In New Zealand one in four children under the age of 18 are said to be living in a situation of physical violence, neglect or abuse. Men are often the perpetrators, but women also have a hand in reported and unreported cases. In this week's Spectrum, Sonia Sly looks at the stigmas around women who harm children, the prevalence of child abuse in New Zealand, and how local organisations assist and support victims.
Warning: This article contains stories and descriptions of domestic violence and child abuse. It may be disturbing to some readers.
A woman in her mid-30s ushers three children out of a bus. The two older children trundle off ahead, while the mother waits and yells at her third child to get the "F%&* off the bus".
But he can't. He is paralysed with fear. There is a drop that equates to an adult leaping off the roof of a single story building and for a child who is not yet two-years-old, the fall to the bottom is terrifying.
The child cries as the bus waits, while the mother's face turns into knots. She walks off without him pushing an empty stroller, forcing the small, helpless child to hurtle himself out of the bus. He lands on his knees, grazing his hands on concrete in compliance with his mother's aggressive commands.
This event is one of many hurdles that this little boy will face. He will learn to become independent, and should he slip, there will be no-one to catch his fall.
It is a saddening fact that tens of thousands of children in New Zealand live in at-risk environments, in a country with the fifth highest rate of child homicide of 31 OECD countries.
Here, one child dies every five weeks from inflicted injuries, and 1 in 4 children under the age of 18 are living in situations where they vulnerable to violence or maltreatment within the home. With horrific, high profile cases hitting the media headlines, we can no longer turn away from the facts.
But while we are outraged by these stories, the reasons behind child neglect and abuse are not always clear-cut.
Professor Dawn Elder is a Paediactric specialist at Wellington Hospital who works clinically across many areas relating to child protection.
She sees many cases come through the hospital doors.
"When you've been around as long as I have, you start to recognise the names of parents and they're the names of children who you've seen in the past. We almost always find that is inter-generational."…
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