Frederic Gray is a national speaker, author, and the founder of the Fathers of Faith and Daughters of Excellence Retreat in Tampa, Florida. He’s a husband and a father of five (5) (2 boys, 3 girls, from ages 12 to 1) with one more on the way, and he’s passionate about teaching fathers how to win the hearts of their children. He’s also the author of “How to Win Your Children’s Heart Using God’s Word.”

To connect with Frederic Gray, you can visit his websites at either: http://www.FredericGray.com or http://wwww.FatherDaughterRetreat.com.

Here are the steps Frederic outlined for us:

When to spank: When they clearly understand the rules they broke and your expectations of them.

1. Make sure they understand that the most important thing to do is obey God.
2. Find a private place to spank them.
3. Speak super gentle to them and without anger.
4. Have them tell you what they were supposed to do, but didn't.
5. Ask them: "Did you obey Daddy?"
6. Ask them: "Did you obey God?"
7. Share a verse from the Bible on discipline (Ex. Prov. 13:24).
8. Ask them: "What is God telling me to do?" (child: to spank me)
9. Ask them: "If I don't spank you, am I obeying God?"
10. Tell them: "I want to obey God, because I love you and I love God."
11. Ask them (again):"Do you know why I'm going to give you a spanking?"
12. Pray with them BEFORE you spank them (while holding them close).
13. Use the rod/paddle (NOT your hand) when spanking your child.
14. Hit them only on the bottom (let it hurt, but don't damage them).
15. Lay with them afterwards to comfort them and affirm them.

---------------------------------   

If you want to help us transform the lives of even MORE MEN for God’s glory, please take a minute to leave us a helpful REVIEW and SHARE this podcast with any man you know who’s in need of help and hope and is hurting.”  And to make sure you don't miss a podcast episode, as well as contest give-a-ways, special announcements, and much more, make sure you "Stay Connected" by visiting us at https://station.page/realmen to join our online community of podcast listeners.

 

Talk with Dr. Joe 1-on-1:

Are you tired and stuck? Want to go to get your faith, marriage, family, career and finances back on track?  Then maybe it’s time you got a coach. Every CHAMPION has one. Schedule an appointment to chat with Dr. Joe on how we can help you spiritually love and lead your family better and become the hero of your home.

 

Dr. Joe takes on only a few Breakthrough Calls each week to help you with your faith, marriage, work, and financial challenges.  The call is FREE, but slots are limited to ONE call only.  NO RESCHEDULES.  Just click on the link below and select the BREAKTHROUGH CALL option to set up an appointment: http://TalkwithDrJoe.com  If no slots are available, please check back in a week.

 

Also join us on:

Online Podcast Community (on Station):  https://station.page/realmen

Facebook: @realdrjoemartin

YouTube: http://www.RealMenTraining.com

Instagram: @realdrjoemartin

Twitter: @professormartin

Website: https://RealMenConnect.com