Spark Something New

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What if purpose isn't something you find—but something you practice every day? In this conversation, Dr. Katie welcomes back ikigai expert Nick Kemp to discuss his new book, A Year of Ikigai, and explores how the Japanese philosophy of ikigai invites us to stop living for the weekend and start savoring the small moments that make life worth living.

Summary: 

Many people believe that purpose is a destination—a calling to discover or a milestone to achieve. But according to Nick Kemp, that's one of the biggest misconceptions about ikigai.

In this episode, Katie and Nick unpack the Japanese philosophy of ikigai as a way of living rather than a destination. Rather than chasing happiness through promotions, vacations, or retirement, they explore how meaning is cultivated through everyday experiences, relationships, growth, and intentional action.

Nick explains that ikigai exists in the ordinary moments we often overlook: sharing coffee with a friend, walking a loved one to the train station, learning something new, or overcoming a meaningful challenge. He introduces a simple framework of awareness, agency, and action, encouraging listeners to notice what matters, choose how they want to live, and actively engage with life.

The conversation also examines the unintended consequences of modern technology and constant distraction, arguing that fulfillment comes not from passive consumption but from embodied experiences and genuine human connection. Drawing from his new book, A Year of Ikigai, Nick shares why small daily reflections and micro-practices can profoundly reshape how we experience our lives.

Ultimately, the episode offers a hopeful reminder: purpose is not something waiting for you in the future. It is something you choose and cultivate today.

Key Learnings:

• Ikigai is a way of living, not a destination. Rather than searching for one grand purpose, we can cultivate meaning through everyday experiences and intentional choices. 
• The small moments matter. We often chase major milestones while overlooking the ordinary moments that make life rich, joyful, and deeply meaningful. 
• Meaning requires awareness, agency, and action. We must first recognize what matters, believe we can shape our lives, and then actively choose behaviors that align with those values. 
• Purpose is something you choose. Instead of waiting to "find" your purpose, commit to a role, a cause, or a way of contributing that reflects who you want to become. 
• Ask yourself one powerful question: "How do I want to use my life today?"
  The answer shapes not only your purpose but how you show up in your relationships, work, and everyday moments.

Resources:

• Nick's Website: Ikigai Tribe — https://ikigaitribe.com/
• Connect with Nick on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/nickkempikigai/
• Nick's New Book: A Year of Ikigai: Finding Everyday Purpose through Japanese Wisdom — https://ikigaitribe.com/a-year-of-ikigai-book/

Guest Info:

Nick Kemp is the founder of Ikigai Tribe and a leading voice in bringing the Japanese philosophy of ikigai to a global audience. Having lived in Japan for many years, he has dedicated his work to helping individuals and organizations understand ikigai not as something to discover, but as a daily practice of living with meaning, joy, and intention. Through his coaching, speaking, workshops, podcast, and his book A Year of Ikigai: Finding Everyday Purpose through Japanese Wisdom, Nick invites people to reconnect with the small moments and relationships that make life worth living.

Connect with Katie on LinkedIn, Facebook, and Instagram. You can also get free resources to help you on your purpose journey at www.katiesandoe.com.

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What if the moments that change your life aren't random at all?

In this episode, speaker, entrepreneur, and author Joel Steele introduces his concept of Life Switches—those sparks of clarity, urgency, and conviction that move us from drifting through life to actively creating it. While many people wait for a watershed moment or external event to force change in their lives, Joel believes we can become more intentional about recognizing and activating the moments that ignite our passion, purpose, and potential.

Dr. Katie and Joel explore why so many people live with their "switch" turned off, what keeps us stuck in ordinary patterns, and how small, intentional actions can reignite the pilot light when life's challenges leave us feeling disconnected from ourselves.

Summary:

Many of us spend years following expectations, checking boxes, and doing what we think we're supposed to do—only to discover that success doesn't automatically create fulfillment. Joel Steele argues that the difference between merely existing and truly living lies in our ability to recognize and respond to what he calls Life Switch Moments: experiences, realizations, and sparks of insight that challenge us to move in a new direction. These moments can arise from triumph or tragedy, but their purpose is the same: to activate us.

Throughout the conversation, Joel shares how life switch moments helped him move from feeling disconnected and directionless to building a life fueled by passion, purpose, and possibility. He emphasizes that while these moments often arrive unexpectedly, we can cultivate the conditions for them by creating space for reflection, asking better questions, and becoming deeply honest with ourselves about what we truly want.

Katie and Joel also explore the barriers that keep people from acting on these moments. Fear, self-doubt, instant gratification, and the desire to fit in often prevent us from pursuing the extraordinary life we desire. Yet Joel argues that confidence isn't something we're born with—it's something we build through a series of small promises kept to ourselves. By taking intentional action, creating momentum, and learning to trust our own inner wisdom, we begin to see new possibilities emerge.

The conversation culminates in Joel's belief that each person possesses untapped potential waiting to be activated. The challenge isn't finding the answers outside ourselves—it's learning to look within, flip the switch, and begin living with greater intention, energy, and purpose. 

Key Learnings:

• Life switch moments are sparks of clarity and energy that push us toward action. They help transform ideas into reality and often signal that something in our lives needs attention, change, or expansion. 
• Many people spend their lives reacting to expectations rather than intentionally choosing their path. Living "on" requires awareness, purpose, and a willingness to actively shape your life rather than simply go through the motions. 
• Life switches become easier to recognize when we create uninterrupted space to think. Honest self-reflection helps us identify where we are, where we want to go, and what might be standing in the way. 
• Belief in yourself isn't created by waiting until you're fearless. It grows when you consistently do what you say you're going to do, creating evidence that you can trust yourself and follow through. 
• Living an extraordinary life isn't about status, money, or recognition. It's about defining success for yourself and building a life that feels deeply aligned with who you are and what matters most.

Resources:

• Connect with Joel on LinkedIn
• Visit Joel's Website
• Read Joel's Book: Life Switch

Guest Info:

Joel Steele is a speaker, entrepreneur, author, and leadership mentor who helps individuals unlock their potential through his Life Switch framework. Drawing from his own experiences with failure, reinvention, and success, Joel teaches people how to move from drifting through life to living with intention, passion, and purpose. Through speaking, coaching, and his writing, he empowers others to recognize the moments that can change their lives—and take action when they arrive. 

Connect with Katie on LinkedIn, Facebook, and Instagram. You can also get free resources to help you on your purpose journey at www.katiesandoe.com.

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We’ve never been more connected… and yet so many people feel painfully alone. Why? In this episode, Dr. Katie and Rachel Rozen unpack the modern crisis of belonging — from surface-level networking and curated identities to the exhaustion of adult friendships and the fear of rejection that keeps us from truly being seen. Together, they explore what it actually takes to find “your people,” build sticky relationships, and create meaningful connection in a world that often rewards performance over authenticity.

Summary: 

We live in a paradoxical time: more opportunities to connect than ever before, yet many people feel profoundly lonely. Surrounded by people, yet not fully seen. In this conversation, Rachel Rozen shares how social media, performance culture, and the fear of rejection often prevent adults from building authentic relationships rooted in vulnerability and belonging. 

Together, Katie and Rachel explore the difference between surface-level connection and true belonging — the kind where people feel seen, heard, valued, and emotionally safe. 

The conversation dives into the realities of adult friendship: friendships changing across seasons of life, the myth of the lifelong “ride or die” friend, and why making friends as adults can feel surprisingly vulnerable. 

Most importantly, this episode is a reminder that belonging is not something we accidentally stumble into. It’s something we intentionally cultivate through curiosity, vulnerability, presence, and care... one conversation at a time. 

Key Learnings:

• Connection (surface friendships) and belonging are not the same thing — belonging requires feeling seen, heard, valued, and emotionally safe. 
• Adult friendships often require intentionality and vulnerability, along with invitations and consistent follow-through. 
• Many people struggle to build authentic relationships because they are performing rather than showing up as their true selves. 
• Workplace belonging is possible when leaders foster psychological safety, curiosity, and genuine human connection beyond productivity. 
• One of the simplest ways to deepen connection is to reach out and tell someone you’re thinking about them.

Resources:

• Rachel on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rachel-rozen/
• Rachel's Website: https://www.connectioncatalyst.me/
• Free Networking Webinar: https://www.connectioncatalyst.me/freewebinar
• NYC Executive Dinners: https://www.connectioncatalyst.me/dinners 

Guest Info:

From Chief Customer Officer to Connection Coach, Rachel Rozen transforms professional networking from "icky" to "sticky." She's on a mission to help professionals build authentic connections, drawing from her journey of connecting with 300 people in a year. Her coaching strategies empower professionals to turn networking challenges into lasting relationships. When not coaching, she's cheering for the NY Mets and Syracuse Orange, reading, and experimenting in the kitchen.

Connect with Katie on LinkedIn, Facebook, and Instagram. You can also get free resources to help you on your purpose journey at www.katiesandoe.com.

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What happens after we become aware that modern systems are intentionally designed to keep us scrolling, consuming, reacting, and constantly engaged?

Following last week’s conversation (E81 with Dr. Mitika Kanabar) about why these systems are so psychologically sticky, this episode with Elizabeth Ross explores the lived human impact of living in an “always-on” world — and how we begin reclaiming our peace, presence, and humanity within it.

Summary:

In a culture optimized for speed, stimulation, and nonstop engagement, many people feel exhausted, fragmented, overwhelmed, and disconnected from themselves. Yet we often blame ourselves for it — believing we simply lack discipline, balance, or better habits.

Elizabeth Ross invites us to see things differently.

Building on the previous episode — which explored the neuroscience and addictive nature of modern attention systems — this conversation focuses on what those systems are actually doing to our daily lives, relationships, nervous systems, and sense of self.

Elizabeth reframes distraction and burnout not as personal failures, but as predictable outcomes of technological and cultural systems designed to keep us constantly engaged. Together, we explore how hustle culture, productivity obsession, constant notifications, and the pressure to always be available slowly pull us away from presence, creativity, rest, and genuine human connection.

But this episode is not anti-technology or fear-based. Instead, it is a hopeful and deeply practical conversation about how we begin coming back to ourselves.

Elizabeth shares powerful insights around nervous system regulation, sensory awareness, intentional pauses, and her “To Me / By Me / Through Me” framework for navigating stress and emotional energy. We also explore the shift from FOMO (fear of missing out) to JOMO (joy of missing out), the growing desire for analogue experiences, and why reconnecting with nature may be one of the simplest ways to reconnect with ourselves.

Ultimately, this conversation reminds us that reclaiming our attention is not just about reducing screen time — it’s about reclaiming our ability to fully experience our lives.

Key Learnings:

• Burnout and distraction are often systemic issues, not personal failures 
• Our brains require stillness, boredom, and space to process and create 
• Presence is a practice that begins with intentional pauses throughout the day 
• Sensory awareness helps reconnect us to ourselves and the present moment 
• The “To Me / By Me / Through Me” framework offers a healthier way to navigate stress and emotional energy 
• FOMO can shift into JOMO when we intentionally reconnect to what truly matters 
• Nature remains one of the most powerful tools for nervous system regulation and human connection 

Resources:

• Connect with Elizabeth on LinkedIn
• Elizabeth's Website: www.mindfulemployer-us.com

Guest Info:

Elizabeth Ross is a speaker and master facilitator focused on systems awareness and business evolution in alignment with nature. Her work sits at the intersection of sensory intelligence, energy awareness, and conscious leadership — helping individuals and organizations move out of distraction and burnout and into more regenerative ways of being and working.

With over two decades of mindfulness and leadership experience — and her own stress-induced health collapse as a turning point — Elizabeth speaks from lived experience, not just theory. She creates powerful experiences that reconnect people to their bodies, their senses, and the clarity that emerges when we pause.

She’s also a co-founder of DisruptHR Portland, Conscious Capitalism Portland, and Mindful Employer.

Connect with Katie on LinkedIn, Facebook, and Instagram. You can also get free resources to help you on your purpose journey at www.katiesandoe.com.

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What if the issue isn’t that we lack discipline but that we’re living in a world intentionally designed to keep us hooked? In this episode, Dr. Katie Sandoe chats with Stanford-trained addiction medicine physician Dr. Mitika Kanabar to explore the growing reality of behavioral (or non-substance) addiction, which includes everything from social media, to binge-watching TV shows, to gaming, to shopping, to AI, and online gambling. Together, they unpack why awareness alone often isn’t enough to change behavior, how dopamine-driven systems shape our habits, and what it looks like to reclaim our personal agency in a world built around constant stimulation.

Summary:

Many of us know we’re spending too much time on screens, scrolling social media, checking work email, binge-watching shows, or chasing the next notification. But knowing something isn’t healthy and actually changing it are two very different things. In this conversation, Katie and Mitika explore why behavioral addictions are so difficult to break and why the answer is far more nuanced than simply “having more willpower.” 

Drawing from both modern neuroscience and Eastern wisdom traditions, Mitika shares compassionate and practical ways people can begin rebuilding healthier relationships with technology, stimulation, and themselves. Rather than approaching change through shame or rigid perfectionism, she encourages listeners to begin with awareness, acceptance, intentional boundaries, and reconnecting the mind and body through presence-based practices.

Key Learnings:

• Behavioral addictions activate many of the same brain reward systems as substance addictions. 
• Social media, gaming, and online gambling are intentionally designed around “variable reward” psychology. 
• Overuse is often connected to stress, loneliness, boredom, emotional overwhelm, and disconnection. 
• Addiction is marked by patterns like craving, compulsive behavior, loss of control, and continued use despite consequences. 
• Awareness without shame is essential for meaningful change. 
• Small boundaries—like delaying social media use in the morning or practicing “digital fasting”—can create significant shifts in wellbeing. 
• Eastern practices like mindfulness, breathwork, and yoga are about far more than relaxation; they help reconnect the mind and body. 
• Online gambling among teens is increasing rapidly and often goes unnoticed by parents. 
• Healing begins with compassionate awareness and intentional choices, not perfection. 

Resources:

• Connect with Mitika on LinkedIn
• Visit Mitika's website: https://mitikakanabar.com/

Guest Info:

Dr. Mitika Kanabar is a Stanford-trained addiction medicine physician, speaker, and educator whose work focuses on helping people better understand behavioral health, technology overuse, and the deeper patterns that shape how we cope, connect, and live. Drawing from both modern psychology and Eastern wisdom traditions, she specializes in helping individuals navigate behavioral and non-substance addictions—including social media, gaming, online gambling, and digital overuse—with greater awareness, compassion, and agency.

Connect with Katie on LinkedIn, Facebook, and Instagram. You can also get free resources to help you on your purpose journey at www.katiesandoe.com.

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What if the exhaustion so many of us feel isn’t because we’re broken—but because we’ve been trying to live in perpetual summer? In this episode, Dr. Katie sits down with Dr. Stephanie Grunewald to explore what nature can teach us about being human. Together, they unpack the wisdom of living in seasons instead of constant productivity mode and why humans were never designed to endlessly push, perform, and produce without rest and renewal. 

Summary:

Katie and Stephanie explore the growing reality of chronic exhaustion, overstimulation, and burnout in modern life. Stephanie shares how constant accessibility, technology, and productivity culture keep people trapped in ongoing stress cycles without meaningful recovery. Rather than asking “What’s wrong with me?”, they invite listeners to consider a different question: What if the way we are living is no longer working?

Using nature as a guide, they discuss how humans—like nature—need cycles of growth, execution, release, reflection, and restoration. Yet modern culture rewards only constant execution. The conversation explores how fear, identity, obligation, and societal expectations keep people stuck in endless “summer,” unable to honor the quieter but necessary seasons of rest and recalibration. 

Stephanie also shares practical ways listeners can begin interrupting chronic stress patterns through small moments of presence, intentional downshifting, and micro shifts in daily life. Ultimately, this episode is an invitation to stop resisting the winters of life—and instead recognize the wisdom, restoration, and transformation they can offer.

Key Learnings:

• Humans need cycles of growth, execution, reflection, and recovery. 
• Chronic stress is often fueled by nonstop stimulation and disconnection. 
• Purpose helps people navigate difficult seasons with greater resilience. 
• Small moments of presence can interrupt accumulated stress. 
• Intentional “downshifting” is about alignment, not abandoning ambition. 
• Instead of asking “What’s wrong with me?”, ask: “What is no longer working?”

Resources:

• Stephanie's LinkedIn
• Stephanie's Website: stephaniegrunewald.com

Guest Info:

Stephanie Grunewald is a psychologist turned transformational coach known as the “Marie Kondo for your life.” She helps high-achieving women release what no longer fits, reconnect to purpose, and create more aligned and sustainable lives through coaching, retreats, and psychology-informed workshops.

Connect with Katie on LinkedIn, Facebook, and Instagram. You can also get free resources to help you on your purpose journey at www.katiesandoe.com.

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What if the success you’ve been chasing was never really about success at all, but protection? In this deeply honest conversation, Jonathan White shares how the survival strategies that once helped him navigate a chaotic childhood eventually led him toward burnout, disconnection, and a marriage in crisis. This episode explores the hidden emotional drivers beneath high achievement and what it means to stop running long enough to truly examine your life. 

Summary:

In this episode, Dr. Katie sits down with founder, attorney, and speaker Jonathan White for a powerful conversation about high achievement, hustle culture, masculinity, vulnerability, and the courage it takes to live authentically. Jonathan opens up about growing up in a home shaped by addiction and how early survival strategies — achievement, constant movement, control, and performance — became the foundation of his identity and success. But beneath the accomplishments was a deeper truth: he wasn’t chasing success, he was chasing safety. 

After a personal breaking point in 2014 nearly cost him his marriage and family, Jonathan began a profound journey of self-reflection through therapy and a men’s group that challenged everything he believed about strength and vulnerability. From that experience, he developed four guiding principles that transformed his life: show up, tell the truth, let go of the outcome, and be vulnerable. Together, Katie and Jonathan unpack the difference between survival-driven striving and authentic ambition — revealing how it’s possible to pursue growth, leadership, and success without abandoning yourself in the process. 

Key Learnings:

• Drive itself is not the problem, it's what is driving the drive?
• Many high achievers unknowingly pursue success as a form of emotional protection or safe validation. 
• External recognition can never heal internal disconnection or unresolved pain. 
• Constant striving can become a way to avoid vulnerability, stillness, and self-examination. 
• Authentic ambition allows you to pursue growth and excellence without abandoning yourself in the process. 
• Vulnerability is not weakness; it is a courageous act of emotional honesty and connection. 
• Real transformation begins when we stop running long enough to ask ourselves why we’re running at all.

Resources:

• Jonathan’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jonathan-white-77b61310/
• Jonathan’s website: https://www.jonathanwhitespeaks.com/

Guest Bio:

Jonathan White is a founder, attorney, and keynote speaker who helps leaders and high performers understand how early survival strategies — like achievement, control, and staying constantly busy — can fuel success at first, but quietly limit growth and fulfillment over time. After a personal and relational breaking point forced him to reevaluate the patterns driving his life, Jonathan began redefining success through courage, vulnerability, and intentional living. Today, he helps ambitious professionals pursue meaningful success without self-abandonment by teaching the principles of presence, honesty, emotional courage, and authentic leadership. 

Connect with Katie on LinkedIn, Facebook, and Instagram. You can also get free resources to help you on your purpose journey at www.katiesandoe.com.

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What if competition isn’t the problem—but how we’ve been taught to compete is? In this episode, Dr. Katie sits down with Jake Thompson to challenge the “me vs. you” mindset and explore how competing with yourself can unlock growth, confidence, and fulfillment. 

Summary:

Competition often gets a bad reputation—triggering comparison, self-doubt, and the constant pressure to measure up. But what if competition was never meant to be about beating others in the first place?

In this conversation, Jake Thompson, founder of Compete Every Day, reframes competition as an internal pursuit—one rooted in growth, intentionality, and becoming better than you were yesterday. Together, Katie and Jake unpack how comparison can either hold us back or fuel our growth, depending on how we use it. They explore why so many of us tie our worth to outcomes we can’t control, and how shifting our focus to daily inputs can change everything.

From redefining success to building your own “personal scoreboard,” this episode is a powerful reminder that the goal isn’t to win against others—it’s to show up, do the work, and compete for the life you actually want. 

Key Learnings:

• Competition isn’t about beating others—it’s about striving toward growth and improvement.
• Comparison can be harmful or helpful depending on how you frame/use it.
• Most people focus too much on outcomes, instead of the daily inputs that create them.
• Clarity is everything—when you know the game you’re playing, you stop chasing someone else’s. 
• Growth comes from consistency and intentionality, not quick wins or “secret formulas”.

Resources:

• Jake Thompson’s website: https://www.jakeathompson.com/
• Compete Every Day Podcast (Spotify): https://open.spotify.com/show/0o4cJkMH3OBBb5NmJ6Ij7J

Guest Info:

Jake Thompson is a speaker, coach, and founder of Compete Every Day, where he helps individuals and teams redefine competition by focusing on continuous personal growth. His work challenges the traditional “me vs. you” mindset, empowering people to compete with themselves, build stronger habits, and pursue meaningful, lasting success. 

Connect with Katie on LinkedIn, Facebook, and Instagram. You can also get free resources to help you on your purpose journey at www.katiesandoe.com.

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You won’t always be welcomed into the room—but you can still lead it. Natasha Ryan shares the hard-earned lessons of standing tall among giants: claiming your space, leading with courage, and becoming the person others need to see. This is mentorship, leadership, and service—without the filter. 

Summary:

After 26 years as a Blackhawk MEDEVAC pilot in the United States Army, Natasha Ryan knows what it means to lead when the stakes are high and the pressure is real. But some of her most defining moments didn’t happen in the cockpit—they happened in rooms where she wasn’t fully welcomed, in systems that weren’t built for her, and in the quiet decisions to show up anyway. 

In this conversation, Natasha pulls back the curtain on what real mentorship looks like—not a formal program or polished process, but intentional moments of presence, honesty, and belief that can change the trajectory of someone’s life. From the moment she saw two women pilots and realized what was possible, to the way she now creates those same moments for others, this episode is a powerful reminder: representation doesn’t just inspire—it activates. 

Together, we explore what it takes to belong before you’re accepted, how to lead with both strength and emotional intelligence, and why mentorship isn’t optional—it’s your legacy. This is a conversation about courage: the courage to take up space, to stay true to who you are in environments that challenge you, and to lift others as you rise.

Key Learnings:

• You don’t have to be welcomed to belong. Sometimes leadership starts with claiming your space before others recognize it. 
• Mentorship happens in moments. A single conversation, gesture, or example can change someone’s entire life. 
• Representation activates possibility. Seeing someone like you can unlock a future you didn’t know was available. 
• Emotional intelligence is a leadership advantage. You can’t remove emotion—you must learn to read it, regulate it, and respond to it. 
• Lifting others is the work. Your leadership isn’t just about what you achieve—it’s about who you bring with you.

Resources:

• Natasha's LinkedIn
• Natasha's Tillman Scholar Bio

Guest Info:

Natasha Ryan is a Chief Warrant Officer Four in the United States Army, currently transitioning into retirement after 26 years of service. As a Blackhawk MEDEVAC pilot, she has flown life-saving missions in high-stakes combat environments and served in roles supporting hostage recovery and humanitarian efforts. Natasha is a Tillman Scholar and a passionate advocate for mentorship, service, and leadership grounded in emotional intelligence, and she is committed to helping others see what’s possible—especially in spaces where they may not yet feel they belong. 

Connect with Katie on LinkedIn, Facebook, and Instagram. You can also get free resources to help you on your purpose journey at www.katiesandoe.com.

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What if resilience isn’t about pushing through — but about how you live before the hard moments arrive? In this episode, Tissa Richards shares a powerful reframe — moving from reactive resilience to intentional, energy-aligned living. Learn practical tools to build sustainable strength, avoid burnout, and navigate both challenges and opportunities with clarity and confidence. 

Summary:

Dr. Katie sits down with Tissa Richards to challenge the cultural narrative that resilience is about grit, endurance, and “bouncing back.” Instead, Tissa introduces a powerful reframe: what most of us have been practicing is reactive resilience — constantly responding to what’s happening to us — which keeps us stuck in survival mode. 

Together, they explore the shift to intentional resilience — a proactive, energy-aligned way of living that helps you build the internal capacity to handle both challenges and opportunities. Through practical tools, real-life examples, and deeply reflective questions, this conversation invites you to move from asking “Why is this happening to me?” to “What is happening through me?” — unlocking clarity, agency, and sustainable strength in how you live, work, and lead.

Key Learnings:

• Resilience has been misunderstood. Most people equate it with endurance and survival, but that mindset keeps us stuck in reactive mode. 
• Shift from reactive → intentional resilience. True resilience is something you build proactively through habits, boundaries, and self-awareness — not something you access only in crisis. 
• Reframe your perspective. Asking “What’s happening through me?” instead of “to me?” creates meaning, ownership, and forward momentum. 
• Micro-moments build the muscle. Small, everyday decisions — like pausing, setting boundaries, and aligning your calendar with your priorities — create long-term resilience. 
• Energy fuels resilience. Noticing “glimmers” (small moments of joy or connection) helps replenish your capacity and sustain strength over time. 

Resources:

• Rethinking Resilience: Fueling Sustainable Strength in a Fast-Paced World by Tissa Richards
•  Website: https://www.tissarichards.com/
•  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tissa-richards/
•  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Tissa_richards

Guest Info:

Tissa Richards is a resilience strategist, keynote speaker, and author of Rethinking Resilience. She works with leaders and organizations to move beyond hustle culture and redefine resilience as an intentional, energy-aligned way of living and leading. Known for her “aggressively pragmatic” approach, Tissa blends bold perspective shifts with actionable tools to help people build sustainable strength and thrive in a fast-paced world. 

Connect with Katie on LinkedIn, Facebook, and Instagram. You can also get free resources to help you on your purpose journey at www.katiesandoe.com.