In episode 328 of Something Positive for Positive People, titled "Nonmonogamy Made Me Monogamous," we explore Casey' transformative journey from non-monogamous relationships to finding deep connection and commitment in a monogamous partnership. Diagnosed with herpes just over a year ago, Casey shares their experience navigating the complexities of relationships and identity. This candid conversation delves into the nuanced differences between viewing someone as "a partner" versus "my partner" and the implications of possessiveness in these terms. We also journey with Casey from the East Coast to Portland, seeking a lifestyle more in tune with environmental values. Interestingly, Casey's herpes diagnosis didn't anchor them to their relationship; instead, they discovered a fulfilling partnership with the very person from whom they contracted herpes. Join us as we discuss how navigating non-monogamy led Casey to unexpected discoveries about love, partnership, and self.