Love at first sight is an overwhelming sensation that feels like love but is a fairytale that is almost impossible, yet some people believe in it and some do not.

On this episode I had Fisola and Fome as my guests. Fisola believes there’s love at first sight while Fome doesn’t.

They both argued on the topic and took the show away from the host , which is a good thing.

Fisola tried to twist the head of the host into believing there’s love at first sight but Fome did a good job not making the host fall for it. Good balance yeah.

They didn’t arrive at an agreement which is expected but they did say a lot of meaningful points and scenarios. You should listen and enjoy the episode.

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Vibes, disagreements, agreements, laughter and ultimate fun.

This episode is called the Exclusive Talking stage, I had kitan and Victoria as my guests on this episode.

An exclusive talking stage is a well developed talking stage where by some certain and obvious things happening in a titled relationship happen in the talking stage.

We vibed and looked into some some really good questions and also talked on things from our point of view.

We argued and agreed and even learnt somethings from the episode.

Listen and enjoy.

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This special episode is a Blind date.

This blind date is a social experiment examining the possibility of forming and creating a bound or connection between two different people ( different gender), who do not know each other from Adam!.

On this episode, I had confidence and korede set up for a blind date. They didn’t even know each other’s name until the date.

They had 15 minutes to get to connect and vibe, with two life lines ( sneak a pic and skip a question)

They started the date on a slow and wired pace which is normal , they do not know each other , they went on with the date and they started vibing and getting to know each other.

When the date time was up , they didn’t want to stop, I asked them if they felt any connection and if they wanted to meet up after the date.

Listen and enjoy the episode and get to know if they will meet or not.

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On this episode, I interviewed musty.

He shared his experience in an open relationship.

An open relationship has been accepted as normal in the society but yet still uncommon or rather people have not been really comfortable sharing the definition of their relationship.

Musty story is a very interesting one and he left a warning “ you’ll think you can handle it until you get into it”.

Listen to his story , and enjoy.

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On this episode, Benjamin the host went solo.

I talked about lack of contentment in my relationship and how it affected me when I realised.

It went in an anticlimax kind of story telling, from how my first breakfast (breakup) lead to series and couple of situationships and fall out to the relationship where I wasn’t contented. Then later realising my lack of contentment after months of self growth and development.

I also talked about the pain I felt and how I was hunted by it. It was a very interesting story with much to learn from.

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What happened to dead dreams ?

We can’t formulate a theory because there are infinite amounts of things that makes a dream dead.

On this episode, I had joba and Tamilore as my guests and they said their opinions on dead dreams.

We talked on some hindrances to dreams and how the society affects dreams.

I formulated 4 major dream killers , which are fear , negative company , bad behaviour and procrastination. We talked more on them on the podcast , listen for yourself and enjoy.

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It’s not a new saying that men are the most likely to cheat, now the rate is almost even between both genders.

On this episode I had Victor and Shalom as my guests. Wonderful people with different point of views or similar in some cases.

They both shared their opinion on the above topic. Why do we cheat ?, this is practically a rhetorical question. There’s no perfect answer to it.

My guest and I answered to some situations where people cheat in their relationships.

The point where men starts cheating , the moment when the butterflies fades away in a woman. Many more questions were asked and answered on the episode.

We also looked into situations where the host asked “ will you call it cheating when there’s no defined relationship?”.

You should listen to the opinions of the guest. You’ll definitely enjoy this episode, enjoy!.

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On this episode, I had a double host thing. It was me(Benjamin) and my best friend Ella .

My best friend and I have been together for almost 4 years now and have been very genuine in our relationship, we’ve had to endure some difficult moments also.

Maintaining a good best friend relationship with an opposite gender is a beautiful and an interesting thing , but our society doesn’t want it.

It’s a great feeling for me and Ella to have proved society with all their theories wrong till this day. You deserve a best friend, same gender or opposite gender. Don’t listen to them and you’ll make more progress.

We sent a broadcast message to people and they asked use questions about how we’ve made it this far and how we maintain our relationship properly.

You should listen to this episode and get convinced even if it’s a little. Society is not always right. Enjoy the episode

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Simping,what do you understand by simping?.

Well, I got the simpmaster (fisola) and Kitan to talk on this episode.

We all know simping has been trending lately, the whole alpha male thing. But it’s not only men that do simp, women also simp.

On this episode I and my guest talked about the simping, what simping is , who a simp is, some simp behaviours and many more.

Kitan shared his awful simping experience while fisola referred us back to episode 5 where she said everything.

This episode is full of fun and laughter. I enjoyed it and I’m sure you’ll enjoy it also. So sit back relax and enjoy the episode.

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Societal pressure is inevitable, but it punishes a lot of youths, especially men.

On this episode, I had a round table talk with joba , semilore and kayode on “men and societal pressure and expectations “

The pressure on men has been consistent almost from the beginning of humanity. And it’s very hard for us(men).

I decided to talk on this topic with these guys and we had a lot of fun talking about this topic. Answering different questions the way we seem to understand it.

We talked about how financial pressure has been more emphasised. We also talked about family and friends being the “society”. Yes family , you’ll understand better when you listen to the podcast.

I assure you 90% authentic mind opening questions and answers, fun and laughter, funny life experiences and many more.

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