When you find out a friend’s partner is hiding something big — do you tell them? In this episode, we get real about loyalty, trust, and the tricky line between protecting someone and minding your own business. We dig into gender double standards, personal values, and moral boundaries — and how much they shift depending on how close the friendship really is. Do you risk the friendship to share the truth? Or keep the peace and stay silent? Join us as we unpack why it’s never simple and how our own values and friendships shape these impossible choices.

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Saloni & Rahul strip down the tradition that tells brides to move into his parents’ house—and the bachelor-party pass that grooms get on the way there. Who actually benefits when women shift households and men celebrate “freedom”? Follow the money, power, and patriarchy in this punchy dive.🎧 Listen, subscribe, rate, and tell us your own takes below.INSTAGRAM: @soundsextreme | @unplannedby YOUTUBE: Saloni Chopra

Join us as we talk about hot takes on topical issues that might sound extreme - or is it just you...

Should women have to change their identities once they're married? Are her partners' parents, also her parents?

What do you think?

As a brown couple dealing with generations of family trauma and cultural expectations, we've talked about this multiple times off camera, and decided it was time to record it so we could share our opinions on this with you.

We know it sounds extreme, but someday we'll loop in our parents as well for this chat - until then, hopefully we are enough.