Sometimes There's Side Eye

Sometimes There's Side Eye

By Heather Brendle & Kristi McNeeleyKids & FamilyPets & Animals
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Sometimes There's Side Eye episodes

  • Sometimes There's Side Eye - Episode 12: Rehoming

    The topic of rehoming a dog can be a sensitive one.  However, we believe there are situations where rehoming a dog can be in everyone's best interest.  Join us as we share examples of rehoming successes, that we have been involved in or that have affected us personally.  Explore how quality of life for everyone in your home (both 2 and 4 legged) should be considered when approaching the subject of rehoming, and why getting training isn't always enough.  We will also address some best practices if you find yourself in a situation where you need to rehome your own dog.  Despite it being a taboo subject, we think you will find this conversation both uplifting, and beneficial.


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    Link mentioned in this podcast:

    Rehoming Resources — Hello Bully

    50 min
  • Sometimes There's Side Eye - Episode 11: Fostering

    Have you ever thought of fostering, wondered how to better support fosters in your community, or are you curious what all the fuss is about when it comes to fostering?  If so, this is the episode for you!  On this episode we are pleased to introduce you to our first guest, Kelsey Ankrom, who formerly worked as the foster coordinator for Almost There Rescue and is a foster herself.    We'll be discussing our personal experiences fostering along with a variety of topics around fostering.  We'll be addressing things like what types of fostering individuals can sign up for, what to consider when fostering, what's expected of fosters, and how fostering benefits shelters, rescues, dogs, and adopters.  We think you'll enjoy this honest look into fostering and hope to answer some common questions as well as answer some questions you didn't know to ask. 

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    Links to the rescues mentioned in this podcast:

    Almost There Rescue

    How to Become A Foster Dog Parent | Almost There Rescue


    AZK9

    Get Involved — AZK9 Rescue
    One Love Arizona
    Foster (oneloveaz.org)

    1 hr 25 min
  • Sometimes There's Side Eye - Episode 10: Cooperative Care

    Join us as we talk about all things cooperative care; from defining what cooperative care is to diving into how we are personally using it in our lives with our dogs, and even ways you can easily start to use it with your own dog(s).  Find out how cooperative care can be used for day to day tasks as well as more substantial procedures in our dogs lives.   Also learn why we think it is so important to give our dogs choices in their care and provide a way for them to say no.  And join us as we seek to continue improving the cooperative care we implement in our own homes and what benefits we feel we have experienced by doing so.  

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    Links:

    Cooperative Care: Seven Steps to Stress-Free Husbandry by Deborah Jones, Ph.D.
    Cooperative Care: Seven Steps to Stress-Free Husbandry: Jones Ph.D., Deborah: 9780578423135: Amazon.com: Books

    Cooperative Care facebook group:

    (3) Cooperative Care with Deb Jones | Facebook


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    39 min
  • Sometimes There's Side Eye - Episode 6: Honoring Your Dog's Dogness

    In this episode, explore how recognizing dogs as their own species may help deepen their relationships with the humans who love them.  Consider if dogs becoming part of the family in modern America has been more of a blessing or a curse for dogs. Also, listen as Heather and Kristi share the ways they enjoy letting their dogs be dogs. and strive to meet their dog's needs, including everything from sniff walks to rolling in cow poop. 

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    Episode Transcripts | Sometimes There's Side Eye (sometimestheressideeye.com)



    31 min
  • Sometimes There's Side Eye - Episode 9: Training

    On this episode, come explore the sometimes tumultuous, and often divisive subject of dog training. Learn more about some of the labels like "positive reinforcement" and "balanced" training, and ways we can show kindness and respect to both people and dogs, regardless of what side of the fence you find yourself on. We hope you enjoy learning a little more about our training history and where we are now, in our training journeys with our dogs. We know this can be a tricky subject. We hope that you find our "just think about it and get curious" approach to be a less intimidating, and a kinder way to start thinking about the subject and address the human end of the leash. At the end of the day, we love seeing people out training their dogs, regardless of their method.

    Operant Conditioning Examples | YourDictionary

    If you are looking for additional listening material on this topic, we encourage you to listen to episode 1, 2, & 3 of Sarah Stremmings's Cog Dog Radio: The False Dichotomy with Lisa Mullinax.

    The False Dichotomy with Lisa Mullinax CDBC Part 1 | Sarah Stremming, Cog Dog Coach (thecognitivecanine.com)

    https://thecognitivecanine.com/the-false-dichotomy-with-lisa-mullinax-cdbc-part-2/

    The False Dichotomy with Lisa Mullinax CDBC Part 3 | Sarah Stremming, Cog Dog Coach (thecognitivecanine.com)

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    58 min
  • Sometimes There's Side Eye - Episode 8: Pet Insurance

    Have you ever been in a situation where you couldn't comfortably afford your pet's veterinary care?  Most pet owners have experienced this at some point. What if money wasn't a concern, would it change the veterinary care you chose for your pet?  Kristi and Heather break down the benefits and pitfalls of pet insurance. They explore the idea of being a partner with your veterinarian, when the money concerns are taken off the table.  Listen as they share their own experiences with their dog's health, and how those experiences impacted their finances. 
    How Much Is Pet Insurance? (2023 Guide) – Forbes Advisor

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    50 min
  • Sometimes There's Side Eye - Episode 7: The Shame Game

    Are you playing the shame game, like the rest of us? Where does shame come from and how do we combat it? Explore the subject of the shame game, and the equally fun shame spiral, that so many of us find ourselves in when the life we planned with our dogs, goes awry. Dive into the reasons we so often experience shame and why no one should feel alone as we experience difficulties in training, behavior, and sometimes just day to day life with our dogs. Both Heather and Kristi share some of their own experiences, and the shame they felt surrounding failed expectations, and the grace they've learned to give themselves, their dogs, and others experiencing unexpected difficulties.

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    Links:

    Losing Lulu - a grief support group for anyone who has been through a behavioral euthanasia.
    https://www.facebook.com/groups/losinglulu/


    34 min
  • Sometimes There's Side Eye - Episode 5: Doodles

    This week Heather and Kristi take on the topic of Doodles.  Love them or hate them, Doodles are now a common part of the dog landscape in America.  Kristi and Heather will address why they think this is, some things to contemplate if considering a Doodle, and why bashing Doodles is harmful to more than just Doodles.  This episode will give you some food for thought regardless of your personal feelings towards Doodles, and some laughs along the way.

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    28 min
  • Sometimes There's Side Eye - Episode 4: Exploring "It's All in How You Raise Them" and "I Want to Get a Puppy so I Can Raise it Right"

    In this episode, Heather and Kristi take a closer look into the common phrases "It's all in how you raise them" and "I want to get a puppy so I can raise it right".  Hear several examples of dogs who were and were not "raised right" and had unexpected outcomes in each case.  Additionally, join Heather and Kristi in exploring the why behind these common sayings and why they might be doing more harm than good.

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    Looking for more information? We encourage you to check out these links: 

    No, It's Not All How They're Raised | HuffPost Good News  

    Pibbling with Theodore | Mars Hill NC | Facebook

    34 min
  • Sometimes There's Side Eye - Episode 3: Why Do We Assume The Worst In Our Dogs?

    In this episode, Kristi and Heather explore the idea of why we assume our dogs are being jerks and what else could be contributing to the difficult, unusual, or uncooperative behaviors they display.  We hear about common issues that most dog owners will experience at some point including health, training, and environmental examples.  Also dive into more advanced issues in the same vein of dog behavior.  Hopefully this episode creates some curiosity around behaviors you see and helps you stop to consider if your dog is really being a jerk, or if they are just asking for a little extra help in the moment. 

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    46 min

About Sometimes There's Side Eye

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A Podcast about two friends having real and unfiltered conversations about dogs and people. Listen as we talk about our lives with dogs, training, behavior, share some laughs, and a whole lot of…