Vanessa Bellafiore, Lorenzo Alvarez, James Nelson and I discuss their experiences on the dating app Hater. What's the best way to end a casual relationship. How to determine if you're dating someone casually (eg just sleeping together), or if it's more datey. What it's like to be the person who ghosts someone. Navigating the tumultuous waters of being friends with your exes. Transitioning the types of people you're attracted to, and how to know when someone is too vanilla or if it's just a slow roll. Relationships as ice cream flavors.

James and I discuss our post Valentine's Day feelings & Valentine's Day in general. The dating app Hater that matches you with people based on what you hate. James tells us about his experiences on Tinder and Bumble. James tells us about a sexual encounter that landed he and his partner in the ER. Posting photos of your SO on Instagram for Valentine’s Day, when is it too soon / what’s too personal to post. James and I discuss the types of men and women we avoid dating. How long to wait to call someone after getting their number

In a special father daughter edition of SOULFRIEND, my father, Patrick Woods and I discuss: whether my birth was planned. I test Patrick on his knowledge of my love life. We discuss slang that "the kids" are using these days - my father tells us what he thinks the following terms mean: Smashing, Phat, Netflix N Chill, Delfie, Friend Zone, Basic, On Point, On Fleek, Hot Mess, Busted, MILF, Cougar, Amazeballs, Duckface, Bae, YOLO, Resting bitch face, DM, Kicks, Bromance. Patrick weighs in on how to rebuild trust in a relationship once its broken. Patrick talks about getting asked out by women in high school. Staying optimistic when looking for love. Patrick talks about his first kisses & Johnny Mathis parties. First crushes.

Natalie Krim and I discuss: her beautiful, erotic drawings. The boundaries of modern friendships and getting jealous of your SO’s platonic friends. Discussing previous relationships with your current partner. Managing your family's expectations of your love life, when you have a different set of values and / or life priorities. What constitutes love. Keeping people in mind for future potential dating experiences, (in the event that you and your partner break up). Living in a small town and dating your friends exes. Ideas for a woman who has trouble cumming during sex with her bf. How to give a good hand job. We talk to a male caller who keeps getting ghosted by the women he’s seeing. Turn ons for girls (for a guy who is having a hard time dating). How Natalie handles receiving hateful, erotophobic comments on social media. Ideas for how to meet people in a new city.

A festive 'Home For The Holidays' episode, my original SOULFRIEND co-creator and co-host, Emma Barrera and I recap what it’s been like to do the show for the past two years (!!). We also discuss: how sometimes doing your best is good and sometimes it’s shitty. Letting go. Revenge. How life gets easier as you get older. How to get rid of recurring nightmares. Fear and love. Changing belief systems. The holidays. Family. Snuggling with your dog.

Paige Elkington and I discuss what it's like to model for Playboy (she's in the Dec. issue). Seeing people you dated in High School when you go home for the holidays. Gift ideas under $100. for your bf. Puling out. Jealousy in relationships. Deciding who to date when you're interested in multiple people. Best starter sex toys for women. Ideas for meeting people outside of your industry without using online dating. When is it too soon to get a pet with your bf/gf. Whether or not you have a right to be upset if your bf's celebrity crush doesn't look anything like you. What it's like to meet your celebrity crush. First kisses. How many hours/days of no response is considered ghosting. What to do if your husband jerks off to Instagram girls who you both follow and who you find to be the least cute. Getting your partner to be more open to discussing sex.

Cassie Cobb and I discuss gift ideas for someone you have been dating for 4 months. Dumping ppl before the holidays so you don't have to buy them gifts. Instant relationship turnoffs. Common green flags in relationships. Being grumpy in relationships. Managing stress so you don't take out your woes on your partner. What makes a good online dating profile. Increasing your sexual pleasure w/ your partner. How to pick out lingerie for your gf. Getting out of the friend zone without outing itself for having a crush (in case the person doesn't feel the same). Talking about sex with your close friends.

Joey Serxner and I discuss: morning hikes. Instant turnoff animals. Accepting cats on a cat to cat basis. Love languages, (FYI Joey's is French). What does Joey think is yummy for women's fashion. When is it appropriate to invite your significant other home for the holidays...what factors are involved? Sexy movie ideas for dates. Any hard and fast rules for moving in with the person you're dating. The fears associated with getting rid of your tv, bed etc. to merge your items with those of your SO. First & second date ideas. Aphrodisiac foods. Ethics code for discussing STD'S/STI'S with the person you're sleeping with/dating. Tips for giving good blow jobs.

Mells bells and I discuss her written work for a dating website in which she describes her grocery store flirting attempt. Bad online dates. Good music to set the mood. Thoughts about relationships (rebounds) after long term relationships: is it better to feel sad alone or engage in casual relationships? How to be more of an effective communicator in relationships, avoiding destructive blow ups. Tips for a discouraged online dater. Dating people who want to abruptly leave after sex. BDSM basics.

Voice memos of my dreams related to sexual behavior, expression and arousal, love & relationships. A Window into my unconscious mind.