Would you rather have someone speak with you or at you? Do you know the difference? Is it really all that important? Maybe you're thinking of someone now who continually speaks at you, probably doesn't feel all that good? In episode number two, Jason and Dennis tackle this very question, With or At. Thanks for joining us, for commenting, for subscribing and inviting others to do the same.
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When you Speak AT people…People are a means to an endWords are just wordsYou waste the moments that you have themYou take no time to learn someone's storyYou have an MBA in talking DownYou're a Jedi at one upping You make people guess what you're thinkingClarity is not a part of your communicationYou Assume the worst and you let your emotions run rampant and cause damage.When you Speak WITH people, you…Genuinely Care for PeopleReally understand how powerful words areRealize moments with people are Precious You're a student of People You talk UP--not Down,You're a Master Question AskerYou actually LISTEN more than you SpeakNever one UP but you LIFT up You don't force a connectionYou Communicate ContinuallyYour Emotions are Tamed so they don't cause GREAT damage.