Jayme and Stevi address common marriage myths. We have little experience with marriage but we share things we have learned . We both agree that easing into full time with your spouse worked for us. Also, find yourself a friend that will call you out when you're in the wrong. We also talk for way too long about car washes. Next episode, we will welcome back Mr. Nascar and Mr. Big Buck to share their experiences. 

Jayme and Stevi Google the best life advice. We give our own life advice. We decide to start daily affirmations and make the decision to own our confidence. Jayme's husband is stuck somewhere down south at a Nascar race and Stevi's family do family pictures with toddlers. A listener writes in and tells us her and her spouse are not on the same page with having children. They are married and not sure what to do from here. 

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DoTerra OnGuard for cleaning Jayme's tub nightly 
@2nickelsdesigns for the amazing wine set
Train with Taylor for our healthy, yet delicious, meal this evening 
Staci Just Photography for dealing with Ruby and her hair 
Gathered Boutique Rentals and Events for providing a weather-controlled space for family photos in North Dakota in March 

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How do you prevent the feeling of overwhelm?? 
Its a Monday afternoon and we are here just shooting the breeze. Jayme has quite the weekly recap for you all and Stevi already spent her garage sale money. Jayme's husband is a farmer who has a new crop this year, and I doubt her cleaning service is impressed (PS Sota Sown coming soon! )  We discuss the shows we are loving and what we would do if our children start showing signs of becoming psychopaths.  We hope we are bringing you some joy to your day! Enjoy 

We discuss the Meghan and Harry interview with Oprah. Jayme and Stevi may have different thoughts. We talk about Instacart mishaps and husbands who hoard. Toxic relationships in the workplace and in the home. A listener messaged us about her friend's husband cheating and how to approach her. Please write us a review, subscribe, download, follow us on Instagram. We are loving the responses from everyone! 

Jayme attempted the Vodka Soda hack on a sucker stain. Stevi's 2nd born is causing a ruckus like always. We get into the ER nurse life, night shift and I didn't know I was pregnant. Disclaimer: inappropriate content discussed around minute 16. We try to stay classy on the rest of the episode. Emergency nursing life is unique and difficult to understand. We also get into Meghan and Harry. We will watching the rest of the special and return with a full opinion.  We try to help a mother struggling with finances and marriage. We have all been there and sometimes it takes some rearranging of jobs, houses or date nights in watching Avatar. 

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Jayme and Stevi give you life tips and tricks. Our lives continue to be shit shows this week. We are not qualified to give advice on baby sleep, finances or marriage, but we try to help you out.  Stevi forgets to tell Justin she sold their TV online. We talk about our kids seeing ghosts and discuss Dads going on week-long vacations.  

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We are all over the place this episode, it is a Sunday afternoon and we are sober. We discuss differences between when we were teens on AOL messenger and teens on social media now days. We talk about Susie Q with her unsolicited advice, the constant feeling of failing and how to get our ideal jobs. Stevi is fussy and rants about furniture stores and Starbucks. Send us your job openings and part-time daycare pitches. Subscribe and write us a review!! 

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Our spouses join us to discuss how we met, how marriage is going, being new parents, how we think we would react to teenager shenanigans, bullying and kids going to college. We answer some listener questions on a mother of the groom wearing white to the wedding and our sex life. Jayme lets a sex confession slip and Stevi throws out some swear bombs. Please subscribe and follow us on Instagram @sota_kotapodcast

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Warning: Wine was consumed in the making of this episode. How we met, Stevi and Jayme have different memories.  What is a food bolus?  Why we started the podcast. What we need from you. Subscribe and follow us on Instagram Sota_Kotapodcast