Soul & Spirit Connection Podcast

Your patterns are the product of the stories you hold onto. To release the patterns, you must release the stories that you continually tell yourself and others. It's through the stories that we allow ourselves to continually suffer by dragging the past into our future.

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If you are not consciously choosing your life, then you will always live the default life. You only have this one life; why not create the life you want rather than settling for the life you're repeating?

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The way you love, react, avoid, and hold on didn't come from nowhere. Most of it was learned early, often as a way to stay safe. In this episode, we look at how childhood experiences and old relationships shape the patterns you repeat today, why understanding where they came from brings relief but not automatic change, and how to start choosing differently.

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Somewhere along the way, being needed became your whole identity and now you're not sure who you are when no one is asking anything of you. In this episode, we look at how usefulness turns into self-erasure, why it's so hard to stop even when you're exhausted, and what it looks like to start taking up space again.

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Feeling like you are stuck in your life comes down to one thing...lack of self-trust.

When you struggle to trust yourself you are constantly second guessing your decisions or fearing to make the wrong decision so instead you don't choose anything. Lacking self-trust looks like needing validation from others, allowing others' opinions to dictate your choices because you feel that you are always wrong.

I am here to tell you that you can not mess up your life! (read that again)

You can trust yourself to keep yourself safe, to make the best decision for yourself right now, and that you have the capacity to figure it out along the way.

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The thing that makes us human is our emotions. We have over 500 different emotions, and sometimes it can feel as though we are feeling them all at once. We feel that our emotions are heavy, so we do our best to suppress them and just try to get through life. When you are starting out to heal yourself emotionally, you want to start small and get as close to your core emotion as possible. Anger, for example, is not a core issue. Under anger, you will typically find sadness or frustration. This is why so many people struggle to release anger because they are focusing on being angry and not the sadness that may be the root cause.

In this episode, I share with you some tips on how to begin the steps to healing yourself emotionally. Suppressing emotions is never the answer.

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Your triggers are not meant to be avoided or protected. Your triggers are messengers that show you the parts of yourself that are attached to a story that you continually replay. The good news is that you can release the story and the attachment to live a life of freedom and inner peace.

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Resentment often builds when you keep saying yes while everything inside you is saying no. You give more than you want to, you stay quiet when you want to speak up, you accept things that don't feel right, and you continually put yourself last. It doesn't mean that you are a bitter person, but rather that some part of you knows you've been abandoning yourself to keep everything else intact. The solution is not to learn to tolerate more; it's learning to listen to yourself and trust yourself enough to act on what you hear. Resentment is typically a signal that it is time to come back home to yourself.

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Sometimes what looks like growth is actually a more sophisticated way of avoiding what you don't want to face. You may call it protecting your peace, letting go, or even surrendering, but if you keep using those things to avoid difficult conversations, uncomfortable emotions, or decisions you know you need to make, you can not move forward. Real growth isn't about avoiding the discomfort; it's about becoming aware enough to choose what actually serves you. Not everything that feels peaceful is progress.

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You learned to make certain choices because they kept you safe.

Stay quiet.

Keep the peace.

Don't need too much.

Don't trust too quickly.

Handle everything yourself.

Those decisions may have protected you once, but what protected you then is what is limiting you now. The next step isn't about learning to protect yourself better; it's recognizing when you no longer need protection and permitting yourself to choose differently.

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