like:What really comes to mind when we hear “modesty”—and where did those ideas originate?Has modesty been reduced to fashion policing instead of cultivating a posture of the heart?Where’s the line between confidence and showing off in a Christian context?When does personal expression (fashion, makeup, aesthetics) cross into vanity or distraction?Are men held to the same modesty standards, or is this a gendered expectation?How can we teach modesty in a way that’s both biblically grounded and compassionately framed?This episode is for anyone who’s ever wrestled with the tension between personal style and spiritual values. Whether you’ve been judged, done the judging, or are simply trying to understand how modesty fits into today’s faith walk—we’re talking about it.Because maybe modesty isn’t just about what’s on your body… but what’s going on in your heart.🎧 LISTEN ON:Youtube: https://youtu.be/ewpZSH80UdAApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast...📲 FOLLOW US FOR MORE:Instagram: @someonehadtosayit.podTikTok: @someonehadtosayit.podLet us know in the comments:What shaped your view of modesty growing up? And how has it evolved over time? Share your thoughts—we’d love to hear from you.Subscribe to Someone Had to Say It! on Spotify or Apple Podcasts so you never miss the conversations that someone had to say. 🎙️

Welcome back to Someone Had to Say It! with Olaoluwa and Temitope Oladokun. In this episode, we’re tackling a hot topic in modern relationships: Is there such a thing as being too picky in dating?

Join us as we dive into the nuances of dating standards, exploring when pickiness is a strength and when it might hold you back from meaningful connection. We unpack:

• What does "picky" really mean? Is having high standards a bad thing, or a sign of self-respect?

• Healthy standards vs. unrealistic expectations: Where’s the line between knowing your worth and chasing a delusion disguised as a preference?

• Fear in modern dating: Are people more afraid of settling for the wrong partner or facing loneliness?

• The “ick” factor: Have you ever passed on a great person over a minor flaw or unmet expectation?

• Choosing well for marriage: What does it mean to make a wise, intentional choice for a lifelong partner?

This episode is for anyone navigating the dating world, wrestling with their standards, or seeking clarity on how to choose a partner with purpose. We explore how fear, faith, and modern dating culture shape our decisions, offering practical and spiritual insights for building lasting connections.

Because dating isn’t just about finding “the one”, it’s about choosing well.

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Welcome back to Someone Had to Say It! with Olaoluwa and Temitope Oladokun.In today’s episode, we’re diving into a life-altering transition: preparing for parenthood.• How do you know you’re actually ready to have a child?• What does emotional preparation for parenting even look like?• How does the health of your relationship as a couple impact your parenting journey?• Can you ever truly be financially ready for a baby?• How does becoming a parent shift your sense of identity and your vision for marriage or career?• And how do you prepare spiritually for something so sacred and stretching?This episode is for anyone who’s planning for a child, expecting one, or just wondering what this season requires beyond baby clothes and hospital bags.Because preparing for parenthood isn’t just practical, it’s deeply spiritual.Let’s talk about it.TIMESTAMP:🎧 LISTEN ON:Youtube: https://youtu.be/4L3mm_ogMLUApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/someone-had-to-say-it/id1798080321📲 FOLLOW US FOR MORE:Instagram: @someonehadtosayit.podTikTok: @someonehadtosayit.podLet us know in the comments:What part of preparing for parenthood has challenged or changed you the most?Let’s grow together.New episodes drop every other week—subscribe so you don’t miss the next conversation that someone had to say. 🎙️

Welcome back to Someone Had to Say It! with Olaoluwa and Temitope Oladokun.In today’s honest and unfiltered episode, we’re tackling a struggle that sits quietly in many hearts, the tension between faith and hustle culture.From the pressure to “always be grinding” to the guilt of slowing down, we’re asking the hard questions: • How do you know if your ambition is God-led or ego-driven? • Is burnout just bad boundaries—or a sign of misplaced trust? • Can you stay spiritually fervent in an environment that rewards overwork? • What do you do when your church commitments are pulling you one way and your job expectations another? • Is it possible to be both content and ambitious or are those opposites?We’re unpacking what it looks like to pursue excellence without losing your soul, to set goals without worshiping them, and to stay rooted in purpose even when life gets noisy.This episode is for the believer who’s building something but doesn’t want to lose themselves (or their peace) in the process.What does balance look like in a world that’s constantly telling you to do more, be more, prove more?Let’s talk about it.🎧 LISTEN ON:Youtube: https://youtu.be/KhA67AXSV7IApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/someone-had-to-say-it/id1798080321📲 FOLLOW US FOR MORE:Instagram: @someonehadtosayit.podTikTok: @someonehadtosayit.podLet us know in the comments:How are you navigating ambition, faith, and burnout?What’s helped—or what’s still hard?New episodes drop every other week—subscribe so you don’t miss the next conversation that someone had to say. 🎙️

Welcome back to Someone Had to Say It! with Olaoluwa and Temitope Oladokun.In today’s unfiltered episode, we’re diving deep into a conversation that many people battle silently—pornography and the quiet wreckage it leaves behind.From early exposure to secret struggles in adulthood, we’re pulling back the curtain on how porn is shaping expectations around sex, intimacy, and love—and the real impact it has on individuals, marriages, and faith.What happens when you’re married but still battling this addiction?How do you even begin to bring it up with your spouse?Can someone truly break free—and how?We’re sharing personal reflections, honest questions, and hope-filled insight for anyone navigating this complex journey.This episode is about more than porn. It’s about truth, vulnerability, healing, and finding your way back to freedom.Whether you’re single, married, healing, or supporting someone who’s struggling—this one’s for you.Would you know what to do if someone you loved confessed a porn addiction? Let’s talk about it.🎧 LISTEN ON:Youtube: https://youtu.be/9O32gpfRBlwApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/someone-had-to-say-it/id1798080321📲 FOLLOW US FOR MORE:Instagram: @someonehadtosayit.podTikTok: @someonehadtosayit.podLet us know in the comments:Have you or someone you know had to face this battle?What helped—or what do you wish you heard sooner?New episodes drop every other week—subscribe so you don’t miss the next conversation that someone had to say. 🎙️

Welcome back to Someone Had to Say It! with Olaoluwa and Temitope Oladokun.In today’s unfiltered episode, we’re diving deep into a conversation that many couples tiptoe around—managing money together in a relationship.From awkward first money talks to differing spending styles, we’re breaking down the real-life struggles and strategies that come with loving someone on a budget.Is a formal budget necessary, or can mutual understanding really work?What happens when one person earns more than the other?And how do you handle your partner’s impulse buys without starting World War III?We’re sharing our own stories, practical wisdom, and insight on how couples can thrive financially without losing love or peace in the process.This isn’t just about money, it’s about trust, communication, and building a life together with intention.Whether you’re dating, engaged, or ten years deep in marriage, this one’s for you.Would you and your partner survive a money conversation today? Let’s find out. 🎧 LISTEN ON:Youtube: https://youtu.be/cp9yXepAxJYApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/someone-had-to-say-it/id1798080321📲 FOLLOW US FOR MORE:Instagram: @someonehadtosayit.podTikTok: @someonehadtosayit.podLet us know in the comments: How do you and your partner manage money?Are you Team Spreadsheet or Team “Let’s Just Trust Each Other”?New episodes drop every other week—subscribe so you don’t miss the next conversation that someone had to say. 🎙️#SomeoneHadToSayIt #LoveOnABudget #ChristianCouples #MoneyAndMarriage #BudgetingTogether #RelationshipGoals #FinancialWisdom #FaithAndFinance #ChristianPodcast #MoneyTalks #CouplesAndCash #SHTSIPodcast

Welcome back to Someone Had to Say It! with Olaoluwa and Temitope Oladokun.In today’s unfiltered episode, we’re diving deep into a question that’s stirred up tension in group chats, counseling rooms, and quiet corners of many relationships—“Is it okay to stay friends with your ex while in a new relationship?”Whether it ended amicably or ended in flames, the idea of keeping an ex in your life can get… complicated.Is it maturity or emotional hoarding? Is it harmless nostalgia or a door left open for drama?We’re unpacking all of it—emotional boundaries, soul ties, trust dynamics, and how your past might be quietly sabotaging your present. And of course, we explore what scripture and spiritual wisdom say about these gray areas that the Bible doesn’t spell out in black and white.This is not about condemnation—it’s about clarity, growth, and having the conversations most people avoid until it’s too late.Is your ex really “just a friend”?Would your partner be comfortable knowing how often you talk?Can you truly heal while still holding on?Let’s talk about it. Honestly.🎧 LISTEN ON:Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/someone-had-to-say-it/id1798080321📲 FOLLOW US FOR MORE:Instagram: @someonehadtosayit.podTikTok: @someonehadtosayit.pod Let us know in the comments: Would you let your partner stay close friends with their ex? Why or why not?New episodes drop every other week—subscribe so you don’t miss the next conversation that someone had to say. 🎙️#SomeoneHadToSayIt #ChristianDating #BoundariesInRelationships #FaithAndLove #FriendshipWithEx #EmotionalClarity #SoulTies #ChristianPodcast #DatingWisdom #ExFactor #TrustAndRelationships #ModernChristianity #SHTSIPodcast...

Welcome back to Someone Had to Say It! with Olaoluwa and Temitope Oladokun. In today’s eye-opening episode, we explore a topic that’s sparked countless debates in church groups, social media threads, and Christian circles—Entertainment and Christianity: How far is too far?

From Netflix shows to secular music, fashion trends to comedy skits—how do believers draw the line between freedom and compromise? Can you be a committed Christian and still enjoy pop culture? Are some forms of entertainment harmless fun, or are they quietly shaping our values?

We dive deep into the heart of these questions—discussing biblical wisdom, cultural influence, personal convictions, and how to navigate entertainment in a way that honors God without falling into legalism or fear.

It’s honest, it’s thought-provoking, and it’s the conversation many avoid but desperately need. Whether you’ve been wondering if your playlist needs a cleanse or you’ve just been judged for watching a Marvel movie—you’ll want to hear this.

What’s your take? Where do you personally draw the line? Let’s talk in the comments.

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Welcome back to Someone Had to Say It! with Olaoluwa and Temitope Oladokun.

In today’s powerful episode, we dive deep into the challenging but crucial topic of toxic parents and navigating family trauma.Have you ever felt emotionally drained, manipulated, or misunderstood by the people closest to you?

You’re not alone. We’re unpacking the complicated layers of familial relationships, discussing signs of toxicity, how unresolved trauma affects us into adulthood, and practical strategies to heal and reclaim your emotional well-being.It’s real, it’s raw, and it’s the conversation many families avoid—but we believe healing starts with openness.

Tune in and learn how to protect your peace and build healthier relationships.Tell us your story! Drop your thoughts or experiences with toxic family dynamics in the comments below.

How have you dealt with family trauma?

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Timestamps:

0:00 - Intro

1:23 - Recognising Toxic Family Behaviour

7:15 - How to prevent Toxic cycles from repeating itself

15:14 - Protecting you Spouse and Children from Exposure to Toxic Family Dynamics

27:06 - How do you honour a parent that is Toxic?

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Welcome back to Someone Had to Say It! In this episode, we’re stepping into the deep, messy, and often misunderstood world of dating, sex, and the dreams purity culture sold us.For years, we were told that waiting until marriage was the golden ticket to a perfect relationship—but was it really? From shame-based teachings to the fear of intimacy and the pressure to stay “pure”, we’re breaking down how purity culture shaped our views on sex, relationships, and even self-worth.It’s unfiltered, it’s honest, and we’re asking the questions that need answers. Did purity culture help, hurt, or just leave us wildly unprepared? Let’s talk about it. Drop your thoughts in the comments! Did you grow up with purity culture? How has it shaped your views on sex and dating?🎧 LISTEN ON:Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@SomeoneHadToSayIt.PodcastApple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/someone-had-to-say-it/id1798080321📲 FOLLOW US FOR MORE CONTENT:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/someonehadtosayit.podTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@someonehadtosayit.pod#SomeoneHadToSayIt #ChristianDating #PurityCulture #Relationships #FaithAndSex #SHTSIPodcast #RealTalk