Ever feel like you've lost yourself in the chaos of caregiving, expectations, and midlife reinvention? In this soul-stirring episode, Victoria sits down with Michelle Wollaston—a spiritual mentor, coach, and woman who knows what it means to disappear into roles… and fight her way back to truth.

Michelle shares her deeply personal story of what it looked like to quietly unravel while trying to hold everything together, and how she rebuilt her life with clarity, confidence, and compassion. If you’ve ever felt like midlife was breaking you, Michelle’s here to remind you: you’re not broken—you’re remembering.

What You’ll Hear in This Episode:
✨ The hidden chaos of midlife identity loss
✨ How Michelle broke the cycle of self-abandonment
✨ The spiritual practices that helped her rebuild confidence
✨ Why discomfort is a sign you’re evolving, not failing
✨ A powerful reminder that it’s never too late to come home to yourself

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Bonus Episode: From Silence to Strength — Women, Grief, and Reclaiming Power

This special bonus episode features my conversation with Christy Collard, Grief Counsellor and founder of The Grief Ocean.

Christy created " target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">The Grief Ocean to explore the diverse landscapes of grief, interviewing a wide range of guests to navigate the turbulent waters of loss through their individual narratives. From men’s grief to the hidden realms of silence, Christy’s work creates a compassionate space where stories of pain and resilience can be held with depth and care.

In this dialogue, recorded for " target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">Grief Ocean Season 4, we explore how grief silences women — and how reclaiming voice and power can transform the way we move through loss. I share my own journey of grief, the years I disappeared inside silence, and the ways strength returned as I began to honour my voice.

✨ Originally aired on " target="_blank" rel="noopener noreferer">The Grief Ocean, this episode is shared here as a complementary conversation for Soul Loom listeners — a reminder that grief is not just an ending, but an initiation into remembering who we are.

Many people think astrology is about vague horoscopes or mystical predictions. But your natal chart is actually a practical map — an energetic architecture you were born with. In this episode of Soul Loom, Michelle Wollaston explores what your natal chart really shows: your Sun (core essence), Moon (emotional landscape), Rising sign (outer lens), personal planets, outer planets, nodes, and asteroids. We’ll trace how leaders, priestesses, and even financial markets have used astrology across history, and why your chart isn’t a cage — it’s a compass.

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What is a spiritual awakening — and why does it so often happen in midlife?

Spiritual awakening isn’t about lightning bolts or magical powers. It’s the process of becoming conscious of who you are beneath roles and conditioning. Michelle unpacks the signs of awakening, why it often begins in discomfort, and how midlife cycles stir the call to remember yourself.

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Is it Discomfort or a Sign? Understanding Your Inner Guidance System

In this soulful and insightful episode, I’m joined by Michelle Wollaston — writer, spiritual advocate, and host of The Soul Loom Podcast. Michelle brings a deep and compassionate approach to helping women who’ve spent years over-functioning in roles, relationships, or workplaces that left them feeling invisible. Through her unique blend of grounded coaching and soul-level wisdom, she guides women back to their intuition, voice, and vitality — without spiritual bypassing or burnout.

We dive into the concept of the Comfort Meter — Michelle’s way of helping people understand that discomfort is often your intuition trying to speak. Whether it shows up as a subtle whisper or a loud wake-up call, these feelings are often signs from your body, soul, or the universe that something isn’t aligned. We explore how fear, especially the fear of change, can cloud our clarity and how taking small empowered steps can help you move from anxiety into trust. Michelle shares practical tools for tuning in, including reflection prompts, boundary-setting, and learning to recognize patterns that keep repeating until we finally listen.

This conversation is all about learning to trust your inner signals — not just in the big, obvious moments, but in the small, quiet nudges too. Michelle reminds us that everything we need is already within us — and that imperfect action, intuitive awareness, and self-compassion are powerful tools for transformation.

The book Michelle mentioned:
"Women Who Run With the Wolves: Myths and Stories of the Wild Woman Archetype"

by Clarissa Pinkola Estes

"Anything that is meant to happen for you, will happen for you seamlessly. And if they don't happen perfectly and there are bumps in the road, what is the bump for? There is usually always a pattern to the bumps." - Michelle Wollaston

Sacred Rememberance Session with Michelle normally A$247 – enter code at checkout STEPHUP $47 discount 

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The dark night of the soul is not depression — it’s a passage. Michelle explains this centuries-old idea, why it often arrives in midlife, and how what feels like emptiness can actually be the stripping away that makes space for truth.

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St. John of the Cross Poems

Every awakening journey needs a foundation. In this episode, Michelle outlines four simple but powerful practices — grounding, cleansing, protection, and gratitude — that support you through the turbulence of midlife and the call to remember yourself.

Plus, I’ve created a free 7-day program with short daily meditations to help you integrate these practices step by step. By the end of the week, you’ll have your own set of spiritual anchors you can return to anytime.

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Gratitude isn’t just a feel-good exercise — it’s medicine for the nervous system, the heart, and the spirit. Michelle shares why gratitude is more than a practice, and how it helps us anchor presence and heal the invisible wounds of midlife.

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This episode is a little different. I was recently interviewed by David Trotter for the Awakened Podcast, part of my journey as an Executive Contributor for Awakened Magazine and an upcoming author in the second Awakened Hearts book, due out at the end of 2025.

We covered a lot in this conversation — what it really means to awaken (and how it often looks nothing like the love-and-light version we’re sold), the importance of living in spiritual integrity, and how to stay visible and rooted as a soul-led woman in a world that often misunderstands you.

If you've ever wrestled with your truth, felt unseen in your work, or questioned whether your voice really matters — this one’s for you.

Let it land where it needs to.

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So many women in midlife quietly whisper the same thing: “I feel like I’m disappearing.” In this episode, Michelle explores the loss of self that creeps in through roles, expectations, and overgiving — and how awakening begins with noticing the quiet unraveling.

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