Mila is newly diagnosed (3 months in) and agreed to do a podcast with me not only on her recent experience not just with herpes but her shift in dating intentions. As a Pansexual woman of Mexican descent, we talk through some culture and non-mainstream aspects of attraction including masculinity and femininity. My hope is that you are able to take away the importance of maintaining and developing your value for the sake of the community. There's a difference between having needs and being needy, and as with all things, the x factor is moderation.