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Speaker: Dr. Carroll Marr

Scripture: Psalm 55

Series: Mental Health: Finding Hope and Healing

?In this concluding message of the "Mental Health" series, Dr. Carroll Marr explores the raw and honest struggles of King David in Psalm 55. We often make resolutions for our physical and spiritual health, yet our mental health is frequently the "forgotten resolution." Whether you are facing the pressure of a relentless enemy or the deep pain of betrayal by a close friend, David’s journey offers a roadmap from distress to hope.

Dr. Marr outlines six transformative steps to move from being overwhelmed to being on solid ground:

From Self-Confidence to Crying Out: Admitting that we cannot handle the pressure on our own strength.

From Generic to Specific: Moving past vague prayers to identify the exact roots of our anxiety.

From My Way to God’s Way: Releasing our desire to "fly away" or escape, and choosing to follow God’s lead instead.

From Intermittent to Consistent: Shifting from "emergency only" prayers to a morning, noon, and night focus on God’s truth.

From Talking to God About Yourself to Talking to Yourself About God: Replacing the lies of despair with the truth of who God is.

From Worry to Worship: Discovering how worship drowns out worry—not by removing the problem, but by stripping the problem of its power.

If you have been "gutting it out" until you are spent and undone, join us to learn how to cast your burden on the Lord and find the peace that sustains.

Title: How to Be Grounded (Part 1): Getting Your Footing in Troubled Times

Speaker: Dr. Carroll Marr Scripture:Psalm 55

We live in a "suck it up" culture that often views emotional struggle as a lack of grit or, worse, a lack of faith. But what do you do when the pressure becomes unbearable? In this episode, Dr. Carroll Marr opens a new series on mental health by looking at the raw, honest vulnerability of King David in Psalm 55.

Even as a triumphant king and a "man after God’s own heart," David found himself overwhelmed by the "terrors of death" and the sting of betrayal from his closest friends. Dr. Marr outlines the first three practical, daily shifts we must make to move from desperation to a place of hope and help:

From Self-Confidence to Crying Out: Recognizing that admitting our need for God is not a sign of spiritual weakness, but the beginning of true strength.

From Generic to Specific: Understanding the neurological and spiritual power of naming our anxieties rather than being overwhelmed by the "big picture."

From My Way to God’s Way: Letting go of the "flight" instinct—the desire to fly away like a dove—and instead casting our specific burdens on the Lord.

Whether you are walking through a season of deep despair or simply feeling the daily grind of an uncertain world, this message serves as a reminder that you are not alone. There is no shame in the struggle, and there is a God who invites you to trade your worry for His worship.

What if your greatest contribution to the Kingdom of God isn't what you do, but what you enable others to do?

In this special message, Dr. Carroll Marr steps away from our current series to celebrate the 25-year ministry of Dr. Stu Cocanougher and explore a profound, often overlooked moment in the life of the Apostle Paul. Drawing from Acts 9:23-25, we look at the unnamed disciples who lowered Paul down a city wall in a basket, saving his life and securing the future of the early Church.

In this episode, Dr. Marr answers three vital questions:

Who holds the ropes? Discover why God uses "non-union," flexible, and often anonymous servants to advance the Gospel.

When do they hold the ropes? Learn why true ministry often happens in the "dark of night"—when it is inconvenient, costly, and dangerous.

Why do they hold the ropes? Understand the eternal impact of being a "rope holder" through prayer, giving, and support.

Whether you are called to go to the ends of the earth or to support those who do, your role is essential. As we reflect on our mission to "worship, grow, share, and serve," be encouraged that every act of faithfulness is a vital link in the rope that brings the hope of Jesus Christ to a hurting world.

"But God..." We often think of the Apostle Paul as a spiritual giant who was immune to the pressures of daily life. However, in 2 Corinthians 7:4-7, Paul reveals a moment of profound vulnerability: he was "afflicted on every side," facing "conflicts without and fears within."

In this installment of our Mental Health series, Dr. Carroll Marr explores the heavy reality of stress and anxiety. He defines stress as the "gap" between the demands placed upon us and the strength we have to meet them. Whether you are wearing your stress as a badge of honor or hiding it in shame, the truth remains: if you don't manage your stress, your stress will manage you.

In this episode, you will discover:

The Reality of the Gap: Why our minds race at night and why our bodies react physically to the pressures of life.

The Resource of Comfort: Understanding that God doesn’t always remove the stressor, but He always fills the gap with His presence.

The "Titus" Principle: Why we need "Jesus with skin on" and how becoming a source of comfort for others can lead to our own healing.

If you are feeling overwhelmed, exhausted, or squeezed by the demands of life, join us to learn how to move from "fears within" to the comfort that only God provides.

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How you see yourself is a primary ingredient in your mental health—but where does that image come from?

In this episode, guest speaker Preston Gilham continues our series on Mental Health by exploring the three essential building blocks of human identity: Belonging, Recognition (Significance), and Worth. Drawing from the insights of Abraham Maslow and William Glasser, Preston bridges the gap between psychological needs and theological truths.

Using a powerful personal story of loss and a unique look at the "price tag" God placed on your life, this message moves beyond abstract theory into a lived reality. You will discover:

?Belonging: Why the promise of Hebrews 13:5 means you are never truly abandoned.

?Significance: How occupying the same "time and space" as the Creator proves you matter.

?Worth: The "Equivalent Value" principle—understanding that God viewed you as worth the life of His Son, Jesus Christ.

If you have ever felt invisible, devalued, or insecure, this sermon offers a practical path to renewing your mind. Learn how to practice the truth of who you are in Christ until it becomes the foundation of your peace.

Scripture References:

Hebrews 13:5-6 – God’s promise to never leave or forsake.

Acts 17:28 – Finding our existence and being in Him.

1 Corinthians 6:20 – The reality of being bought with a price.

Philippians 4:8-9 – The discipline of thinking on what is true.

Resource:

Visit www.prestongillham.com for more resources on identity and grace.

Series: Mental Health

Sermon title: Rest for the Stressed

Scripture: Exodus 20: 8-11

1.Purpose

2.Practice??Title: Rest for the Stressed | Dr. Carroll Marr | Southcliff Church

"Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest."

In a culture that equates rest with laziness and busyness with worth, many of us find ourselves physically exhausted and emotionally depleted. In this installment of our Mental Health series, Dr. Carroll Marr explores the divine necessity of the Sabbath in his message, "Rest for the Stressed."

Drawing from Exodus 20:8-11, we look at how God’s command to rest is not a suggestion, but a tender guideline for our wholeness. We dive into the original Hebrew meaning of Shabbat—to cease—and discover that rest is an act of allegiance to God. Through the lens of the Old and New Testaments, we learn that:

Rest is a Pattern: Following the rhythm of creation to remember that God is the provider, and we are not the ones in control.

Rest is a Declaration of Freedom: Understanding that "slaves don't rest," but because of Jesus Christ’s death and resurrection, we are freed from the power of sin and the performance-driven "Pharaohs" of modern life.

Rest is a Person: Finding ultimate soul-refreshment in Jesus, who is our true Sabbath.

Whether you are struggling with chronic anxiety, bitterness, or the simple exhaustion of a "faster, harder, more" lifestyle, this message offers a practical roadmap to replenishing your spirit and refreshing your soul.

Key Scripture: Exodus 20:8-11; Deuteronomy 5:12-15; Hebrews 4

In an age of "infinite scrolls" and constant news feeds, our minds have become a carnival of distractions that leave us exhausted, anxious, and spiritually drained. In this installment of our Mental Health series, Dr. Carroll Marr explores Luke 10:38-42—the familiar story of Mary and Martha—to reveal how even "good" things can distract us from the "best" thing.

Dr. Marr breaks down:

The Reality: How our digital habits (touching our phones 2,600 times a day) are draining our mental and spiritual batteries.

The Cost: Why distraction leads directly to worry, anxiety, and being "easily annoyed."

The Cure: Practical, biblical steps to re-engage with Christ, including setting "screen-free zones" and the power of single-tasking.

Are you worried and bothered by many things? Discover how to break free from the noise and find the "one thing" that is truly necessary: a seat at the feet of Jesus.

Summary: In a world that seems to feed on a "diet of outrage," how do we protect our mental and spiritual health? In this timely message, Dr. Marr continues our series on mental health by tackling one of the most destructive forces in our lives: unresolved anger.

Using Ephesians 4 as a roadmap, Dr. Marr explores the vital distinction between righteous anger—which motivates us to address injustice—and the self-serving anger that acts as a gateway for the enemy. If you've ever felt trapped by a "root of bitterness" or found yourself justifying a grudge, this episode offers a practical path toward restoration.

Key Highlights:

The Chain Reaction: Understanding how hurt turns into anger, then resentment, and finally soul-corroding bitterness.

The "Foothold" Warning: Why "going to bed angry" is less about a clock and more about not making a friend of your fury.

The Myth of Control: How our anger is often a response to the "Law of Me" and our desire to control others.

Practical Steps to Freedom: Learn how to limit, lose, and correct anger through the power of the Holy Spirit and the discipline of confession.

Scripture Reference:

Ephesians 4:25-32: "Be angry and yet do not sin; do not let the sun go down on your anger, and do not give the devil an opportunity."

Bottom Line: You may not be able to control the world around you, but through Christ, you can control how you respond to it. Join us as we learn to trade malice for kindness and bitterness for a tender heart.

Speaker: Dr. Carroll Marr

Series: Mental Health

Sermon title: Forgiveness is Required if Freedom is Desired

Scripture: Matthew 18:21-35

1.What is forgiveness?

2.Does God expect me to forgive?

3.Why should I forgive?

4. How do I forgive?

?Episode Description

Title: Forgiveness is Required if Freedom is Desired | Mental Health Series Speaker: Dr. Carroll Marr Scripture:Matthew 18:21-35

?How is your soul? ??We often make resolutions for our physical health or our finances, but we rarely resolve to heal our souls. In this installment of the "Mental Health" series, Dr. Carroll Marr explores the "forgotten resolution" that stands between you and true emotional freedom: Forgiveness.

?Using the powerful backdrop of Matthew 18 and the Parable of the Unforgiving Servant, Dr. Marr tackles four critical questions:?

What is forgiveness? (It’s more than just "wiping the slate.")

Does God expect me to forgive? (Understanding the "70 times 7" lifestyle.)

Why should I forgive? (The hidden "torturers" of stress and bitterness.)

How do I forgive? (The choice to let go of the "bell rope.")?

If you are carrying a debt that isn't yours to pay, or if a past hurt is still "in the room" with you, this message offers a practical and compassionate roadmap to letting go. Learn why forgiveness isn't about forgetting the pain—it's about releasing the offender so that you can finally process your own healing.

?"Forgiveness is absolutely required if freedom is desired. You will never know true freedom until you embrace the reality of forgiveness."

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Title: Depression: The Silent Enemy | Mental Health Series ?Speaker: Dr. Carroll Marr ?Scripture: Mark 2:17, Numbers 11, 1 Kings 19, Jonah

Overview: In a world where 80% of people will struggle with depression at some point, why is it still the "silent enemy" in our churches? In this powerful message, Dr. Carroll Marr breaks the silence surrounding mental health. He addresses the common misconception that depression is a sign of spiritual weakness or sin, reminding us that even the greatest heroes of the Bible—Moses, Elijah, and David—faced moments of deep despair.

In this episode, you will discover:

The Difference: Understanding the distinction between circumstantial depressive episodes and clinical depression.

The Root Causes: How physical exhaustion, emotional burnout, and the "fall" contribute to our mental state.

The Biblical Precedent: A look at godly men in Scripture who reached their breaking point and how God met them there.

The Path to Healing: Why seeking help through counseling, community, and medical professionals is a God-given provision, not a lack of faith.

If you are feeling paralyzed, exhausted, or alone in the darkness, this episode is a reminder that Jesus came for the hurting. It’s time to stop carrying the burden in silence and find rest for your soul.

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