OH MY GOODNESS! 

Have you watched the series on Netflix yet? It is exciting and twisted! 

So many things wrong with it, but we realize; there are so many things to uncover and debunk from the infamous world of Joe Goldberg. 

Most of their actions in the series are questionable, but also many lessons to take away and build good lasting relationships. 

In this episode, Caroline and I talk about, "if only joe and love did this, things would be better." Also, how stalking should be done decently!  

We just celebrated Deepavali, and it was so good to meet grandma again.

"Thank you Jesus for murukus and mutton varuval!" 

As we're celebrating, we can't help but remember how some of our Indian friends still face discrimination. It also hurts that not too long ago, an incident happened over an inconsiderate Facebook post. 

In this episode, I got into a conversation with my brother and sister. We talked about what we can do to educate people around us and recognize that some things shouldn't be brushed off as a joke! 

" Hi Pastor, can I date this girl?" 

Oh my! it is a weird conversation when someone asks this question, and they might add, "I've prayed, and God told me she's the one!"

I love it when people involve God in their planning, but to have a mentality on dating like this: it's misguided! 

In this episode, Caroline and I talk about our pre-dating phase and the need for the right mindset when it comes to the big moment of seeking a relationship. 

We have explored the understanding of each other's blind spots, and the knowledge of it is to build, not weapons to prove your point or future fights. 

So we talked about the importance of celebrating one another. But how do we do it? 

In this episode, Caroline and I share what we intentionally recognize and celebrate. Tears were involved, but they're good ones! 

Have you got frustrated with your partner that it has driven you mad! 

Well, I do! 

Of course, I've driven my wife mad before, and I have to admit: I'm guilty! 

In this episode, Caroline and I candidly expose some of the frustrations we have towards one another and the lessons that come from it. 

We recognize for any relationship to work, we need to have crucial conversations to avoid unnecessary high emotion-filled fights that turn sour, and I end up sleeping on the couch. 

It's a whole new world with your upgrade from a boyfriend/girlfriend status to husband/wife! 

There seem to be a whole new bunch of expectations and directions from our in-laws, and if not communicated, it will lead to a lifetime of struggle, hence the famous title: Monster-In-Law! 

But it doesn't have to be that way! You can have a healthy and happy relationship with your in-laws as you explore this episode with Caroline and me to hear our stories, experiences, and mindset!  

"So... young man, what is your intention wanting to date my daughter?" 

Or, "Hi dear, why do you love my son?" 

These questions would be one of the scariest and but also most sacred ever. It comes with intimidating energy but also the protective nature and love of a parent. Yes, it is complex! 

But worry not, as we learn in this episode how to tackle and handle this part of the relationship. 

Caroline and I talk about our own experience and highlight some of the areas we have partnered up and overcome together! 

The future is so hard to understand at times. We can be faith-driven, but the fear of losing out can get unbearable, in fact causing you the possibility of hating yourself and your partner. 

It was all for love. You sacrificed your career, part of your dreams, and maybe even the ideal life! 

Then as years go by, you ask yourself, is this all worth the sacrifice? 

In this episode, we had a conversation with Esther, our pastor. She is an honors student in the field of engineering. She could have pursued her dreams and make bucket loads of money! How could she give that up to build the church with her husband? In this episode, we dive into her mind and discover why that decision and the things that truly matter. 

We’ve heard too many, “if only we were not far apart, things could work out.“ 

Or,

“I’m sorry, but the distance is killing me!”

How many relationships could turn out well, if and only if we were to understand the dynamics and secrets to LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS! 

In this episode, we had a conversation with Kevin Loo and Esther, our pastors. A couple We know that has gone through it, married with kids, and most importantly, a healthy relationship today. 

We have been taught from a young age to tolerate, and that tolerance is a foundation to peace and harmony. But what if it’s hard to tolerate? And now people are talking about acceptance? When do we learn to apply tolerance? How far should we be accepting? 

Rojak Culture is a social enterprise aimed at uniting Malaysians. Their vision is to spark a movement through play, leading to the birth of The Lepak Game. 

In this episode, Stephen and Trixie Hanlon talk about the importance of building a personal relationship instead of changing a policy first.