Listen to Barbie, Ichael, and Robin, as they share their coming out stories in today’s episode of Spit and Swallow.

For all members of the rainbow, coming out is a unique experience that can’t really be forgotten. Whether it has been abrupt or a journey, it always elicited a lot of emotions - before, during, and after raising your flag.

In this episode of Spit and Swallow, the BIR shares their individual experiences of coming out to their family. It’s effects on self-expression, relationship to relatives, and even that unspoken pressure to succeed, everything is laid out in the open, naked and raw.

2:06 - B’s coming out

4:  - B’s transition

7:41 - I’s coming out 

8:45 - R’s coming out

10:29 - I’s first relationship 

13:16 - R’s self acceptance 

16:00 - R’s confidant

18 - I’s family adjusting 

20 - LGBTQ+ family member, a curse? 

24 - pressure after coming out

25: - looking for a safe space

Get insights from the BIR on LGBTQA+ dating scene from the past and the present.

The LGBTQA+ dating scene has evolved quite drastically since the introduction of the internet. From MIRC in the early 2000’s to Grindr and Tinder in the recent years.

This episode tackles the pros and cons of dating during the time when the internet was not that accessable to the masses versus now that the number of dating apps available is innunerable. Find out what the BIR’s take on this subject as they share their views and experiences in this episode of Spit and Swallow entitled “Dating”.

2:36 - Robin’s dating status

3:34 - How did the BIR go about dating and meeting men?

4:00 - Dating in the late 90’s and early 2000’s

4:44 - Catfishing

7:00 - Grand Eyeball

8:54 - Dating nowadays

9:12 - How dating apps work

9:55 - How Grindr works

10:14 - How Tinder works

11:00 - How does Dating Apps impact the LBTQA+ community?

11:45 - How does Social Media impact the society?

14:21 - Did the dynamic in dating changed overtime?

17:30 - Is flirting online cheating?

17:47 - Definition of cheating

19:11 - Barbie’s experience with cheating

21:49 - Robin’s experience with cheating

23:58 - Discrimination between and within dating apps

27:25 - What is the competition of Grindr?

28:28 - Preference of BIR in dating?

Listen to the BIR’s take sex - positions, preferences, and fantasies - in today’s episode of Spit and Swallow

A wide array of words - both formal and informal - has been used to refer to sex in the various languages spoken in the Philippines. From pakighilawas and pakikipagtalik, to kayat, kantot, or putik, all of these words refer to the taboo that is sex.

In this episode of Spit and Swallow, the BIR discuss everything about sex in the LGBTQ+ community. From the roles to take on bed, number of participants, foreplay, and other kinks, all the tea about your favorite topic is on the spotlight.

0:49 - Sex translated 

1:46 - position and preferences

4:09 - sexual fantasies

7: 15 - first times as receiver

9:03 - threesomes to orgies

10:50 - lubricants and condoms

15:02 - rimming and teabagging

16:39 - oral, anal, and hygiene

20:15 - top vs bottom discrimination 

26:26 - final thoughts

Find out what the BIR’s first experiences in sex and love.

First cut is the deepest, not only in love but also in sex. This is true to most of the people who experienced love and sex for the first time.

In the pilot episode of Spit and Swallow entitled “Firsts”,  Barbie, Ichael, and Robin discuss their first experiences in sex and love. They talk about how their experiences were different and/or the same with each other. From first crush and first love, to first kiss and first sex, the BIR discloses every little details for all the listeners.

1:30 - First crush

4:33 - First kiss

6:03 - First sex of Ichael

6:35 - First outdoor sex of Ichael

7:13 - Transgenders’ preference on dating and sex

9:32 - First penetrative sex of BIR with a guy

9:46 - Definition of sex

14:00 - Did you orgasm on your first?

15:00 - Choice of lubrication during the first penetrative encounter?

16:34 - Did you feel like you were molested on your first?

18:33 - What’s the age of legal consent?

21:12 - First love/boyfriend