Dr. Bell teaches on the strife that God allowed between Lot and Abraham. God allowed this so that Abram could break away from his kindred. God will help out those who cannot let go of those they love that are not walking in the faith. These are those that are holding the believers back in their walk with Christ.
The moment we break away from that which is hindering us in our walk with Christ. God will open up our eyes to that which He has predestined for us.