Soul Points Podcast

As Halloween approaches and November 1st brings Día de los Muertos, many people feel the presence of those they have loved and lost a little more deeply. In this episode of Soul Points, we explore the signs that a loved one may be visiting from the other side—and how those signs can show up in ways that are subtle, emotional, and deeply personal. 🕯️🦋

From vivid dreams and familiar scents to meaningful songs, flickering lights, repeating numbers, unusual animal encounters, sudden shifts in atmosphere, and that unmistakable feeling that you are not alone, this episode looks at the many ways people experience connection beyond death. 🌙💫

We also talk about the importance of discernment, spiritual boundaries, remembrance, and honoring your loved ones without turning every coincidence into a message. Sometimes the sign is dramatic, and sometimes it is simply a moment of peace that arrives exactly when you need it most. 🤍

With Día de los Muertos opening a sacred season of remembrance, this is also a beautiful time to light a candle, place fresh water on the altar, speak their name, play their favorite music, prepare their favorite food, and make room for loving ancestral presence. 🌼🕯️

If you have ever wondered whether your mother, father, grandparent, child, partner, sibling, or dear friend is still near you in spirit, this episode may bring comfort, clarity, and a deeper sense of connection.

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👻 Ghost or spirit? Most people use those words like they mean the same thing. They don’t. 🕯️

More than half of American adults say a dead relative has visited them in a dream or some other way. So who is actually showing up? On this episode of Soul Points, Ronda breaks down the real difference between ghosts and spirits, with no sugar on it. 🔥

In this episode:

Honor your dead. Protect your door. 🚪✨

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Last time we talked about why October opens. The harvest. The turning of the year. The thinning of the veil. The reason every culture that ever lived close to the land turned toward the dead in this season. 🌘

Today is not that conversation. Today is the work. 🕯️

Because there is a difference between understanding something and doing it. There is a difference between knowing your ancestors are present and actually building a relationship with them that functions. There is a difference between feeling sentimental about your grandmother and feeding her. There is a difference between liking the idea of ancestor veneration and having an altar you actually return to. 🍂

Most people never make that leap. They feel something in October. They buy a candle. They think about their people. And then November comes and nothing has changed. 🌾

In this extended episode of Soul Points, we go all the way into the practical work — how to set up properly, how to feed the dead, how to call ancestors whose names you do not know, how to ask and how to listen, what to do with ancestors who were harmful, how to structure the month, how to do this with family, and how to close the season properly so you are not leaving a door open when the window shuts. 🕯️✨

In this episode, you'll discover: 🔍

🕯️ The difference between honoring and working — why admiration is passive and relationship requires structure, regularity, honesty, and reciprocity

🏠 Setting up properly — choosing a spot, cleansing it, placing photos and objects, the glass of water, the candle, the offering dish, protection, and covering the altar

🍚 The work of feeding — what to cook, how to offer it, why you leave it overnight, why you must return it to the earth, and how often to do it

💧 Libations and the simplest practice — how to pour water on the ground and speak the names, why this alone is enough, and why the stopping is the real practice

👥 Calling ancestors you do not know — why you do not need names to do this work, how to call by relationship and category, and what to do if you were adopted, displaced, or cut off

🗣️ How to ask and how to listen — what is in your lane to ask for, what is not, how to be specific, and how to recognize the answer through dreams, sudden knowing, repetition, physical sensation, and shifts in your life

⚠️ When the ancestors you have are difficult — what to do with ancestors who caused harm, how to set boundaries, how to cut a harmful tie, how to heal the pattern without forgiving the person, and how to work with the safe ones instead

📅 Structuring the month — a week-by-week guide through setting up, feeding, asking, and listening — plus what to do the rest of the year

🚪 Closing properly — the step almost nobody teaches, and why skipping it leaves people heavy, drained, and unsettled in November

🛡️ Protection, cleanup, and grounding — salt, water, smoke, sound, light, boundaries, and the importance of coming to this work clean, steady, and sober

👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Doing this with family — starting small, inviting without imposing, recording the elders while you still can, cooking together, and including the children

🧘‍♀️ A guided working for the season — a complete practice you can do tonight

Key Quotes from this episode: 💬

"Ancestor work is not the same as ancestor appreciation. Appreciation is a feeling. Work is a practice."

"Food is a language. When you cook for someone, you are saying something."

"You do not need names to do this work. Your blood is the identification. Your body is the proof."

"The closing is about containment, not abandonment."

"The work is not complicated. The work is showing up. And you can show up tonight."

"They have been waiting for you to turn around for a long time. And they are patient. But you do not have to make them wait any longer."

If you have been wanting to do ancestor work but did not know how to start, or if you have been doing it and never learned how to close — this episode is your complete guide. 🕯️🌾

You will learn the actual practices — not the aesthetic versions. Altars. Offerings. Libations. Naming. Asking. Listening. Boundaries. Protection. And the closing that keeps you clean.

And if you want a guide that meets this season where it actually lives — the altars, the offerings, the rootwork, the prayers whispered over candles for the ones who came before — you need my book, "Hoodoo Spells and Rituals: Unlocking the Mysteries of African American Folk Magic." 🕯️📖

This is not a book about aesthetics. It is a book about lineage. It is about the practices our people carried in their hands and their bones when everything else was taken from them. It is about how to feed your ancestors, how to work with roots and Psalms and water and fire, and how to build a practice that outlives you. October is Hoodoo Heritage Month. This is the book for it. Get your copy right now:

👉 https://www.amazon.com/Hoodoo-Spells-Rituals-Unlocking-Mysteries/dp/B0GTQ68W3B

Who is this episode for? 🎯

🙋‍♀️ Anyone who wants to start ancestor work but does not know where to begin

🙋‍♂️ Anyone who was adopted, displaced, or cut off from their lineage

🙋‍♀️ Anyone who has been doing ancestor work and never learned how to close the season

🙋‍♂️ Anyone dealing with difficult, harmful, or troubled ancestors

🙋‍♀️ Anyone who wants to build something their children will inherit

🙋‍♂️ Anyone who wants a real practice, not an aesthetic one

🙋‍♀️ Anyone who wants to do the work this October and not just think about it

Resources mentioned: 📚

📖 "Hoodoo Spells and Rituals: Unlocking the Mysteries of African American Folk Magic" by Ronda — available now on Amazon:

🔗 Follow Soul Points on social: @SoulPointsPodcast

🏷️ Share your October work: #SoulPointsStories

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Next episode: When the Ancestors Go Quiet — Learning the Difference Between Silence and Absence. Why the connection sometimes goes still, and why silence is not abandonment. Subscribe now so you get it the moment it drops. 🕯️🤫💫

"Go wash the glass. Go set the plate. Go light the candle. Go outside and pour the water on the ground and say the name. The work is not complicated. The work is showing up."

Honor your journey. Trust the process. Protect your soul points. 🕯️🙏💫

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There is a season in the year when something shifts. You can feel it before you can name it. The light changes. The air changes. The evenings come earlier. And the distance between here and there gets shorter. 🌘

October is not just a month on a calendar. It is a threshold. It is the final harvest, the descent into dark, and the moment when the living and the dead are closer than at any other time of year. Every culture that ever kept time by the land marked this season somehow. And almost every one of them marked it by turning toward the ancestors. 🕯️🍂

In Celtic tradition, this is Samhain. In the Christian calendar, it became All Hallows' Eve and All Souls. In Mexico, it is Día de los Muertos. In Haiti, it is Fet Gede. In Hindu tradition, Pitru Paksha falls in this window. In Yoruba and West African tradition, the ancestors are honored continuously — but the principle is the same everywhere. 🍁

Different names. Different countries. Same instinct. The harvest is in. The fields are bare. The light is leaving. And the dead are near. 🌾

In this powerful episode of Soul Points, we go deep into October and the thinning veil — what the harvest and the ancestors have to do with each other, what the veil thinning actually means, how different traditions mark this season, and how to use this window properly. 🕯️✨

In this episode, you'll discover: 🔍

🌾 Why October — the harvest and the descent — how the end of the growing season and the shortening of the light turn human beings naturally toward memory and lineage

🌘 What the "thin veil" actually means — not a curtain, not a doorway, but a shift in the collective atmosphere that makes perception easier for everyone

🍂 How different traditions mark this season — Samhain, All Hallows' Eve and Soul Cakes, Día de los Muertos, Fet Gede, Pitru Paksha, Egungun, and Indigenous observances across the Americas

👁️ Signs this season is opening for you — louder dreams, thinking of the dead, pulls toward old things, body changes, synchronicities, surfacing grief, and lineage homesickness

🕯️ Why the ancestors matter now — you are not self-made, you are a continuation, and the relationship only works if it is open

🙏 9 real practices for this season — building an altar, feeding the dead, pouring libations, lighting a candle, speaking out loud, telling their stories, cooking their food, visiting graves, and writing letters

⚠️ What NOT to do — no Ouija boards as party games, no opening doors you cannot close, no approaching with fear, no skipping protection, and no letting the dead run your life

💔 For those in fresh grief — you do not owe anyone a ritual, and there is no spiritual failure in not being able to do this yet

🧘‍♀️ A guided practice for the thinning veil — to stand at the fire, face your line, and ask what you need to know

Key Quotes from this episode: 💬

"October is not a month about fright. It is a month about truth."

"You count the grain and you count the graves. Same gesture."

"The veil is thin right now. Not because the world becomes dangerous. Because the world becomes honest."

"You are not a self-made person. You are a continuation."

"The harvest is not just what you grew. It is also who you came from. Count both."

"The dead are patient. They have been waiting much longer than a season."

If you have been feeling this season more heavily than usual, dreaming more vividly, or quietly wondering where you come from — this episode is your invitation to turn around. 🕯️🍂

You will learn why the veil thins, how the harvest and the ancestors were always connected, what practices actually work, and how to do this safely in a season that is real.

And if you want a guide that meets this season where it actually lives — the altars, the offerings, the rootwork, the prayers whispered over candles for the ones who came before — you need my book, "Hoodoo Spells and Rituals: Unlocking the Mysteries of African American Folk Magic." This is not a book about aesthetics. It is a book about lineage. It is about the practices our people carried in their hands and their bones when everything else was taken from them. It is about how to feed your ancestors, how to work with roots and Psalms and water and fire, and how to build a practice that outlives you. October is Hoodoo Heritage Month. This is the book for it. Get your copy right now:

👉 https://www.amazon.com/Hoodoo-Spells-Rituals-Unlocking-Mysteries/dp/B0GTQ68W3B

Who is this episode for? 🎯

🙋‍♀️ Anyone who feels the season shifting in their body

🙋‍♂️ Anyone who has been dreaming of people who have passed

🙋‍♀️ Anyone who lost someone this year and is facing their first October without them

🙋‍♂️ Anyone who was raised cut off from their lineage and wants to reconnect

🙋‍♀️ Anyone who wants to honor their ancestors but does not know how

🙋‍♂️ Anyone drawn to Samhain, Día de los Muertos, or ancestor work but wary of spiritual shortcuts

🙋‍♀️ Anyone who wants to use this window properly — and safely

Resources mentioned: 📚

📖 "Hoodoo Spells and Rituals: Unlocking the Mysteries of African American Folk Magic" by Ronda — available now on Amazon:

🔗 Follow Soul Points on social: @SoulPointsPodcast

🏷️ Share your October experiences: #SoulPointsStories

Subscribe to Soul Points: 🎧

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There was a time when you felt them. A warmth. A presence. A sign. A dream. A knowing. You spoke their names, and something answered. You lit a candle, and the room felt full. You asked for guidance, and the guidance came — sometimes gently, sometimes unmistakably.

And then... nothing. 🤫

The dreams stopped. The signs stopped. The warmth faded. You speak their names, and the room feels empty. You light the candle, and it feels like you are sitting alone. You ask for guidance, and all you hear is silence. 🕯️💔

And you start to wonder: Did they leave me? Did I do something wrong? Did I lose the connection? Am I being punished? Is this what abandonment feels like?

Here is what I need you to hear. Silence is not absence. 🤫✨

In this powerful episode of Soul Points, we go deep into the seasons when the ancestors go quiet. Why it happens. What it means. How to tell the difference between a loving silence and a spiritual disconnection. And what you are supposed to do in the waiting.

Because the quiet is not a door closing. The quiet is often a door opening in a different direction. 🕯️

In this episode, you'll discover: 🔍

🤫 Why the ancestors go quiet — the many reasons silence happens, and why most of them are not about you

✨ The difference between silence and absence — how to tell when the ancestors have stepped back versus when they have truly withdrawn

🕯️ Signs the connection is still there — the subtle ways they continue to be present, even when you cannot feel them

⚠️ Signs the connection has genuinely broken — what actually causes a rupture, and how to recognize it honestly

💔 The pain of spiritual silence — why this quiet hurts more than almost anything else, and why you are not weak for grieving it

🌿 The seasons of spiritual relationship — how connection moves in cycles, not straight lines

🔮 What to do in the waiting — how to keep showing up, keep the altar lit, and keep speaking even when nothing answers

🛡️ How to repair a broken connection — the honest work of restoration when something has truly gone wrong

🧘‍♀️ A guided meditation for the silence — to sit with the quiet without panic, and to trust what you cannot feel

Key Quotes from this episode: 💬

"Silence is not absence. The quiet is not a door closing. Sometimes the quiet is a door opening in a different direction."

"The ancestors did not stop loving you. They may have simply stepped back so you could stand on your own."

"Not every silence is a punishment. Some silence is a promotion."

"If you can still feel the absence, then something is still there. You cannot grieve what was never present."

"Keep the candle lit. Keep saying their names. The altar is not empty just because you cannot see who is standing at it."

If you have been feeling spiritually alone, wondering why the signs stopped, or grieving a connection that used to feel alive — this episode is for you. 🕯️🤫

You will learn why the ancestors go quiet, how to tell the difference between a loving silence and a real separation, and what to do when all you have is the waiting.

Who is this episode for? 🎯

🙋‍♀️ Anyone who used to feel their ancestors and now feels nothing

🙋‍♂️ Anyone who wonders if they did something to lose their connection

🙋‍♀️ Anyone grieving a spiritual silence

🙋‍♂️ Anyone who has asked for signs and received none

🙋‍♀️ Anyone who feels abandoned by the unseen

🙋‍♂️ Anyone who wants to understand the seasons of spiritual relationship

Resources mentioned: 📚

📖 "Still Here: Getting Through the World" by Ronda — available now on Amazon, link in description

🔗 Follow Soul Points on social: @SoulPointsPodcast

🏷️ Share your story: #SoulPointsStories

Subscribe to Soul Points: 🎧

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Hit that subscribe button and turn on notifications so you never miss an episode. 🔔

Next episode: Soul Ties and Energetic Cords – How to recognize when you are still energetically connected to someone, and how to finally cut the cord. Subscribe now so you get it the moment it drops. 🔗✂️🕯️

"If you can still feel the absence, then something is still there. You cannot grieve what was never present."

Honor your journey. Trust the process. Protect your soul points. 🕯️🙏💫

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Have you ever walked into a room and felt a presence that made your skin crawl? A heaviness that pressed down on your chest? A cold spot in the middle of summer? A whisper when no one was there? A shadow that moved when nothing else did? 🌙😰

Have you ever felt like someone was watching you — not with love, not with protection, but with longing? With need? With desperation? As if they were trying to get your attention? As if they were stuck? 👀😔

And have you ever wondered: What happens to souls that do not cross over? What happens to the spirits that get trapped between worlds? 🤔💫

We talk a lot about reincarnation. We talk about the cycle of birth, death, and rebirth. We talk about the soul's journey back to the spirit realm. But we do not talk enough about the souls that get stuck. The ones that cannot find their way home. The ones that linger in the space between — not fully in the physical world, not fully in the spirit realm. Trapped. Waiting. Lost. 🌑🕯️

In this powerful episode of Soul Points, we go deep into the soul that is trapped between worlds — what causes a soul to get stuck, how to recognize when a spirit is reaching out, how to help them cross over, and how to protect yourself and your home from energies that have overstayed their welcome. 👻✨

In this episode, you'll discover: 🔍

👻 What it means to be trapped between worlds — why some souls cannot complete their transition, and why they are not evil, not demonic, but simply lost

💔 Why souls get stuck — sudden or traumatic death, unfinished business, unresolved grief, strong attachment to the physical world, fear of judgment, and not realizing they have died

⚠️ 8 signs a trapped soul is present — cold spots and physical sensations, unexplained sounds, electrical disturbances, vivid dreams, sudden emotions that are not yours, changes in behavior, objects moving, and a heavy feeling in certain rooms

💫 How trapped souls affect the living — energy drain, emotional and psychological distress, physical health problems, and disruption to relationships

🕯️ 6 ways to help a trapped soul cross over — acknowledging the presence, asking what it needs, speaking words of release, praying or meditating for them, clearing the energy of the space, and protecting your home afterward

🚫 What NOT to do — why fear feeds trapped souls, why you should not invite them to stay, why fear-based approaches make things worse, and when to seek experienced help

✨ Signs the soul has crossed over — the heaviness lifts, the signs stop, you feel peace, and you may dream of them saying goodbye

🧘‍♀️ A guided meditation to help a trapped soul cross over — to assist a lost spirit in finding its way to the light

🛡️ How to protect yourself and your home — cleansing rituals, setting energetic boundaries, using protective symbols, grounding yourself, and trusting your intuition

Key Quotes from this episode: 💬

"The soul that is trapped between worlds is not evil. It is not demonic. It is simply lost. It is confused. It is afraid. And it needs help."

"When you help a trapped soul cross over, you are not just helping them. You are healing your home. You are healing your lineage. You are healing the space between worlds."

"Do not be afraid of the unseen. The unseen is not your enemy. The unseen is just waiting to be seen."

"Fear feeds trapped souls. Approach with compassion and confidence instead."

"The trapped soul is not your enemy. It is a soul that has lost its way. And you can be the one who shows it the way home."

If you have ever felt a presence in your home, experienced unexplained phenomena, or wondered about the souls that linger between worlds — this episode is your guide. 🕯️✨

You will learn how to recognize when a trapped soul is reaching out, how to help them find peace, and how to protect yourself and your space from energies that do not belong.

Who is this episode for? 🎯

🙋‍♀️ Anyone who has ever felt a presence in their home

🙋‍♂️ Anyone who has experienced unexplained phenomena

🙋‍♀️ Anyone who feels drained or heavy in certain spaces

🙋‍♂️ Anyone who has lost someone and wonders if they are at peace

🙋‍♀️ Anyone who wants to help trapped souls cross over

🙋‍♂️ Anyone who wants to protect their home and their energy

Resources mentioned: 📚

📖 "Still Here: Getting Through the World" by Ronda — available now on Amazon, link in description

🔗 Follow Soul Points on social: @SoulPointsPodcast

🏷️ Share your experiences: #SoulPointsStories

Subscribe to Soul Points: 🎧

Apple Podcasts | Spotify | Amazon Music | iHeart Radio | YouTube

Hit that subscribe button and turn on notifications so you never miss an episode. 🔔

Next episode: Soul Ties and Energetic Cords – How to recognize when you are still energetically connected to someone, and how to finally cut the cord. Subscribe now so you get it the moment it drops. 🔗✂️🕯️

"The soul that is trapped is not your enemy. It is a soul that has lost its way. And you can be the one who shows it the way home."

Honor your journey. Trust the process. Protect your soul points. 🕯️🙏💫

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Have you ever wanted someone so badly that it consumed you? 💔

You thought about them when you woke up. You thought about them when you went to sleep. You checked their social media. You replayed conversations in your head. You visualized them choosing you. You affirmed it. You declared it. You believed it was destiny.

And still — they did not choose you.

So you told yourself you just needed to believe harder. Let go more. Raise your vibration higher. Do one more ritual. Say one more affirmation. Try one more technique.

But here is the truth nobody in the manifestation world wants to tell you: You cannot manifest someone's soul. 🚫

Because a soul is not a possession. A soul is not a prize. A soul is not something you attract like a car or a job or a house. A soul has its own free will. Its own destiny. Its own path. Its own contracts. And no amount of visualization, affirmation, scripting, or candle work will override another soul's choice.

In this powerful episode of Soul Points, we go deep into the spiritual warning hidden in obsession — why you cannot manifest a specific person, why forcing connection creates karmic debt, and how to tell the difference between a soul connection and a soul trap. 🕯️🔮

In this episode, you'll discover: 🔍

🚫 Why you cannot manifest a specific person — and why trying to do so is not attraction, it is interference

💔 The difference between desiring and obsessing — when healthy wanting becomes a spiritual warning

⚠️ How obsession creates karmic debt — the energetic cost of trying to override someone else's free will

🧿 The signs you are trying to manifest a soul instead of a life — obsessive thoughts, controlling behavior, ignoring red flags, and mistaking longing for love

🔮 What true soul connections actually look like — they do not require force, manipulation, or manifestation tricks

🕯️ Why the universe blocks what is not yours — and why closed doors are protection, not punishment

✨ How to release the obsession — practical steps to break the energetic tie, restore your peace, and return to alignment

🌿 The lesson hidden in rejection — why the person you could not have may be the person who saved you

🛡️ How to protect yourself from soul ties — clearing obsession, breaking energetic attachment, and reclaiming your own soul

Key Quotes from this episode: 💬

"A soul is not a possession. A soul is not a prize. A soul is not something you attract. A soul has its own free will."

"When you try to manifest someone who has not chosen you, you are not attracting love. You are interfering with destiny."

"Obsession is not love. Obsession is fear wearing the mask of love."

"What is for you will never require you to override someone else's will. What is for you will meet you halfway."

"The closed door was not rejection. The closed door was protection."

If you have ever been consumed by someone who did not choose you, felt addicted to a connection that was not yours, or wondered if you were doing something spiritually wrong by wanting them — this episode is your wake-up call. 🕯️🚫

You will learn why the soul cannot be manipulated, why obsession creates spiritual warning signs, and how to release the person you were never meant to force.

Who is this episode for? 🎯

🙋‍♀️ Anyone who has been obsessed with someone who does not choose them

🙋‍♂️ Anyone who has tried to manifest a specific person

🙋‍♀️ Anyone who has been told to "let go" but cannot

🙋‍♂️ Anyone stuck in an on-and-off connection that will not settle

🙋‍♀️ Anyone who has confused longing with love

🙋‍♂️ Anyone ready to break a soul tie and reclaim their own peace

Resources mentioned: 📚

📖 "Still Here: Getting Through the World" by Ronda — available now on Amazon, link in description

🔗 Follow Soul Points on social: @SoulPointsPodcast

🏷️ Share your story: #SoulPointsStories

What if I told you that nothing in your life is an accident? Not your parents. Not your childhood wounds. Not the struggles that have followed you like a shadow. Not the people who broke your heart. 💔 Not the dreams that keep you awake at night.

What if you chose all of it? 🤔

Before you took your first breath, your soul sat in a sacred space — surrounded by guides, ancestors, and other souls — and you signed a contract. You agreed to be born to these specific parents. You agreed to face these specific challenges. You agreed to carry these specific gifts. You agreed to meet these specific souls. And then you came here. And you forgot. 🌌

In this powerful episode of Soul Points, host Ronda takes you deep into the mystery of soul contracts — the promises you made before you were born, why you chose your family and your struggles, and how to remember your purpose so you can stop feeling lost and start living with intention. 🕯️✨

In this episode, you'll discover: 🔍

📜 What a soul contract actually is — and why it is not a punishment but a curriculum designed by your soul to help you grow, evolve, and expand

😢 Why you chose pain — the soul's perspective on suffering and why the hardest parts of your life are often the most transformative, forging you into who you were meant to become

👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 The souls you signed contracts with — your parents, your soul mates, your karmic partners, your spiritual guides, your children, and even your enemies who agreed to play the antagonist in your story

⚠️ 8 signs you are living out of alignment — emptiness despite having everything, exhaustion from performing, repeating the same lessons, feeling like you are waiting for your real life to start, and losing the ability to feel joy

🔑 7 practical steps to remember your soul contract — looking at your life as data, asking the right questions, paying attention to what makes you come alive, noticing synchronicities, and meditating on your purpose

🧘‍♀️ A guided meditation to connect with your soul contract — to access the memory of why you came, what you agreed to learn, and what you came to give

❤️ Two powerful true stories — one of a woman who fulfilled her soul contract by breaking a generational cycle of abandonment, and one of a man who courageously broke his old contract to rewrite a new one that was truly his

💬 A listener question answered — "If my soul signed a contract for this life that included abuse, poverty, and illness, was my soul a fool? How do I reconcile soul contracts with the reality of my suffering?"

🌍 Ancient wisdom from spiritual traditions — the Yoruba concept of Ori, the Buddhist understanding of karma, the Jewish idea of the soul's pre-birth journey, and the Egyptian concept of remembering divine purpose

If you have ever questioned why your life is so hard, why you keep repeating the same patterns, or why you feel lost despite having everything — this episode is your key. 🗝️💫

Ronda shares her own journey with soul contracts and guides you through a gentle, powerful meditation to access the memory of your own pre-birth agreements. You will learn how to read the signs your soul is sending you, how to recognize when you are living someone else's contract, and how to finally step into the life you came here to live.

Quotes from this episode: 💬

What you will take away from this episode: 🎁

✨ A deeper understanding of why your life has unfolded the way it has

✨ Clarity on your purpose and what you came here to learn and give

✨ Tools to break free from repeating patterns that no longer serve you

✨ The ability to recognize the souls who signed contracts with you

✨ Permission to rewrite your contract if it no longer fits who you are becoming

✨ Peace in knowing that your suffering has not been wasted

✨ Courage to step into the life your soul chose for you

Who is this episode for? 🎯

🙋‍♀️ Anyone questioning why their life is so difficult and searching for meaning

🙋‍♂️ Anyone repeating the same patterns and wondering why they cannot break free

🙋‍♀️ Anyone feeling lost, disconnected, or disconnected from their purpose

🙋‍♂️ Anyone struggling to understand a painful childhood, difficult parents, or challenging family dynamics

🙋‍♀️ Anyone who has ever felt like they were meant for something more

🙋‍♂️ Anyone ready to wake up, remember why they came, and start living their soul's purpose

Resources mentioned: 📚

📖 "Still Here: Getting Through the World" by Ronda — available now on Amazon, link in description

🔗 Follow Soul Points on social: @SoulPointsPodcast

🏷️ Share your soul contract journey: #SoulPointsStories

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Next episode: The Ancestors Within – How to recognize when your ancestors are speaking to you, how to honor them, and how to heal the lineage so the next generation can finally breathe. Subscribe now so you get it the moment it drops. 👵👴🕯️✨

"Your soul knew what it was doing when it signed this contract. Now it is time to remember. You did not come by accident. You came with purpose. And you are ready to live it."

Honor your journey. Trust the process. Protect your soul points. 🕯️🙏💫

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In this episode, you'll discover: 🔍

🕯️ What past life regression actually is — and why your soul stores memories that your brain cannot access

👁️ 6 signs your soul is ready to remember — recurring dreams of another time, unexplainable phobias, birthmarks with no medical explanation, instant reactions to strangers, and feeling like you don't belong in this era

🧠 How to access past life memories on your own — dream journaling, self-guided regression meditation, automatic writing, and paying attention to your triggers

🌀 What to expect during a regression — the deep relaxed state, images, emotions, physical sensations, and why "seeing nothing" is also valid

🧘‍♀️ A full guided past life regression meditation — to help you walk through the door of a previous lifetime, meet yourself, and ask what wound or gift you are still carrying

❤️ A powerful true story — of a man who was terrified of intimacy for forty-five years, until a past life regression revealed a betrayal from three hundred years ago that he had been waiting to heal

💬 Listener question answered — "I tried a regression and saw nothing. Does that mean I am blocked or don't have past lives?"

If you have ever struggled with a fear that makes no sense, a connection you cannot explain, or a feeling that you have been here before — this episode is your key. 🗝️💫

Ronda shares her own journey with past life memories and guides you through a gentle, safe meditation to access your own soul's history — no experience necessary.

You'll learn: 📝

✨ Why your irrational phobias (water, heights, fire, enclosed spaces) may be residue of a past life death

✨ How to tell the difference between imagination and authentic past life memory

✨ Why your soul chooses what to show you and when — and why "nothing happened" is not failure

✨ The connection between past life regression and healing karmic patterns in this lifetime

✨ How to integrate what you remember so you can finally let go of what you have been carrying

Quotes from this episode: 💬

Who is this episode for? 🎯

🙋‍♀️ Anyone with an irrational fear or phobia that won't go away

🙋‍♂️ Anyone who feels drawn to a specific time period, culture, or place for no logical reason

🙋‍♀️ Anyone who has experienced instant, unexplainable recognition of a stranger

🙋‍♂️ Anyone who has tried traditional therapy for a pattern that won't break

🙋‍♀️ Anyone who is curious about reincarnation and wants to experience it, not just believe it

🙋‍♂️ Anyone who is ready to remember who they were so they can become who they are meant to be

Resources mentioned: 📚

📖 "Still Here: Getting Through the World" by Ronda — link in description

🔗 Follow Soul Points on social: @SoulPointsPodcast

🏷️ Share your past life memories: #SoulPointsStories

Subscribe to Soul Points: 🎧

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Next episode: Soul Contracts Revisited – Why you chose your parents, your challenges, and your purpose before you were born. How to remember the promises you made and fulfill your destiny in this lifetime. Subscribe now so you get it the moment it drops. 📜✨🕯️

"Your soul remembers everything. And now, you know how to listen."

Honor your journey. Trust the process. Protect your soul points. 🕯️🙏💫

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Have you ever prayed for something so long that you stopped believing it would come? 🙏💔

Have you ever worked for something so hard that your arms went numb? 💪😞

Have you ever wanted something so deeply that the wanting itself became a weight you carried to bed every single night? 🛌🌙

And still. Nothing.

The promotion didn't come. 📉 The baby didn't come. 👶💔 The apology didn't come. 🤐 The healing didn't come. 🩹 The love didn't come. 💔 The breakthrough didn't come.

And you start to wonder. Did I do something wrong? Am I being punished? Is God even listening? Does the universe have me on mute? 🤔😢

Or worse — you start to wonder if maybe you never deserved it in the first place.

I need you to hear me. Loud and clear. Right now. In this moment. 🎧

The universe is not late. You are not forgotten. The delay is not a denial. 🙌✨

It is divine timing. And in this episode of Soul Points, host Ronda takes you deep into the real, messy, gut-wrenching truth about why the thing you want hasn't shown up yet — and how to survive the waiting without losing yourself.

In this episode, you'll discover: 🔍

🔮 What divine timing actually IS (and what it's NOT — spoiler: it's not an excuse for passivity)

⏸️ 7 real reasons your blessing is delayed — including why you might not be ready, why some doors are meant to stay closed, and why someone else's free will might be involved

🍂 The 4 seasons of waiting — Winter (dormancy), Spring (tilling), Summer (labor), and Autumn (harvest) — and what each season requires from you

🛠️ 10 practical things to do while you wait — from feeling your feelings to serving someone else to praying differently

🌍 Ancient wisdom on timing — Yoruba (Isese) concepts of Akoko (sacred timing) and Ori (destiny), plus Ecclesiastes, Buddhism, and Hinduism

🧘‍♀️ A guided meditation for the waiting — to help you find peace in the not-yet

❤️ A powerful true story — of a woman who waited eight years for motherhood, only to receive something better than she ever imagined

💬 Listener question answered — "How do I know if this is divine timing or just me refusing to accept it's never going to happen?"

If you've ever felt stuck in the waiting, this episode is your anchor. 🪢💫

Ronda gets real about her own seasons of silence — the prayers that felt unanswered, the jealousy she felt watching others receive what she begged for, and the lessons she learned in the dark that she wouldn't trade for anything.

You'll learn: 📝

✨ Why the seed does not curse the dark soil (and why you shouldn't either)

✨ How to stop checking the clock and start living your life — right now, not "when the thing arrives"

✨ Why your plan B might be the key to unlocking your plan A

✨ The prayer that changed everything: "Give me what is for me, not what I want. And give me the grace to want what is for me."

✨ How to tell the difference between waiting and staying stuck

Quotes from this episode: 💬

Who is this episode for? 🎯

🙋‍♀️ Anyone waiting for a breakthrough that won't come

🙋‍♂️ Anyone tired of praying the same prayer

🙋‍♀️ Anyone watching others receive what they've been begging for

🙋‍♂️ Anyone wondering if they're being punished or forgotten

🙋‍♀️ Anyone who needs permission to rest while they wait

🙋‍♂️ Anyone ready to stop checking the clock and start trusting the process

Resources mentioned: 📚

📖 "Still Here: Getting Through the World" by Ronda — link in description

🔗 Follow Soul Points on social: @SoulPointsPodcast

🏷️ Share your waiting story: #SoulPointsStories

Subscribe to Soul Points: 🎧

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Hit that subscribe button and turn on notifications so you never miss an episode. 🔔

Next episode: Forgiveness. Not the pretty kind. The kind that feels impossible. The person who doesn't deserve it. The wound that won't close. How to forgive when everything in you wants revenge. And why forgiveness is actually for you, not for them. Subscribe now so you get it the moment it drops. 🕊️💔✨

"The thing you want is on its way. But the person you are becoming — right now, in this very moment — is the real gift."

Honor your journey. Trust the process. Protect your soul points. 🕯️🙏💫

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