In this insightful 30-minute podcast, we explore the dynamics of discordant dating, where one partner has herpes and the other does not. The discussion delves into the advantages and challenges of dating someone who also has herpes, highlighting the importance of focusing on overall compatibility rather than the virus itself. The podcast also addresses the common concern of herpes-positive individuals in discordant relationships, particularly the fear of transmitting the virus to their partner and how this affects their presence and engagement in the relationship. Additionally, the episode touches on the discrimination within the herpes community, where individuals with one type of herpes often stigmatize those with another type. Concluding with a powerful message, the podcast emphasizes the importance of understanding and managing one's emotions regarding herpes stigma to foster healthier, more fulfilling relationships, regardless of a partner's herpes status.