Spacetrash

In this episode we cover just about EVERYTHING from the overturn of Roe to the role religion, government, and white privlege have played in setting up a society too rigid and too uninclusive to stand the test of time. As we are seeing all around us - in ways we are not yet equipped to handle without a LOT of anger and backlash - the old norms, rules, structures and restrictions simply cannot stand when so many of us are determined to evolve and expand what it means to be human and what it means to be free. Amidst all of this bleakness, we discuss the role of entertainment, comic relief, and how much of each is too much or just right in times when we are all truly under constant threat. 

In this episode we cover a LOT of ground because we have a LOT going on right now. We talk investing in new business ventures, investing in our relationships, new athletic interests, and opening up our minds and hearts to renewed versions of ourselves. Join us!

In which Allie and Mark discuss BenDeLaCreme's newest stage show, Ready to be Committed. Mark explains the phenomenon that is RuPaul's Drag Race and possibly taking Allie to her first drag brunch! As Allie continues to work on her memoir, the cousins discuss the resistance that can come from doing what you love the most. Also, is separating ourselves by generation detrimental to our society or is there value in the distinction? All these things and more in the first Space trash episode of Pride months 2022!

This episode may just be one of our very favorites ever. We get vulnerable about hard feelings around addiction, family, love, and taking care of our own needs before anyone's else's. We also chat about how Allie's book is coming along, we praise Mark for his exceptional performance as the officiant of cousin Owen and Heather's wedding, and take a deep dive into many intimate topics like celebrating quitting as success and why Allie NOT delivering her own toast to her brother at his wedding was absolutely the right call. Who knew that by starting off with topics like Hulu's "Candy" and Jennette McCurdy's "I'm Glad My Mom Died" we cousins could get so deep! 

In which the cousins Allie and Mark chat all about moving Mark into his brand new solo living space, aka The Lake House. It's got the chillest vibes that even this episode felt like hanging out on the couch in the roof top living room with all the windows open, springtime evening breeze sailing right on through. Also, cousin Owen's wedding is this week - Allie is Best Lady and Mark is Officiant. . . are we ready??? Never a dull moment in this family. :) 

In which Mark and Allie discuss the modern day dating scene as cousin Mark continues his earnest search for the man whose personality and charms compliment his in that perfect way. We talk all about what it means to bring out each other's strengths in a relationship, how Mark envisions a committed relationship, love languages, ways to meet someone, and so much more! Grab your favorite beverage and come hang out as we discuss all things love, dating, marriage, and the keys to a lasting relationship. 

SO MUCH in this super fun episode! Mark and Allie are pumped for springtime with so very much to look forward to on the horizon. New haircuts, new living spaces, new furry friends, and new relationship goals are all out there waiting. We do take a moment to reflect on some old school nostalgic stuff, too. Come hang out - it's been too long. :) 

In which cousins Mark and Allie give their review of the first zero proof bar to open in the Philly area: Volstead by Unity in Manyunk. What is it like to drink a mocktail as a sober person? Would you drink a non-alcoholic beer or wine if you didn't "have to"? Also, is cousin Mark about to move into his new home?! Come hang out and hear what we are up to. :) 

Mark gives up giving a f*ck for the Lenten season which inspires Allie to do the same! There really is an art to letting go of the things that simply do not matter, the things that are holding you back, and the things which are causing you anxiety for no good reason. Let's discuss! 

In this very special episode, Mark asks Allie a few lovely questions about her sobriety journey so far (at the time of recording she was 53 days) and as Allie shares her answers, they both discover it is a topic rich with interesting life lessons for all about how to talk about sensitive stuff with respect and care while still being able to laugh and be your whole self. Mark opens up about his coming out story and the two cousins discuss the ways in which being "in the closet" is isolating, and what it's like to reveal your true self in a world where you do not know what people's reactions may be or how you will deal with that. This episode is a moving one and we feel honored that you would join us and take a listen. :)