Something Private

It's curious to note the amount of resources we spend on skin care, but only for the skin on our face. Much like our face, our vulvas go through A LOT of change in our lifetime, but are often neglected; some of us even go through our lives never knowing what things look like down there! But why is it important to care about these changes, if well, nobody's going to see them? From puberty to menopause, we examine what happens to your vulva as you age.

Voyage to the Vulva-verse is a 5 part series in collaboration with TWO L(I)PS and Strip, as we embark on a journey as vulva-owners to understand ourselves a little better. New episodes every last Wednesday of the month!

DATING IS HARD… For people like Michelle who was diagnosed with Aspergers at age two, dating is EVEN harder. At first glance, you'll never guess that someone like her has an autism spectrum disorder (ASD), because of preconceived notions our society has towards people living on the spectrum. One of which is that they are incapable of having romantic relationships. But Michelle maintains that for individuals with autism, they crave love and intimacy, as much as anyone of us.

"Eh don't pussy la bro, don't be a SIMP."

When the director of AWARE, Corinna Lim, called for a "review of national service to weed out toxic masculinity", the internet retaliated. From comments like "NOT ALL MEN", to "Women should do NS too" and even "What about toxic femininity?", the conversation around toxic masculinity was thrown back into the spotlight. On our latest episode of the Nic Kim column, we speak with a fellow feminist, Kristian Marc James Paul, on how anyone can perpetuate toxic masculinity, and how we can collectively work towards helping men learn healthy behaviors and develop stronger communities.

New episodes biweekly on Thursdays, 8pm GMT+8. Visit our website, http://somethingprivate.fm, or email us at [email protected].

What does it take to start a family? For same-sex couples in Singapore, the reality is expensive and illegal. But for Brenda and Pearlyn, who have been together for 17 years, they knew from the moment they met each other, that having a child was a priority. Despite naysayers who accuse them of being "selfish" for subjecting a child to a same-sex parenthood, and four failed attempts in getting pregnant through a donor sperm, the two delivered baby Velda early last year, and share that they count their blessings everyday. This Pride Month, we're celebrating the right to love equally, with Brenda, Pearlyn and Velda's story.

New episodes biweekly on Thursdays, 8pm GMT+8. Visit our website, http://somethingprivate.fm, or email us at [email protected].

Two years ago, an Indonesian woman was handed a six-month jail term after reporting evidence against her harasser, highlighting how women in the world's most populous Muslim-majority nation struggles with legal recourse when sexually harassed. Harassment is rife all around the world, Indonesia, a country ranked the most dangerous for women to live in across Southeast Asia, sees an average of three to 400,000 sexual violence cases reported each year. In this episode, Citra Benazir, co-director of Hollaback Jakarta, talks about the highly debated sexual violence bill, how religion, politics, and social justice intersect, and what activists are pushing for in their journey towards equality in Indonesia.

New episodes biweekly on Thursdays, 8pm GMT+8. Visit our website, http://somethingprivate.fm, or email us at [email protected].

Have you ever been stared at by a stranger in public for too long? Or been told a sexual joke by a friend which made you uncomfortable?

A study by the UN revealed that 97 percent of women in the U.K. aged 18 to 24 have experienced some form of harassment in public, but over 70 percent endure it. In this episode, Nicole and Kim discuss the difficulties of navigating boundaries in school and a new workplace, how to speak up when we are uncomfortable, and what allies can do to make the world a safer place for all of us.

Have a story you'd like to share? Get in touch on Instagram @somethingprivatepod, or at [email protected]. New episodes biweekly on Thursdays, 8pm GMT+8. Visit our website, http://somethingprivate.fm.

Did you know, broken heart syndrome is a thing? AND, women are more prone to it. No, this doesn't make us weaker, just that men and women are biologically different. But the differences in heart health between the genders don't just stop there. Enter Dr Low and Dr Laureen, two cardiologists running one of Singapore's first gender-tailored healthcare program (yes, for women!) In this episode, we discuss the need for women to pay attention to cardiovascular diseases, the number 1 killer of women globally, and how we can look out for symptoms, and keep ourselves healthy and safe.

For more information about heart health, visit www.nuhcs.com.sg, or follow the National University Heart Centre, Singapore @NUHCS on their Facebook page and YouTube channel. Or schedule an appointment with your doctor today!

New episodes biweekly on Thursdays, 8pm GMT+8. Visit our website, http://somethingprivate.fm, or email us at [email protected].

Malaysian celebrity chef Ili Sulaiman is not shy to share about living with three types of hormonal disorders - polycystic ovarian syndrome (PCOS), endometriosis and thyroid deficiency - conditions that affect at least 1 in 10 women globally.

Since opening up about her endometriosis surgery to 127K followers on Instagram last October, she's become the confidant for many women struggling with reproductive and sexual health. In Malaysia, where pre-marital sex is considered immoral, Ili shares that many resist seeking help for their pains and problems, in fear of judgement.

This episode explores PCOS, endometriosis, and the silent suffering women endure while on their periods.

New episodes biweekly on Thursdays, 8pm GMT+8. Visit our website http://somethingprivate.fm, or email us at [email protected].

Egg freezing is the future of women's reproductive freedom and rights. Around the world, companies like Facebook and Apple pay for their employees to freeze their eggs, but in Asia, some governments have made social egg freezing illegal in fear of promoting late motherhood, while others have chosen to leave it unregulated.

Enter Juhee An, founder of Freedom Edge, a social business helping Asian women travel to South Korea to freeze their eggs (pre-COVID of course). In this episode, we discuss the science behind the technology, why some governments are not behind it and some considerations to think about if you're looking to immortalise your eggs.

Welcome back season four of Something Private! New episodes will be out biweekly on Thursdays, 8 pm GMT+8. Visit our website, http://somethingprivate.fm, or email us at [email protected].

❗️WARNING: This episode includes recounts of suicide attempts.❗️

It's the last week of what has been a really difficult year, so we want to share a story of hope. In 1994, 24-year-old Tan Kok Liang had everything set out for him - a prestigious job, a loving girlfriend, and had a series of accomplishments to his name. But a tragic accident one day, caused Kok Liang to lose his memory, half his brain, and all his reason to live. Today, Kok Liang goes by the name Takalah. As a motivational speaker and brain injury survivor advocate, his story has touched the hearts of many. This is the story of Takalah Tan.

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