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In this Spicy Special, Aubrey Aust — a researcher, writer, and master's candidate at NYU — shares her insights into how we build safety, trust, and connection in intimate relationships. She explores the role of attachment theory, polyvagal theory, and neuroception in helping us feel truly secure with a partner. Aubrey also unpacks how attachment styles shape intimacy and why men's vulnerabilities around sexuality are often overlooked. Finally, she highlights the importance of care, ethics, and emotional safety in creating deeper, more fulfilling connections.

Learn more about Aubrey at aubreyaust.com

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The podcast episode explores the concept of using fantasy as a therapeutic outlet, particularly within the realm of adult entertainment. We're discussing how engaging in fantasy can help individuals, especially men, process complex emotions and desires in a safe and judgment-free environment. The episode delves into the therapeutic value of fantasy, supported by psychological research, highlighting how safely exploring desires can reduce shame and foster self-acceptance. The importance of distinguishing between fantasy and reality is emphasized, ensuring that fantasies remain consensual and enriching without disrupting real life.

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In this episode of Friday Features on Spicy Spectrum, we're talking to Milo Cyrus, an adult content creator who blends country charm with a spicy twist. Milo discusses his journey, creating content at ‘Gay Acres’ – a picturesque rural setting in Tennessee. He elaborates on his persona, 'Big Love Country Daddy', and shares his philosophy on authenticity and quality content.

Milo talks about engaging with social media platforms, navigating challenges, and building real connections with fans. He also explores his desire to expand into kink content and shares some of his future plans.

Check out this conversation on Patreon! 

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This Friday Features episode dives into the real, raw, and often misunderstood world of kink with Amanda Dames — a Certified Sex & Relationship Coach, Sexologist, and former professional dominatrix. From ABDL to degradation, humiliation, and other forms of roleplay, Amanda helps us unpack how our most taboo desires are often rooted in personal psychology and unspoken needs.

We talk about the shame many people feel around their kinks, how society and religion shape that shame, and why open, honest conversations are the key to healing and pleasure. 

 💻 Visit Amanda: www.TheKinkConsultant.com

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The podcast episode explores the differences between sensuality and sexuality in adult content, highlighting how these elements cater to deeper emotional and physical needs. We're sharing personal observations and experiences, underscoring the importance of intimacy and emotional connection in adult entertainment. The episode delves into the significance of sensual content in providing a safe space for consumers to explore their hidden desires and the growing preference for platforms like OnlyFans for more personal and interactive experiences. The discussion emphasizes the role of blending sensuality with sexuality to enhance the consumer's experience and foster a deeper connection with oneself. 

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 In this candid conversation, Ruby Mae, a New York-based independent companion, lifts the veil on the realities of the high-end companionship industry. She debunks common myths—from unrealistic beauty standards to the misconception that providers lack education—and sheds light on the emotional labor and business acumen required to thrive. Ruby opens up about the glamorization of sex work, and the risks involved. She also shares personal stories of growth, confidence, and how she has navigated the complexities of the industry. Whether you’re curious about the realities of companionship or the emotional journey that comes with it, this episode provides a raw, unfiltered perspective that’s sure to leave you with a new understanding.

Check out more: https://www.missrubymae.com/

 

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In this Spicy Special, psychotherapist and coach Tamara Driskell, LMHC shares powerful insights into the world of sexual healing, kink, and emotional safety. With years of experience working across the spectrum of non-monogamy, BDSM, trauma recovery, and sex work advocacy, Tamara explains how power exchange can be a deeply therapeutic experience.

She breaks down what the term BDSM really means, how cultural shame impacts sexual expression, and why open, honest communication is essential for exploring your desires safely. Plus, we dive into the rise of the "Mommy Dommy" dynamic and how certain fantasies and kinks become more popular during times of social change. Whether you’re curious, cautious, or craving connection — this conversation will expand your understanding of intimacy and healing.

Learn more about Tamara's work at www.tamaradriskell.com

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In this episode of Spicy Spectrum, we explore the profound journey of personal growth and reflection within online sex work. Pepper shares personal anecdotes, lessons learned, and the evolution of perspectives, highlighting resilience, empowerment, and authenticity in the adult entertainment industry. 

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In this intimate and revealing conversation, AVN-nominated Hottest Newcomer ‘25 and adult content takes us inside her decade-long journey through the adult industry, from making her own clips to starring in full-scale films. We dive into her passion for human sexuality, the rise of platforms like OnlyFans, and how she carved out a bold niche in fetish and dominatrix work. From Ball Busting to Golden Showers, Nina opens up about navigating fan relationships, dating and the personal power she brings to every scene.

 🔗 Connect with Nina: https://allmylinks.com/ninanovaxoxo

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In light of the Diddy trial, we're diving in deep. In this eye-opening Spicy Special, I’m joined by retired police officer Doug Pfeifer, who spent 25 years investigating Alaska’s most extreme sex crimes. From shocking paraphilias to the psychology of power and taboo, Doug shares real cases that will make you rethink everything you thought you knew about “deviant” desire.

We talk kink, crime, and how his unique career inspired his new book, 50 Shades of True Crime, a jaw-dropping look at just how “normal” most of us actually are.

Doug’s book can be found at: https://dougfifer.com

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